The average couple waits 6 years to get help in their marriage. That's 6 years of pain, hurt, frustration and lost opportunity. This podcast is designed to help you NOT become a part of that statistic. Hosted by Dr. Robert and Sharla Snow — themselves married for 31 years — The Master Your Marriage show is here with straight-talking guidance on how to fill your marriage with fun, friendship and love, without it ever feeling like "hard work." No matter how long you've been struggling with you ...
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Welcome to The Concordia Publishing House Podcast where we consider everything in the light of Jesus Christ who is the same today, yesterday, and forever. Hosted by Elizabeth Pittman.
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Fighting Well in Marriage: A Litmus Test for Emotional Maturity
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36:53In this episode, we explore the concept of emotional maturity and its critical role in maintaining healthy relationships. We discuss how maturity isn't tied to age but is reflected in behavior, especially during disagreements. We share the importance of handling conflicts with empathy and understanding, drawing insights from Dr. John Gottman's rese…
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Triangulation: A Toxic Relationship and Family Pattern
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34:51This episode delves into the toxic pattern of triangulation in relationships, particularly within family dynamics. The hosts discuss how triangulation manifests, its impact on emotional health, and the importance of direct communication. They provide strategies for recognizing and breaking free from this pattern, emphasizing the need for awareness,…
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Dr. Robert Kolb joins The Concordia Publishing House Podcast to talk about the second edition of The Christian Faith, A Lutheran Exposition. Dr. Kolb, along with his coauthor Ted Hopkins, use the history of the church and its creeds and confessions as a guide to share new perspectives on the presentation of Christian doctrine for current day. Get t…
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Coping with Loss Together: Strategies for Grieving as a Couple
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53:41Ever notice how loss can drop a marriage into two wildly different time-zones? One spouse wants to talk it out while the other goes radio-silent. In this week’s episode of Master Your Marriage, we sit down with grief coach and children’s-book author Jennifer Morris to unpack how couples can stay yoked when death, empty nests, or any major life chan…
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Why Your Spouse May Not Be Motivated In Your Relationship
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26:58Do you ever notice how some couples only sprint toward “saving the marriage” when the divorce papers are already drafted—while others seem to glide forward, energized by a shared dream? In this week’s episode of Master Your Marriage, we tackle the sneaky trap of away-from motivation (fixing things only when the fire alarm blares) versus the power o…
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How to Cherish Your Spouse: The Key to a Joyful Marriage
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29:20Do you ever slip into “I deserve better” mode and forget just how lucky you are to wake up next to your favorite human? In this episode of Master Your Marriage, we unpack the power of cherishing—the next-level upgrade from mere “appreciation.” Through real-life stories (yes, including the magic fridge on their camping trip) and the Gottmans’ 20-que…
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In this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast, host Elizabeth Pittman is joined by guest Sharla Fritz to discuss Sharla’s newest book, Divine Directions: How God Guides Your Path. Order the book now on CPH’s website at cph.org/divinedirections. Show Notes From Moses’ journey to the Promised Land and Ruth’s journey in life, it’s easy to …
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Feeling Alone in Your Marriage? The Cry for Connection
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29:34Do you ever feel alone, even in your marriage? In this powerful episode of Master Your Marriage, we explore why loneliness hits so hard and how your brain is wired for connection. Sharla and Robert dive into the science of the relational brain, challenging the “go it alone” mindset of individualism. From Ed Tronick’s “still face” experiment to Jame…
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Come and Be Filled | Rev. Kristopher Whitby
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28:49Rev. Kris Whitby joins this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast to discuss his new book with CPH, Come and Be Filled: Feasting with Jesus in His Word. Kris and host Elizabeth Pittman discuss 11 Biblical meals that Kris writes about in the book, and how Jesus blesses us when we dine together. Get his book by visiting cph.org/feast. Sho…
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How Trauma Hijacks Your Marriage (And How to Take It Back) Part 2
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25:23In this powerful follow-up to our discussion on big “T” trauma, we dive deeper into how all trauma—big and small—shapes the automatic behaviors that can strain your marriage. From lying to stonewalling, these “stances” stem from your adaptive child, a part of you formed in childhood. Through heartfelt stories and practical steps, we explore how to …
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On this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast, author Donna Snow joins host Elizabeth Pittman to discuss her newest Bible Study, Strong and Courageous: Studying God's Promises in Joshua. Donna discusses why she chose to write about Joshua and what we can learn from his story. Get Donna’s newest Bible Study at cph.org/joshua. Show Notes …
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How Trauma Hijacks Your Marriage (And How to Take It Back)
