Building A Purpose Driven Business With Andrea Andree Unwritten podcast

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What if the scariest transitions in life—divorce, death, or starting over—could be handled with peace, clarity, and even empowerment? In this episode of Unwritten , I sit down with family law and estate planning attorney Shaunis Mercer, co-founder of Peaceful Law, to explore how women can navigate divorce and life planning without fear-based tactics or emotional burnout. We talk about: Why peaceful legal support matters more than aggressive litigation How to make smart, values-driven choices in divorce or separation Estate planning as a radical act of self-respect (even if you're single or have "nothing") The power of asking honest questions early in relationships And how women can reclaim their worth and voice—legally and emotionally As someone who’s been divorced, reinvented, and rebuilt—both personally and professionally—I bring these insights into the work I do at Steph Shanks Photography , where I help women over 40 see their strength, beauty, and transformation reflected back to them. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by what-ifs or fearful of what’s next, this episode is a roadmap for reclaiming your agency—with compassion and clarity at the center. More links: Website: https://peacefullaw.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/ncpeacefullaw Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556203799350 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/peaceful-law/ https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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Lessons in Partnership & Pleasure with Christie Bemis 46:49

11 days ago46:49

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🎙️ Lessons in Partnership & Pleasure with Christie Bemis What does it mean to be truly seen and met in love—especially after 40? In this candid conversation, psychotherapist and women’s empowerment leader Christie Bemis shares her journey through divorce, dating in midlife, and building deeply authentic relationships. We talk about emotional safety, erotic intelligence, communication patterns, and how to unlearn shame so we can experience more pleasure and connection. Whether you're partnered, single, or somewhere in between, this episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to rewrite the rules of intimacy. Take the Quiz: FREE Assessment for Couples-SPARCS©: https://hot-pink-youniversity.mykajabi.com/sparcs-assessment-page Learn More About Christie Here : Download My Free Permission Slip Workbook Here . Christie Bemis Bio: Christie Bemis is a seasoned psychotherapist, sex educator, relationship coach, and author with over 20 years of experience helping individuals and couples unlock deeper connections and embrace their true potential. Known for her direct yet compassionate approach, Christie blends a vast knowledge base with a relatable style, making her a trusted expert in mental health, intimacy, and personal empowerment. As a sought-after speaker and podcast guest, Christie shares her insights on topics ranging from relationships and sexual health to self-empowerment. She also hosts the Ignite Your Life with Christie Bemis podcast, where she connects with listeners across multiple platforms. Christie is trained in the Somatica® Method for building intimacy and relationships and is a certified Level 1 provider of John Gottman's relationship work. Additionally, she is a Certified Sex Therapy Informed Practitioner and is currently advancing her training with Terry Real in Relational Life Therapy to become a certified practitioner. In 2010, Christie founded Hot Pink YOUniversity to empower women to live lives filled with passion, purpose, and play. She continues to operate under this brand, offering transformative experiences for women. In 2018, she launched Bemis Psychotherapy and Consulting , where she works with women, men, and couples in all relationship configurations to reignite their passions and create more fulfilling lives. In addition, Christie was the Director of Professional Education and Outreach for Back to the Body: Sensuous Retreats for Women. Through this work, she focused on expanding people’s understanding of sexological bodywork as a source for healing, expanding one’s understanding of their arousal and erotic expression. https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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Digging into Baraboo: Archaeology, Community & Nature with Seth Taft 44:56

18 days ago44:56

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In this episode, I sit down with Seth Taft—professional archaeologist and director of Downtown Baraboo—for a deep dive into local history, mental health, the power of small towns, and living life with purpose. From sacred effigy mounds to the magic of Main Street, Seth shares his personal journey and why Baraboo is more than just a dot on the map. ✨ Topics We Cover: Archaeology in Wisconsin and Native effigy mounds How Baraboo builds community through events Mental health, outdoor adventure, and healing The connection between photography and presence 🎧 Subscribe for more real stories about transformation, creativity, and purpose. 🔗 Learn more: stephshanks.com 📸 Book a portrait session or join a retreat 🎙️ Follow the podcast: Unwritten – new episodes every week https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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Building A Purpose Driven Business with Andrea Andree 37:17

25 days ago37:17

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Andrea Andrea went from an overwhelmed corporate achiever to an intuitive leadership coach — and in this conversation, we unpack how. Tune in for real talk about entrepreneurship after 30, healing through breathwork, embodying your inner guidance, and finally charging your worth without guilt or fear. Bio : Andrea did everything she thought a successful woman was supposed to do—college, career, marriage, kids. When she finally paused to take it all in, she realized she felt bored, disconnected, and deeply unfulfilled. She couldn’t ignore the voice inside whispering: if you stay on this path, you won't live up to your full potential . For a highly ambitious woman, that was terrifying. Years of self-discovery led her back to purpose. Her secret was getting out of her head and tuning into the wisdom of her body. She learned which impulses to trust, which fears to dissolve, and how to align her energy with the life she truly wanted. Now, she helps other ambitious, analytical women break free from living “by the book” and reconnect with their bodies - so they can finally feel alive in their own lives. Links: Website: https://andreaandree.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrea-andree/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/momsgonequantum/ https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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You Are Here: Practicing Gratitude, Growth, and Finding Your Place with Nancy Kalsow 28:25

