The McDonald's Drive-Thru Trick to Attracting the Right Relationship

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If you've ever said “I just want a healthy relationship” but deep down you don’t actually know what that looks like for you — this episode is going to land hard (in the best way).

This one came off the back of something real: I had to cancel a live workshop because I was unwell. And the response I got absolutely blew me away. The kindness, the compassion — it reminded me of the exact thing I teach all the time… 👉 You attract what you're aligned with. 👉 You can’t get clarity in love if you’re vague with yourself. 👉 If you're saying you want kindness, respect, emotional safety… are you actually living in a way that aligns with that? In this short but powerful solo episode, I share what I call The McDonald's Drive-Thru Trick — a simple but powerful reframe that will help you finally start attracting the right relationship instead of repeating the same old patterns. ✨ What You’ll Learn: Why saying “I want a healthy relationship” isn’t enough How to get clear on what you actually want from love The nervous system link between what we say we want and who we actually choose A practical task to realign your energy, your boundaries, and your dating standards 🧠 Your Task: Pick one thing you want from a future partner. Now ask yourself: “Am I giving that to myself?” Because clarity isn’t just a mindset — it’s a signal. And once you’re clear, the wrong ones can’t hook you anymore. Get more from Sam Morris: Subscribe to the podcast Find out what healthy love looks like for you with my healthy love calculator - https://www.thesammorris.com/before-quiz Want to go deeper?

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Keywords

self-love, relationships, authenticity, personal growth, community support, healing, toxic relationships, self-respect, emotional well-being, personal development

Takeaways

I was feeling so bad and the sheer amount of kindness and understanding that I received just blew my mind.
If you are ever doubting yourself, just realize that you are not the problem.
Think about one thing that you want from a future partner.
How are you treating yourself kindly?
If you do not love yourself enough to say no to people, it's near impossible to find someone aligned with you.
What does a healthy relationship mean to you?
It's very easy to notice if people do not fit that alignment once you know what you want.
You can't fall into the same traps if you know what you want.
This is a short series with useful tips around nervous system regulation and dating.
I don't edit these videos so they are just me talking to you.