Ep 12 Boundaries 101: Married To An Alcoholic? 2 Foundational Boundaries To Set First!

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BE WARNED! This podcast will contain spoilers for Wednesday Season 2, episodes 1-4. Join host Caitlin Reilly each week as she takes you deep into the twisted world of Wednesday with an amazing group of guests! And producer Thing will be helping out to make sure everything goes to plan - well, mostly, anyway... In this episode: Jenna Ortega peels back the layers on the new tension between Wednesday and Enid. And that terrifying vision! Plus… Series showrunners Al Gough and Miles Millar reveal why they made Morticia Addams such a central character in this season, and what it means for Wednesday. Whether you’re a normie or an outcast, the Wednesday Season 2 Official Woecast will be the place for all things Nevermore! For more juicy details about Wednesday Season 2, head over to Tudum.com to get all of the latest updates. 1:15 Preparing for Season 2 3:25 Evolving Wednesday’s look for Season 2 4:12 Addams clan expands for Season 2 6:12 Joanna Lumley joining the cast 7:38 Wednesday and Enid's Friendship 9:00 Wednesday’s Vision 10:50 Jenna is a Producer 13:45 Al and Miles introduction 14:03 Wednesday takes down a Serial Killer 15:05 Intergenerational Relationships & the Addams Women 17:48 Catherine Zeta-Jones as Morticia in Season 2 20:48 Wednesday and Enid’s relationship 24:04 Steve Buscemi joining the cast 26:19 Wednesday’s popular! 27:45 Boy with the Clockwork Heart stop motion sequence…

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When the confusion and gaslighting are a normal way of life in your alchoholic marriage, and life is flying at you so fast, it is so hard to even recognize where to begin setting BOUNDARIES. Today I share my top foundational boundaries to begin with. Setting boundaries is never an easy task when addiction is present. Listen in to find out why I believe this is the place to start to protect your peace (as much as possible) in the future!

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Ep 12 Boundaries 101: Married To An Alcoholic? 2 Foundational Boundaries To Set First!

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Ep 32 How Do I Set A Boundary That Actually Works In Active Addiction? 3 Traps To Avoid 31:53

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When you’re living in the chaos of an alcoholic marriage, boundaries aren’t just helpful—they’re essential. But here’s the thing: not all boundaries are created equal. Some can actually cause more damage, fuel defensiveness, or leave you carrying all the accountability. In this episode, I’m sharing three specific things I don’t do when I set boundaries —habits I’ve learned to leave behind so my boundaries are clear, effective, and truly protective for me and my family. We’ll talk about how to avoid the traps that make boundaries backfire, and how to phrase them in ways that lower defensiveness instead of triggering it. Listen in to hear exactly what these three things are and how you can start shifting your approach today. If you’ve been struggling to set boundaries that actually work , this is for you. 📩 Got a boundary question you’d like me to answer on the show? Email me at https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession…

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EP 31 Why Aren't My Boundaries Working? 4 Boundary Mistakes In Active Addiction 37:09

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Setting boundaries in a marriage impacted by addiction is hard enough—but what happens when we set boundaries that backfire? In this episode, we’re walking through 4 common boundary mistakes Christian wives often make when navigating life with an alcoholic spouse: Boundaries made in anger – when emotions take over and clarity is lost Not following through – the emotional toll of boundaries that don’t stick Poorly communicated boundaries – the best of intentions, but instantly the defensiveness shows up from hubby! Controlling boundaries – These sounded so good in my head, but only caused fights and a cycle of NO change. You’ll hear real-life examples of what these mistakes look like in the home—and how to reframe them with love, clarity, and biblical wisdom. Plus, I’ll show you how to spot the difference between a boundary that punishes and one that protects. 💬 Have a question you’d like answered on the show? Or want to share something God is doing in your life? I’d love to hear from you. Email me at https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession…

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Ep 30 How Did It Get This Bad? Setting Boundaries In An Alcoholic Marriage Broke My Heart! 23:36

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There’s a specific kind of heartbreak that comes when you realize the life you dreamed of isn’t the life you’re living—and that setting a boundary might be the only way to protect your peace, your children, or your sanity. In this deeply personal episode, I share my own experience of grieving what I thought family life would look like—and the painful but necessary process of accepting that I had to set boundaries in an addicted marriage in order to stay grounded in reality, not fantasy. You’ll hear: The emotional weight that comes before setting a boundary What it’s like to pray and wrestle with God before taking action How it feels to be forced into choices you never wanted to make The internal tug-of-war between loyalty to your marriage and protecting your children If you’ve ever asked, “How did it get this bad?” or “Why do I have to be the one to draw the line?” —this episode is for you. 💌 If you’re feeling torn about where to draw the line, you’re not alone. Email me at https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession…

