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Writing Through Shame: Hannah Sward on Memoir, Resilience, and Being Present

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This week, I’m thrilled to introduce you to a powerful voice in memoir, Hannah Sward, author of Strip. In today’s conversation, Hannah takes us behind the scenes of her writing process—how she wrote her first draft by hand, in one long, unfiltered sentence; how she found the courage to put her full truth on the page; and how she distilled years of experience into a memoir that moves with incredible precision and power. You’ll also learn transcription tricks, sex scene-writing tips, the unexpected doors publishing your book can open, and some somatic techniques for navigating your vulnerability.

Episode Highlights

  • 4:46 Hannah’s memoir writing process
  • 10:16 Transcription tips
  • 17:47 Somatic strategies for writing vulnerable scenes, including sex scenes
  • 23:35: Placing insights into your book
  • 24:37 Tricks for writing concisely
  • 28:57 The post-publication life of your book
  • 34:39 Writing what’s next

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Hannah’s Bio: Hannah Sward, daughter of the late poet Robert Sward, is the IPPY Gold winning author of Strip: A Memoir. For the past 25 years, Sward’s work has been widely published in literary journals in the US, Canada, and the UK. Her most recent work can be read in the LA Times, HuffPost, The NY Times (Tiny Love Stories) and The Rumpus (Voices on Addiction). Sward is on the board at Right to Write Press, a nonprofit that supports emerging incarcerated writers. She believes strongly in good literary citizenship and is actively involved in the literary community. She lives in Los Angeles where she is working on her next book. Learn more at hannahsward.com


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This week, I’m thrilled to introduce you to a powerful voice in memoir, Hannah Sward, author of Strip. In today’s conversation, Hannah takes us behind the scenes of her writing process—how she wrote her first draft by hand, in one long, unfiltered sentence; how she found the courage to put her full truth on the page; and how she distilled years of experience into a memoir that moves with incredible precision and power. You’ll also learn transcription tricks, sex scene-writing tips, the unexpected doors publishing your book can open, and some somatic techniques for navigating your vulnerability.

Episode Highlights

  • 4:46 Hannah’s memoir writing process
  • 10:16 Transcription tips
  • 17:47 Somatic strategies for writing vulnerable scenes, including sex scenes
  • 23:35: Placing insights into your book
  • 24:37 Tricks for writing concisely
  • 28:57 The post-publication life of your book
  • 34:39 Writing what’s next

Resources for this Episode:

Hannah’s Bio: Hannah Sward, daughter of the late poet Robert Sward, is the IPPY Gold winning author of Strip: A Memoir. For the past 25 years, Sward’s work has been widely published in literary journals in the US, Canada, and the UK. Her most recent work can be read in the LA Times, HuffPost, The NY Times (Tiny Love Stories) and The Rumpus (Voices on Addiction). Sward is on the board at Right to Write Press, a nonprofit that supports emerging incarcerated writers. She believes strongly in good literary citizenship and is actively involved in the literary community. She lives in Los Angeles where she is working on her next book. Learn more at hannahsward.com


Connect with Hannah:

  • Website: hannahsward.com
  • IG: @hannahswardauthor
  • Threads: @hannahswardauthor
  • BlueSky: summerjar.bsky.social


Connect with your host, Lisa:

Gaslight Proof Your Writing Practice with Write More, Fret Less: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/

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Send us a text Whether we like it or not, writers are content creators. And one of the biggest struggles I watch writers face is understanding their audience—what they want, what they need, and how to authentically engage with them. In this episode, podcast coach, content strategist, and host of the award-winning The Proffitt Podcast, Krystal Proffitt shares valuable insights on how writers can navigate this challenge and build meaningful relationships with their readers. If you're a writer looking to expand your platform and reach, this episode is for you. Let’s dive in! Episode Highlights 2:22: Maintaining An Attitude of Gratitude During Busy Seasons 4:08: Building Authentic Audience Engagement 6:32: Humor Is Your Secret Weapon 8:05: Tailoring Your Content to Your Platform 13:32: The Magic of Taking Readers Behind the Scenes 15:09 The Power of Audience Surveys 20:32: How Asking Closed Questions Gets Better Results 27:35: Building Your Launch Squad Resources Mentioned During this Episode: Start a Binge Worthy Podcast: A Step-By-Step Guide to Creating a Podcast Your Audience Craves by Krystal Proffitt How to Survey Your Audience for Feedback Content Ideas Audience Engagement and Feedback on Your Content Podcasters Connect Embracing the Full Catastrophe: Writing About Loss and Finding Belonging with Casey Mulligan Walsh The Caregiver Cup with Cathy VandenHuevel Krystal’s Bio: Krystal Proffitt is a Podcast Coach, Content Strategist, and host of the award-winning show The Proffitt Podcast . She specializes in helping content creators create with confidence. Having published over 1,450 podcast episodes, she knows what it takes to keep creating year after year. Krystal teaches content strategy, repurposing, branding, and marketing through her podcast, digital courses, and YouTube channel dedicated to content creation. She has also appeared as a Content Expert for brands like Podcast Movement, Buzzsprout, Ramsey Solutions, Amy Porterfield, and Streamyard. Connect with Krystal: Website: https://krystalproffitt.com/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/krystalproffitttx/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KrystalProffitt/ Connect with your host, Lisa: Get Your Free Copy of Write More, Fret Less Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedIn Produced by Espresso Podcast Production…
 
