41: Tech Boundaries - Reclaiming Childhood from Digital Distractions

Whatever Is Excellent with Leanne Tuggle

Navigating the delicate balance between technology and childhood development has become one of parenting's greatest challenges. Drawing from insightful works like "The Anxious Generation" and "Opt Out Family," this raw exploration delves into what happens when families dare to set counter-cultural boundaries around screens and devices.
Through personal stories of both struggle and triumph, I share how eliminating screen time during dinner prep transformed my twins from passive viewers to creative players. You'll discover why establishing tech boundaries isn't about restriction but about creating space for imagination, problem-solving, and genuine connection. Rather than following cultural defaults that have drastically shifted childhood from play-based to phone-based, we can intentionally shape our family's relationship with technology.
The truth is uncomfortable but liberating: easy parenting choices rarely yield the best outcomes for our children. When we pacify with screens for momentary peace, what long-term skills might our children be missing? This episode offers practical alternatives including designated tech-free zones, outdoor exploration opportunities, and age-appropriate boundaries that evolve with your children. Most importantly, you'll find encouragement that you're not alone in questioning the prevailing wisdom about kids and technology. Many parents are quietly choosing to prioritize presence over convenience, guided by biblical principles like "guarding our hearts" and "making the best use of time." What rhythms around technology might help your home better reflect what you truly value?

Recommended Reading:

The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt

The Tech-Wise Family by Andy Crouch

The Opt-Out Family by Erin Loechner

How to Raise an Adult by Julie Lythcott-Haims

When the Street Lights Come On by Ginny Yurich

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Chapters

1. My Journey With Literary Preparation (00:00:00)

2. Living Counter-Culturally With Technology (00:02:59)

3. Breaking Screen Dependency at Home (00:05:26)

4. Our Family's Technology Boundaries (00:08:23)

5. From Play-Based to Phone-Based Childhood (00:12:05)

6. Practical Steps for Intentional Tech Limits (00:14:50)

7. Setting God-Honoring Technology Standards (00:17:52)