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Ep 29 // Interview PT 2 // Do I Keep Bringing Recovery Up? How Can I Encourage AA? We Are Repeating A Toxic Cycle! Insights From Our Story ♥ 22:57

27 days ago22:57

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Welcome back to Part 2 of my honest conversation with my husband, who is now in long-term recovery from alcohol. This episode dives into some of the most painful questions Christian wives face when living with an alcoholic spouse: 💔 Should I keep bringing up the drinking? 🙏 Can I encourage AA or other recovery programs without nagging? 🔁 Why does it feel like we’re repeating the same toxic cycle over and over again—and he doesn’t even see it? If you’ve ever felt like something big happens, emotions explode, and then everything just quietly resets without real change... you’re not alone. We talk about why this cycle happens, what we’ve learned from it, and how God can open the door to true conversations and healing—even when it feels impossible. We also explore: How to invite your husband to open AA meetings (even as a recovery date night!) Why some AA meetings don’t go well—and why it’s okay to try again The role of prayer and timing in recovery conversations Encouragement for when you’re discouraged, stuck, or silently suffering This episode is for the wife who is doing her best to hold it all together with grace, but who needs real support, real answers, and real hope. Full Listener Question: "My husband admits his drinking is a problem, but he's not doing anything about it . If I ask him if he’s looked into AA, Celebrate Recovery, or Regeneration, he says he hasn’t had time and will look into it later. He’s gone to AA meetings before but says he doesn’t think it’s for him. Do I keep bringing this up? I don’t want to nag him, but it’s eating at me inside not to say anything. I feel like we’re in a painful cycle — something happens, we talk about it for a couple days, then we move on until it happens again . I feel like he’s just appeasing me in those moments because he knows I’ll eventually stop asking. He doesn’t communicate his feelings at all, so I have no idea what he’s thinking." 🔗 https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession…

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Ep 28 // Interview // He Knows There's A Drinking Problem But Doesn't Get Help. How Can A Wife Support Getting Into Recovery? 22:50

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In this special two-part episode, I sit down with my husband—who is in long-term recovery from alcoholism—to answer a heartfelt and all-too-relatable question from a listener: "My husband admits his drinking is a problem, but he's not doing anything about it . If I ask him if he’s looked into AA, Celebrate Recovery, or Regeneration, he says he hasn’t had time and will look into it later. He’s gone to AA meetings before but says he doesn’t think it’s for him. Do I keep bringing this up? I don’t want to nag him, but it’s eating at me inside not to say anything. I feel like we’re in a painful cycle — something happens, we talk about it for a couple days, then we move on until it happens again . I feel like he’s just appeasing me in those moments because he knows I’ll eventually stop asking. He doesn’t communicate his feelings at all, so I have no idea what he’s thinking." Together, we reflect honestly on what life was like when we were in that same stuck place—and what we wish we had known then. From both sides of the struggle, we share what was helpful, what wasn’t, and what conversations planted real seeds of change. In Part 1, we explore: The mindset of an alcoholic who knows there's a problem but isn’t taking action What a first conversation about recovery looked like in our home How to approach your husband without nagging—and why timing and tone matter The emotional toll of watching someone you love choose not to get help Whether your husband is just beginning to wrestle with his drinking or you feel trapped in a repeating cycle of hope and disappointment, this episode offers honest insight and encouragement from our story and our victory! Resources Mentioned: Joe and Charlie Tapes- 2 Old Timers in AA walking and talking through the Big Book and breaking it down in a way only they can do:) These are available on YouTube and also on the AA app. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhl3xlE0-GdweI1gG5QoeY9iIRCt2w_aI If you have a question you'd like answered on a future episode—or just want to connect—you can email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com. If you’re interested in going deeper into the dynamics of your specific situation, you can book a summer 1:1 session with me here: https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession Part 2 continues next week with more discussion, insight, and tackling the repetitive cycle that conversations tend to have in active addiction. (Alcohol or Drugs will elicit the same patterns of the cycle resisting sobriety and recovery.)…

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Ep 27 Summer & Self-Sabotage: Does Your Husband Start Meaningless Fights For An Excuse To Drink? 17:51