Send us a text If you’ve ever sat down to write about a tough experience, only to find yourself avoiding the page, feeling emotionally wrecked, or questioning whether you should even be writing this story—you are not alone. Writing about trauma can be healing, but it can also trigger us in ways we don’t expect. Today, we’re going to unpack this. We’ll talk about what trauma triggers really are, how they show up on the page and inside us , and—most importantly—what you can do to navigate them so your writing process supports your well-being rather than working against it. Episode Highlights 4:30: Trauma Triggers 6:16: Types of Triggers 9:08: What Triggers Look Like On the Page 12:24: Trauma Triage and Self-Care 15:43: Two Powerful Journal Prompts 19:17: How Choices Empower You Resources for this Episode: HuffPost Essay on Emotional Flashbacks Get Your Copy of Write More, Fret Less Watch my Building a Resilient Writing Practice Series Jacob Nordby Episode: The Creative Cure for Writers Jessica Buchanan Episode: From Captivity to Clarity Seeking Wisdom by Julia Cameron Lisa’s Bio: Lisa is a writer, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Her writing and work live at the intersection of healing and creativity, and she combines her experiences with Complex PTSD and suicide with her clinical training and storytelling expertise to help writers tell stories that transform lives, especially their own. Her work has been featured in Risk! , The New York Times , HuffPost , and Kenyon Review Online , among others. Connect with your host, Lisa: Get Your Free Copy of Write More, Fret Less Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedIn Produced by Espresso Podcast Production…
 
Send us a text Imagine working tirelessly for years to publish your first novel—only to have the moment of celebration collide with the collapse of your country. Imagine being forced to flee, leaving behind everything you’ve ever known, and yet… still finding your voice through poetry, storytelling, and advocacy. Today, I have the honor of speaking with Samman Akbarzada—a poet, novelist, refugee, and fierce advocate for human rights. Her novel, Life is a Movie , tells the story of a working child in Afghanistan, while her poetry collection, A Glimmer in the Dark , captures the heartbreak of exile and the enduring hope of survival. Join us as we discuss the power of storytelling, the resilience of the human spirit, and how writing can bear witness to both personal and collective grief. Episode Highlights 2:04: Publishing in a War Zone 9:43: The Impact of Crisis and Loss on Our Writing Lives 17:31: Giving a Voice to Someone Who’s Gone 21:35: How Helping Others Empowers You 28:50: Listening to the Howl 32:48 Writing as an Act of Service 35:20: Samman’s Best Writing Advice Resources for this Episode: Afghan refugees head to Washington asking special visas be issued for families Afghan refugee pleads for resettlement support on Capitol Hill Volunteer Information: https://www.volunteermatch.org/ Volunteer Organizations in Charlottesville: https://soundjusticelab.org/cville-tulips https://www.charlottesvilleunited.org/ https://www.virginiaequitycenter.org/ Watch the Trailer for Limbo Samman’s Bio: Samman Akbarzada is an Afghan refugee and the author of two books: A Glimmer in the Dark , her poetry collection, and Life is a Movie , her debut novel. A second-year student at the University of Virginia, she is committed to working with NGOs and advocating for the rights of underserved communities. Her words capture the suffering, heartbreak, gratitude, and redemption that mark a life lived on the blade of conflict, with love and empathy as her constant guiding light. Connect with Samman Author Website: https://www.amazon.com/author/samman-akbarzada Instagram.com/sammanwrites LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/samman-akbarzada-9359792a0 Samman’s books on Bookshop.org: https://bookshop.org/p/books/life-is-a-movie-samman-akbarzada/17408199?ean=9780620941297&next=t&next=t Connect with your host, Lisa: Get Your Free Copy of Write More, Fret Less Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedIn Produced by Espresso Podcast Production…
 
Send us a text Do you struggle to see yourself as creative? Or have you ever wondered where your creativity comes from, and how to maximize it? This week, I’m joined by Jacob Nordby, founder of A Writing Room Collective and author of Blessed are the Weird: A Manifesto for Creatives , and The Creative Cure , a powerful guide to reconnecting with your creative self. In this week’s episode, Jacob and I dive deep into the healing power of creativity, trauma, and the inner wisdom we all carry within us. Grab your pen, open your heart, and join us as we discuss how to nurture your creative intuition, overcome the obstacles of comparison and fear, and how creativity can be the bridge back to feeling truly alive. Episode Highlights 1:27: The Authentic Work of Creativity 6:51: The Trifecta of Rejection, Trauma, and Socialization 10:33 Polyvagal Theory and the Creative Process 12:50 The Role of Intuition in Creativity 15:29 The Secret to Guiding Yourself 19:37: Connecting with Your Body’s Wisdom 21:49 Recovering Our Connection to Our True Nature 35:00 Connecting with Jacob Resources Mentioned During this Episode: The Creative Cure book page: www.creativecurebook.com Bonus multimedia journaling program gift: www.creativeselfjournal.com The ACES Test Polyvagal Theory and the Ventral Vagal State The Seven Chakras Human Design Writing Rituals with Natalie Buster Writing Down Your Soul by Janet Conner Seeking Wisdom by Julia Cameron Jacob’s Bio: Jacob Nordby is a co-founder of A Writing Room Collective, Heal + Create, The Institute for Creative Living Foundation 501(c)3, and the author of several books, including Blessed Are the Weird – A Manifesto for Creatives and The Creative Cure . He previously worked as the marketing director for a traditional publishing house and oversaw the launch of many bestselling books. A working author and creative guide, he has a passion for helping writers solve their challenges and enjoy the satisfaction of sharing their work with the world. Connect with Jacob: Website: https://www.jacobnordby.com/ The Creative Cure book page: www.creativecurebook.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jacobnordby/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacobnordby/ Creative Self Journal Gift: https://www.jacobnordby.com/creative-self-journal-gift/ Connect with your host, Lisa: Get Your Free Copy of Write More, Fret Less Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedIn Produced by Espresso Podcast Production…
 
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