Healing from Trauma: Insights from Scotty Aemis on Parenting Adopted Children EP 203

The Wounds Of The Faithful

In part two of Diana's conversation with Scotty Aemis, they delve into the complexities of adopting children from traumatic backgrounds and the challenges that come with it. Scotty shares practical advice on finding trauma-informed counselors, the importance of creating a safe environment for children, and the necessity of establishing trust before enforcing discipline. They discuss how integrating trauma awareness into various facets of life, including church and social activities, can significantly aid in the healing process. Scotty emphasizes the need for parents to provide a stable, loving environment rather than focusing on correcting behaviors. The episode concludes with resources for connecting with trauma-informed support and announcements about a new trauma-focused book and ministry services. 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast 00:33 Recap of Part One with Scotty Aemis 02:00 Choosing the Right Counselor 03:34 Creating a Safe Environment for Traumatized Children 05:25 Navigating Family and Social Situations 08:16 The Role of the Church and Faith 12:07 Final Thoughts and Resources 14:40 Conclusion and Farewell Scotty Aemis is passionate about helping parents navigate childhood trauma. After he and his wife adopted two children, they found themselves learning everything they could about helping their children thrive. Everything that felt instinctually “right” was actually not helpful for children trying to heal from trauma. That set him on a journey to develop out my PSR (Positive Safe Relationships) Approach to parenting. It’s helpful for all children and parents, but especially those navigating childhood trauma. https://www.childtraumasherpa.com/ https://www.facebook.com/groups/1002238933611804 Website: https://dswministries.org Email: [email protected] Subscribe to the podcast: https://dswministries.org/subscribe-to-podcast/ Social media links: Join our Private Wounds of the Faithful FB Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1603903730020136 Twitter: https://twitter.com/DswMinistries YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxgIpWVQCmjqog0PMK4khDw/playlists Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dswministries/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DSW-Ministries-230135337033879 Keep in touch with me! Email subscribe to get my handpicked list of the best resources for abuse survivors! https://thoughtful-composer-4268.ck.page #abuse #trauma Affiliate links: Can’t travel to The Holy Land right now? The next best thing is Walking The Bible Lands! Get a free video sample of the Bible lands here! https://www.walkingthebiblelands.com/a/18410/hN8u6LQP An easy way to help my ministry: https://dswministries.org/product/buy-me-a-cup-of-tea/ A donation link: https://dswministries.org/donate/ Part Two Scotty Aemis [00:00:00] Welcome to the Wounds of the Faithful podcast, brought to you by DSW Ministries. Your host is singer, songwriter, speaker, and domestic violence advocate, Diana Winkler. She is passionate about helping survivors in the church heal from domestic violence and abuse and trauma. This podcast is not a substitute for professional counseling or qualified medical help. Now, here is Diana. Hey everyone. Thanks for coming back to part two of my conversation with Scotty Aemis We had a wonderful time with hearing his background and how he came to adopt two children from Russia in a horrible orphanage And the surprises that he encountered when things just didn't go the [00:01:00] way that they planned. All you need is love. It's not necessarily true. We need a little bit more. than love to parent children, including children that have had severe trauma. So I'm excited to hear the rest of his story about some examples of what works and what doesn't work, and what resources are out there for parents. We're going to talk about discipline in detail. Sometimes discipline needs to put,