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Summer is supposed to be a time of fun, family, and freedom — but for Christian wives of alcoholics, events like the 4th of July, barbecues, and neighborhood gatherings can catch you off guard with behavior not anticipated. Expecting Family Time but your husband self sabotages in order to drink and you end up alone or with all the kids without him? In this heartfelt episode of Wife on the Rocks , we’re talking about the real effects of alcohol in marriage — not just on the alcoholic husband, but on the wife and the family unit as a whole. From grill outs where he’s the only one drinking, to family plans that suddenly unravel into chaos, to fireworks nights you end up attending alone with the kids… we get into all of it. You’ll hear: How summer events often reveal painful patterns in alcoholic behavior The emotional toll of being pushed away so he can drink in peace while you carry the family. The subtle (and not-so-subtle) sabotage that ruins what should be family time Why choosing not to attend certain events can actually be wise What it looks like to reclaim peace, even when your heart is breaking And most importantly, we talk about how you can walk this hard road with strength , with faith , and without losing yourself . Even when it hurts, even when you’re crying on the drive to the fireworks — you are not alone. 💬 Want to share your story or suggest a future episode topic? Email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com 📅 Want to go deeper into your situation? Book a 1-on-1 session here: https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession…

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Ep 26 Conflict in the World, Chaos at Home: How To Find Peace Amid Addiction, Alcoholism, and Anxiety 29:35

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In this episode of Wife on the Rocks , we’re talking about what it feels like to live in a world full of uncertainty—when bombs are being dropped overseas and emotional bombs are going off in your own home. With growing tensions between Israel and Iran and news of U.S. involvement, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the global instability. But for Christian wives married to alcoholics, the chaos isn’t just out there—it’s also right here, in the home. How do we process fear about the future when we’re already living in a constant state of survival? How do we prepare our families wisely when our husbands aren’t in a position to lead, protect, or even participate in the conversation? We explore: What to do when your alcoholic husband can’t offer the strength and stability your family needs How to talk to your kids when they need reassurance Why self-sufficiency and emergency planning feel overwhelming when addiction dominates your daily life Practical steps to quiet your mind and lead your family in peace, even when the world feels like it’s spinning out of control How to reset your spirit with Scripture and walk in God’s wisdom, not fear We’re anchoring this episode in two powerful verses: Philippians 4:4-7 – “Do not be anxious about anything…” Matthew 6:25-34 – “Do not worry about tomorrow…” If you're feeling anxious, under-equipped, or just plain tired of holding it all together—you’re not alone. This episode will help you take a deep breath, reset your mind, and find your footing again with God’s peace as your guide. 🕊 Book a private coaching session: https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession More dates are being added soon—watch for the full July calendar to be released next week and this link will update dates automatically. 📩 Have a question you'd like answered on a future episode? Send it to: hello@wifeontherocks.com…

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Ep 25 Discerning Who Is Safe To Talk To About Your Alcoholic Husband And The Chaos Of Addiction In Your Home? 35:17

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How do you know if someone is safe to talk to about your marriage, your alcoholic husband, or the chaos addiction is causing in your home? In this episode of Wife on the Rocks , we explore a powerful litmus test to help Christian wives of alcoholics discern who they can trust with their story—and who might cause more harm than help. If you’ve ever wondered whether you should open up to a friend, family member, pastor, or counselor about your situation, this episode is for you. You’ll learn how to recognize the difference between biblical counsel and secular advice and how to spot red flags in emotional conversations. We talk about: Navigating life with an alcoholic spouse through a Christian lens How to find safe, biblical support for Christian wives of addicts The dangers of emotional affairs and male “mentors” Why gossip and broken trust can hurt your healing Secular vs. faith-based advice for wives of alcoholics What makes someone a trustworthy, prayerful support The importance of recovery groups like Al-Anon for family members of addicts Plus, I share how Christian coaching for wives of alcoholics can be a lifeline when you don’t have a safe person in your life who understands what you’re walking through. As someone who’s lived this personally, I offer faith-based, confidential coaching to help you navigate this painful season with clarity, peace, and spiritual strength. Email me at Hello@wifeontherocks.com to gain access to the schedule and book a session! Keywords: Christian wife, alcoholic husband, addiction in the home, Christian counseling, faith-based support, boundaries in marriage, recovery, Al-Anon, emotional safety, biblical advice, Christian marriage help, alcoholism, Christian addiction counseling, wives of addicts, Christian coach, safe support for addiction, Godly counsel for wives, alcohol addiction recovery support.…

