The Crash That Almost Killed Me

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If you're stuck in performance mode, afraid to slow down, or constantly wondering, “Why do I feel this way when nothing looks wrong?” — this is your episode.

In this second part of my story, I go deeper into what it actually takes to break free from the patterns that keep high-achieving men stuck in limbo.

A life where, on the surface, you’ve got it all... but inside, you know something’s missing. And in my case, a lot was going wrong.

From the outside, I looked like I had it together: corporate job, structure, success.
But inside? I was a Sleepwalker. Overworking. Avoiding. Numbing out. Disconnected from myself and the people I loved.

Then everything changed.

A near-fatal car crash triggered the internal crisis I could no longer ignore — a wake-up call that forced me to confront the truth about who I was, how I was living, and what I’d been avoiding my whole life.

I had to face losing everything I’d worked for.
The opportunity for a complete career change... wiped out in a moment.
And the trauma of that injury — of watching my dreams die in front of me — cracked something open in me that I could never put back the same way.

It was the beginning of the deep work that led me to become The Architect of my life.

But at the time?
It was my dark night of the soul.
I fantasised about ending it all. I planned my own suicide — because I couldn’t see a way out of the misery I was in.

This episode is about that rock bottom moment — and how I rebuilt from there.

You’ll hear how I discovered the Shadow Scar™, why I was unconsciously running from responsibility and intimacy, and how I now help other men interrupt their own destructive cycles using my Wake Up Call Process™.

I help men in the middle of their lives reclaim their power, heal emotional wounds, and unlock the potential they know they are sleeping on.

My work involves 121 private practice as well as group work within The Man Program online and in-person events and retreats.

👉 If you're ready to stop drifting, make a significant change and start leading, this is your invitation.

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