When the Brain Lies: The Paradox of Overthinking and Anxiety

V.I.B.E. Living Podcast

Ever noticed how your brain tries to convince you that overthinking is just part of the process? In this illuminating conversation with psychotherapist Lindsey Carnick, we unravel the fascinating paradox at the heart of anxiety and overthinking.
Lindsey introduces a powerful metaphor that might forever change how you view anxious feelings: anxiety is merely an alarm system, not the threat itself. Just like a smoke detector that goes off when you're cooking or taking a hot shower, our internal alarm systems frequently signal problems that don't actually exist. The key isn't to fear the alarm but to recognize it as information that might—or might not—require action.
We explore why thinking has become our go-to strategy for everything (it's been tremendously successful in most areas of life!), and why this same strategy fails us miserably when applied to our emotional world. The feelings and thoughts can coexist without reinforcing each other, a skill that takes practice but offers tremendous freedom.
The most valuable takeaway might be Lindsay's simple but profound question for breaking free from overthinking spirals: "Is it happening right now?" Our minds create vivid "mind movies" about potential futures that trigger real physiological responses to imagined scenarios. Learning to anchor ourselves in the present moment offers a gentle off-ramp from these mental loops.
For anyone struggling with anxiety, overthinking, or the tendency to stuff emotions, this conversation offers practical tools, compassionate insights, and a new framework for understanding your mind's patterns. You'll walk away with specific strategies to create space between reactions and responses, honor your feelings without being ruled by them, and recognize when your thinking isn't serving you.

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Chapters

1. Anxiety as an Alarm, Not a Threat (00:00:00)

2. Introduction to Lindsay Karnick (00:09:30)

3. When Thinking Gets in the Way (00:21:30)

4. Honoring Feelings vs. Thinking (00:24:30)

5. Overthinking and Anxiety Management (00:24:40)

6. The Power of the Pause (00:27:00)