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EP 24 Health: Alcohol, Liver Damage, and Loving a Husband Who Won’t Stop Drinking. 28:19

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Are you the only one paying attention to the warning signs? What even are the warning signs for Liver Disease and Liver Cirhossis and when to expect them. There may be NO symptoms or concerns at this time, but looking in the future has you concerned? Maybe you are seeing his yellowing eyes, his constant fatigue, his mood swings? Let's unpack this together. The only one praying for his health — while he shrugs it off? If that’s you, I want to start with this: You are not crazy. You are not overreacting. And you are not being controlling for caring deeply about the man you love. In this episode, I speak directly to the Christian wife who feels alone in her concern — like she’s watching a slow-motion car crash while everyone else looks away. We’ll talk honestly about what alcohol does to the liver, how quietly damage can build, and why your fear makes perfect sense. I’ll also walk you through what you can lovingly release, because it was never yours to carry. 💡 You'll hear: What the liver actually does and why alcohol attacks it silently What liver damage looks like in real life (and why symptoms often come late) The real reason your concern matters — even if he’s not ready to change What it means to care without carrying A reminder that you are not his doctor This isn’t just about biology — it’s about the burden of love, and the freedom of surrender. 📩 Got questions or want to connect? You can reach me anytime at hello@wifeontherocks.com Hepatic Liver, Liver Cirhossis, Liver Disease Signs, Alcohol, Alcoholism, Fatty Liver, Pancreatitis, You are not alone, sister. And you were never meant to carry this alone.…

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EP 23 Can You Be a Good Christian Wife and Still Be Angry At The Unfairness Of Addiction? 32:21

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As a Christian wife living with an alcoholic husband, you’ve probably wrestled with a deep emotional conflict: “I know I’m supposed to forgive, but I’m furious.” In this episode, we’re opening up the conversation about anger—what Scripture really says, why it’s not a sin to feel it, and how to move through it without shame. We’ll unpack the emotional toll of carrying an unfair burden, the conflict between Christian service and soul-level exhaustion, and what options are actually available to you as a woman of faith in a hurting home. If you’ve been stuffing your emotions to be the "good Christian wife," this one is for you. 📩 I'd love to hear your story or pray for you—email me anytime at hello@wifeontherocks.com 🎙️ Special Tribute: Phil Robertson Before we close, I’m honoring the life and legacy of Phil Robertson, founder of Duck Commander , beloved husband to Miss Kay, and a man radically transformed by the grace of Jesus. His early years were marked by addiction and brokenness, but God wrote a redemption story that has reached millions. Their powerful testimony is captured in the film The Blind, which tells the raw and beautiful journey from chaos to Christ. You can also hear Phil and his family on their podcast Unashamed, where they boldly share Scripture, real-life struggles, and the power of the gospel without holding back. Phil’s story reminds us that no life is too far gone for Jesus to redeem. And that hope? It’s for your home, too.…

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Ep 22 Part 2 Heavy Drinking or Alcoholism? Not Sure If Hubby Can Stop Drinking Or Not? 26:37

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Still unsure if your husband is “just” a heavy drinker or a true alcoholic? The truth is: chasing a diagnosis often becomes a distraction that delays the healing process. In this episode, we talk about why trying to “figure him out” won’t fix anything—and what you can do instead. Whether your husband meets a textbook definition or not, the chaos still hurts, and you deserve peace. You'll hear: Why obsessing over the “right” label can keep wives stuck in fear and codependency 4 litmus test questions to help you decide when a boundary is needed How both heavy drinking and alcoholism cause emotional instability in the home A Christian perspective on stepping forward without all the answers Real-life discussion of when helping crosses the line into enabling This episode is an invitation to stop diagnosing and start discerning what God is calling you to do in your family. 💌 If you have questions you’d like me to cover on the podcast, or want more info about 1-on-1 coaching, email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com…

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EP 21 Part 1 Is It Alcoholism Or Just Heavy Drinking? Where Is The Line? 22:41

