110 | How to Stop Letting Money Control You and Start Creating Real Financial Confidence

Your Money, Your Rules | Financial Freedom, Scarcity Mindset, Budgeting, Financial Planning, Online Business

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Does it ever feel like your mood, decisions, or sense of safety are completely wrapped up with your money?

In this episode, we're diving into why money feels so emotionally charged—and how to shift out of fear and into real financial confidence. Money only feels like it’s controlling you because you’ve (unknowingly) handed your power over to it.

Most of us were conditioned to believe that money equals security, success, or even love. So, when we don’t have “enough,” it can trigger shame, fear, or paralysis. That’s not a financial literacy problem—it’s a nervous system and identity conversation.

Here’s what we explore in this episode:

• Why traditional financial strategies ignore the emotional root of money stress
• How conditional thinking like “I can’t spend until I feel safe” keeps you stuck
• What it means to ask: Who am I being with money?
• The difference between “green light” (aligned) and “red light” (fear-based) financial decisions
• How to build bridge beliefs that support an empowered money identity
• Why nervous system regulation is key to financial freedom and long-term wealth

Resources mentioned in this episode:

The Having: The Secret Art of Feeling and Growing Rich by Suh Yoon Lee and Jooyun Hong

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Money doesn't have to feel overwhelming. Let's create a strategy that feels nurturing and custom to you.

From my soul to yours,

Erin

Chapters

1. Is Money Controlling Your Life? (00:00:00)

2. Understanding Money Attachment (00:02:16)

3. Shifting Your Money Identity (00:04:26)

4. Developing Money Confidence (00:08:36)

5. Practicing Detachment Without Giving Up (00:11:31)

6. Invitation for One-on-One Coaching (00:13:46)