5 weeks ago28:25

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“You are here” isn’t just a map marker—it’s a mindset. Nancy shares how journaling, retreat hosting, and learning to speak up helped her go from invisible in the workplace to designing a legacy rooted in alignment. We talk fear, leadership, writing books, and why it’s never too late to become who you really are. Follow Along with Nancy at https://www.kalsowcoach.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/nancykalsow/ Buy Her Book: https://www.amazon.com/Get-REAL-Reflect-Yourself-Greatness/dp/1734214015/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3LNS68ZR9AS33&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.2u0ebmFirt-7sKokgCrN8zGBIxMdlgRJASPKnHkvLx3GjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.Dk0D8wU-CftKZ9yCWBecbojfakq_HA2nGuHyw3iwnYE&dib_tag=se&keywords=Nancy+Kalsow+Get+REAL+book&qid=1728307681&sprefix=nancy+kalsow+get+real+book%2Caps%2C156&sr=8-1 Thanks for listening! https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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Permission to Sing: Shawndell’s Story 40:29

6 weeks ago40:29

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From gigging musician to psychology grad and beloved teacher, Shawndell Marks shows us what it looks like to honor your creative calling—no matter where you are in life. This conversation is all about giving yourself permission to be heard. www.shawndellmarksmusic.com takeaways Creativity is a lifelong journey that never ends. Music has the power to evoke deep emotions and memories. Education can be a transformative experience, especially later in life. Overcoming fear is essential to pursuing one's passions. Success is defined by personal fulfillment and purpose, not fame. Being a single mom presents unique challenges but also opportunities for growth. Traveling solo can lead to significant personal development. Reconnecting with nature can be a powerful way to reset and recharge. It's important to follow your bliss and pursue what excites you. Teaching music can be as fulfilling as performing. https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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You Are Loved, You Matter, You Belong 45:55

7 weeks ago45:55

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Kelly Kendall joins me for a heartfelt conversation about identity, healing, and the magic of capturing someone’s soul through photography. We go deep into worthiness, self-acceptance, and what it means to truly be present in your life—on and off camera. You can follow Kelly and her beautiful work at: 📸 @kellykendallstudios on Instagram and Facebook 📍 Prairie du Sac, Wisconsin About Kelly: Kelly Kendall is a portrait and branding photographer who helps women step into their power and be seen. At Kelly Kendall Studios, she creates an experience that goes beyond headshots—guiding clients to show up confidently in their brand, business, and life. With a deep love for connection and storytelling, she helps women embrace their worth, own their visibility, and step fully into who they are. Her work is more than photography—it’s about empowerment, authenticity, and showing the world the real you. https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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Beyond the Ballot with Brett Topham 36:00

8 weeks ago36:00

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Brett Topham believes local government can be where big problems get solved. We dive into his unconventional path—from hospitality to finance to politics—and explore his ideas for smart fiscal planning, public-private partnerships, and why a hundred-year-old pool might just hold the heart of a town. https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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Trusting the Whisper: Amber Swenor’s Journey from Strategy to Soul 45:21

9 weeks ago45:21

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Amber Swenor trusted the quiet inner whisper—and it changed everything. In this episode, we talk about making bold moves, releasing external expectations, and building a life that feels as good as it looks. Tune in for a heart-centered convo on business, bravery, and what it means to be free. Learn more about Amber Here: https://www.amber-swenor.com/ https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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From Skating to Painting with Kyle Martin 47:16

10 weeks ago47:16

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Kyle Martin started out in the skateboarding world, running a skate shop and park in Reedsburg, WI. But when a devastating flood washed it all away, he picked up a paintbrush—and never looked back. Nearly two decades later, Kyle has become a staple artist in Wisconsin, capturing its beauty through vibrant landscape paintings. In this episode, we talk about his winding journey from skate decks to easels, the mental game of creativity, overcoming limiting beliefs, and what keeps him inspired. https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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From Teaching to Travel: Shelley Mordini’s Journey to a Life of Purpose 36:27

11 weeks ago36:27

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What happens when you step away from the career you’ve built for decades? Shelley Mordini shares her incredible transformation—from high school teacher to intuitive medium, travel expert, and guide for those seeking deeper meaning in their lives. https://www.barabootours.com/ shelleymordini@gmail.com https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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Ditching the Rulebook: How Susie Moon Made Authenticity Her Super Power 41:01

12 weeks ago41:01

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Susie Moon never saw herself as a leader—until she became one. In this conversation, we unpack how she turned a love of connection into a thriving business, the lessons she learned from corporate life, and why being true to yourself is the best marketing strategy. Plus, she shares some game-changing networking tips for introverts and extroverts alike. Find more info about Susie here: https://susiemoon.net/ https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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The Art of Savoring Life: A Conversation with Andrea Auten 1:12:21

13 weeks ago1:12:21

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What does it mean to truly savor life, even in the face of uncertainty and grief? My guest, Andrea Auten, is a writer, teacher, and widow who has learned to navigate life’s biggest transitions with grace and courage. We discuss everything from honoring the past to stepping into an unknown future and the lessons we can all take from her incredible journey. https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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The Rhythm of Healing: Dance, Love, and Finding Joy After Loss 49:09

14 weeks ago49:09

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What if the way we move through life is just like a dance? In this episode, Amy Torseth-Teelan reflects on her journey of teaching dance, nurturing relationships, and finding meaning after loss. We dive deep into the give and take of relationships, the beauty of resilience, and how allowing ourselves to feel pain can lead to deeper healing. https://www.stephshanks.com https://www.instagram.com/stephshanksphotography https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephshanks/ https://www.youtube.com/@stephshanks https://www.tiktok.com/@stephshanks?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc https://www.facebook.com/stephshanksphotography…

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Business, Bravery & Breaking the mold with Laura Hulleman 53:03

15 weeks ago53:03