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Are you constantly wondering whether your husband is an alcoholic or “just” a heavy drinker? Maybe you've searched for clarity in books, blogs, or online quizzes—hoping that labeling his behavior will give you peace. In this episode, we break down what the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous says about the three types of drinkers, including what defines a “real alcoholic”—and why understanding this framework may help, but it’s not your responsibility to diagnose. You'll hear: A clear overview of the 3 drinker types described in AA literature What a "real alcoholic" looks like according to the Big Book Why this knowledge can offer insight—but also keep wives stuck Real-life home examples of what each type might look like in daily life Encouragement for Christian wives navigating confusion and chaos This episode offers education—not to label your husband—but to help you understand what you’re dealing with and why his drinking affects your heart and home either way. If you want to read the full chapter regarding this in the Big Book of AA here is a link to the Big Book for free online on the AA website. Scroll down for Chapter 2. There is a Solution. (pp.17-29) https://www.aa.org/the-big-book 💌 Want to be added to the waitlist or learn more about 1:1 coaching? Email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com 💭 Have a question you'd like answered on the show? Email me anytime at hello@wifeontherocks.com and I may include it in a future episode.…

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Ep 20 Helping Your Husband Or Enabling Addiction? A Litmus Test For Wives 24:13

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If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re helping your husband or enabling his addiction, this episode is for you. As Christian wives, we’re called to love and support—but when codependency creeps in, it can be hard to tell if our actions are helping or hurting. In today’s episode, I share two simple but powerful questions—your litmus test —to help you decide where a boundary might be needed. These questions will help you check your motives, discern if you're stepping into an enabler role, and bring clarity to those hard, in-the-moment decisions. We’ll talk about how not setting boundaries can leave you feeling more like his mother than his wife, and how resentment often builds when we’re stuck in a cycle of codependency. We'll also explore the ever-shifting line between helping from a place of faith and unintentionally enabling, and why that line often has to be redrawn with each situation. If you're navigating the storm of loving a man in addiction and want to reclaim your peace, this episode offers both practical tools and spiritual encouragement. ✨ Want to be added to the waitlist or get more info about 1:1 coaching sessions? 📩 Email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com – I’d love to support you. 💬 Have a question you’d love to hear answered on the show? Send it to hello@wifeontherocks.com , and I’ll try to include it in a future episode.…

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Ep 19 Peace in the Chaos Starts Here: A Mindset for Boundaries as the Wife of an Alcoholic 19:05

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In this episode on boundaries, we return to the basics—what they are, why they matter, and how they serve as a powerful shield for your peace. Think of boundaries not as walls to keep your husband out, but as a protective dome that creates space between you and the chaos of addiction. This distance isn’t about punishment—it’s about preserving your well-being and protecting your children. If you're a Christian wife navigating life with an alcoholic husband, this episode is for you. Whether you’re just beginning to explore boundaries or need a fresh reminder of why they matter, you’ll find clarity and encouragement here. Want your questions answered in a future episode? Submit them anytime—I'd love to hear from you. hello@wifeontherocks.com If you're struggling to set healthy boundaries and need outside perspective, support, and accountability, I’m opening up a handful of 1-on-1 sessions soon. Email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com to be added to the list.…

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Ep 18 //Interview// An Alcoholic Husband’s Perspective: Pre Recovery + Active Alcoholism Thought Process Of Denial and Minimization 16:10

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Have you ever wondered what your husband is thinking!? Active Addiction comes with all kinds of twisted thinking in the mind to justify otherwise unhealthy behavior. In this powerful episode, we delve into the intricate journey from a husband's perspective as alcohol steadily takes command over life. I'm joined by my husband, who courageously opens up about the deep, internal conflict he faced during his battle with alcoholism trying to prove alcohol wasn’t a problem. For many men, the path down this dark road is marked by denial, shame, and an overwhelming sense of being trapped. If you're striving to understand what happens when alcohol becomes the silent third party in your marriage, this episode sheds light on just that. Join us as we discuss: 1. **The Subtle Descent**: How my husband first began to notice alcohol's grip tightening around his life, evolving from a social pastime to a looming dependency. 2. **Living a Double Life**: Listen as he shares the internal battle between projecting a facade of control and feeling engulfed by the chaos within as he fought the truth that alcoholism was taking over. 3. **Denial and Justification**: A raw look at the excuses he made to himself and others, all while the addiction quietly reshaped his world. In opening his heart, my husband provides invaluable insights into the mind of someone entangled in addiction’s clutches. Our candid discussion is an invitation to wives seeking understanding, drawing the curtain back to illuminate the complexities faced by christian men dealing with addiction and offer a pathway to empathy and healing in the marital relationship. Today’s Referenced Quote: ”Addiction is a response to human suffering” --- You don’t have to walk through this alone!! If you're interested in getting on the wait list for a one-on-one session with me, please email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com Additionally, if you have any questions for the show, whether it's my perspective or my husband’s, send them my way at hello@wifeontherocks.com…

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Ep 02 Parenting With an Alcoholic Husband? Tips for Peace & Joy with Kids. 39:18

38 weeks ago39:18

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Trying to parent with someone in Active Alcoholism is nearly impossible! Ask me! I did it for years and even the best mama can get so overwhelmed by….. Gaslighting. Minimization. Confusion. Frustration. Anger. In the depths of your husband’s addiction have you ever felt paralyzed trying to plan and schedule life with kids because your husband refuses to commit or follow through? In this episode, we’ll explore the heartbreak of unilateral parenting with an alcoholic husband. Single-Married Parent : Can you relate to the description below? A devoted wife and mother striving to balance her children’s needs with her heartfelt desire to co-parent alongside her husband. However, his ongoing battle with alcoholism continually places her in the painful position of shouldering the weight of parenting decisions alone—ultimately ensuring the stability, safety, and well-being her children deserve. ————————— Check Out The Children/Parenting Series : EP 15 Childhood Trauma And The Impact of Alcoholism On Our Kids! ACA ACOA CPTSD https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-gaslighting-addiction/id1780450985?i=1000702802054 EP 16 Parenting Through The Dysfunction Of Alcoholism. How Do I Lead My Kiddos? ACOA Al Ateen Al Anon https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-gaslighting-addiction/id1780450985?i=1000703692052 EP 17 Recovery Of Your Family Begins With You! Combatting Childhood Trauma From The Trenches. ACA Al Ateen https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-gaslighting-addiction/id1780450985?i=1000704550728 ——— Related Parenting Episodes: EP 02 Parenting With An Alcoholic Husband? Tips For Peace and Joy With Kids. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-gaslighting-addiction/id1780450985?i=1000678239979 ——————————- Links for more information: ACOA and ACA https://adultchildren.org/ Al Anon https://al-anon.org/ Al Ateen https://al-anon.org/newcomers/teen-corner-alateen/ ————————— Want to go deeper? If this episode spoke to you and you're ready to start untangling the chaos with someone who gets it, I’d love to walk with you. Email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com to get on the waiting list for a one-on-one session—personalized support, rooted in faith, just for you. And don’t forget—I'm always accepting questions at hello@wifeontherocks.com . I’ll be weaving your questions into future episodes, so feel free to reach out anytime. ————————— Holiday Survival Guide for Wives: (6 Episodes) PART 1 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Parenting With An Alcoholic Husband? Tips for Peace & Joy With Kids. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-alcoholic-husband-christian/id1780450985?i=1000678239979 PART 2 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Navigating Drinking Culture? Hint- Alcohol is Normalized EVERYWHERE!! Are Your BOUNDARIES Ready? https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-alcoholic-husband-christian/id1780450985?i=1000679170765 PART 3 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Do You LOVE an Alcoholic? Safety Steps to Guard Your Heart, Home, and Children. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-alcoholic-husband-christian/id1780450985?i=1000680685353 PART 4 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Lonely? Hopeless? Stressed? Biblical Encouragement For The Christian Wife <3 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-alcoholic-husband-christian/id1780450985?i=1000681397377 PART 5 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Are You Exhausted in the Chaos Of Addiction? 3 Tips for Biblical Rest and Renewal God’s Way. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-alcoholic-husband-christian/id1780450985?i=1000682166326 PART 6 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Praying Your Husband Will Choose Recovery ASAP? Husband Approved Tips To Support The Pre-Recovery Stage. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wife-on-the-rocks-i-alcoholic-husband-christian/id1780450985?i=1000682992653…

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Ep 01 You’re Not Crazy: Gaslighting in Your Alcoholic Marriage? You are NOT Alone! 15:35

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Welcome to Wife on the Rocks! Have you ever felt crazy in your alcoholic marriage? Does it feel like you are the keeper of secrets and no one else knows what is happening behind closed doors? You are not alone. God sees everything. Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com Send your questions to the show! Curious about working with me? I offer 1 on 1 sessions where we can meet privately!! Just us! You will have a best friend in your pocket plus the support you are looking for! Let’s chat! Email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com if this is a lifeline you are looking for:)…

Wife On The Rocks I Gaslighting, Addiction, Codependency, Al Anon, Alcoholism, Recovery

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Wife on the Rocks Trailer 3:24

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