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34:03Ever wonder why you snap or shut down with the person you love most? In this powerful episode, hosts Robert and Sharla Snow kick off a multi-part series exploring how trauma—big or small—shapes our closest relationships. Through the lens of brain science and a moving client story, they unpack how unhealed wounds from the past can “hijack” your marr…
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Rewiring Your Brain for a Better Marriage: The Power of Neuroplasticity
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31:41Sharla’s back after a month-long break, sharing a deeply personal story of recovering from decompression sickness caused by a scuba diving trip in the British Virgin Islands. Her rapid brain recovery, thanks to hyperbaric oxygen therapy, inspired this episode on neuroplasticity—the brain’s incredible ability to rewire itself. Joined by Robert, Shar…
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Overcoming Power Struggles: The Art of Accepting Influence
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29:06In this episode of Master Your Marriage, hosts Sharla and Robert dive into the dynamics of power struggles in relationships and explore how accepting your partner's influence can transform your connection from "I" to "We." Discover why this skill is crucial for a happy, lasting relationship and learn practical steps to navigate disagreements with e…
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Reclaiming the Heart of Marriage | Rev. David A. Shadday
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40:40Rev. David A. Shadday joins host Elizabeth Pittman on this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast to talk about his new book, Reclaiming the Heart of Marriage. Get Shadday’s book on the CPH website today. Show Notes Why did God give us marriage? Companionship or procreation might be answers that come to mind, but marriage also serves as …
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Why Empathy Disappears in Marriage—And How to Get It Back
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33:04Struggling with overwhelm, shutdown, or emotional reactivity in your relationship? Our new Window of Tolerance Worksheet helps you identify your triggers, recognize dysregulation, and develop strategies to regain balance so you can show up as your best self in your marriage. Limited-Time Offer: Get it now for only $5 (regularly $19)! 📥 Instant Down…
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Resentment vs. Forgiveness: Which One Is Controlling Your Marriage?
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28:41Struggling with overwhelm, shutdown, or emotional reactivity in your relationship? Our new Window of Tolerance Worksheet helps you identify your triggers, recognize dysregulation, and develop strategies to regain balance so you can show up as your best self in your marriage. Limited-Time Offer: Get it now for only $5 (regularly $19)! 📥 Instant Down…
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Struggling with overwhelm, shutdown, or emotional reactivity in your relationship? Our new Window of Tolerance Worksheet helps you identify your triggers, recognize dysregulation, and develop strategies to regain balance so you can show up as your best self in your marriage. Limited-Time Offer: Get it now for only $5 (regularly $19)! 📥 Instant Down…
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Grandiosity: The Drug That’s Killing Your Marriage
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38:47Struggling with overwhelm, shutdown, or emotional reactivity in your relationship? Our new Window of Tolerance Worksheet helps you identify your triggers, recognize dysregulation, and develop strategies to regain balance so you can show up as your best self in your marriage. Limited-Time Offer: Get it now for only $5 (regularly $19)! 📥 Instant Down…
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Snapping, Shutting Down & Fighting? How to Spot and Stop Dysregulation in Your Marriage
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29:55Struggling with overwhelm, shutdown, or emotional reactivity in your relationship? Our new Window of Tolerance Worksheet helps you identify your triggers, recognize dysregulation, and develop strategies to regain balance so you can show up as your best self in your marriage. Limited-Time Offer: Get it now for only $5 (regularly $19)! 📥 Instant Down…
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Unlock a Calmer, Safer Marriage: Understanding the Window of Tolerance
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34:29Struggling with overwhelm, shutdown, or emotional reactivity in your relationship? Our new Window of Tolerance Worksheet helps you identify your triggers, recognize dysregulation, and develop strategies to regain balance—so you can show up as your best self in your marriage. Limited-Time Offer: Get it now for only $5 (regularly $19)! 📥 Instant Down…
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1% Better Every Day: The Small Changes That Transform Your Marriage
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21:46In this episode of Master Your Marriage, we explore the concept of small, consistent improvements in relationships, drawing parallels to the success of the British cycling team under Dave Brailsford. Real transformation occurs not through grand gestures but through tiny, daily efforts that accumulate over time. The discussion includes practical str…
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Faith Notes for Young Men | Rev. Michael Newman
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28:39On this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast, Rev. Michael Newman joins host Elizabeth Pittman as the guest to talk about his recently released book with CPH, Faith Notes: A Christ-Centered Survival Kit for Young Men. Mike talks with Elizabeth about the struggles young men face today, from isolation to peer pressure and bullying. He te…
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Improving Communication Part 3: The Secret to Making Your Partner Feel Heard
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35:19"Listening is an act of love." In this episode, we talk about the critical role of listening in relationships, emphasizing that effective communication is not just about speaking but primarily about listening with compassion. We explore the challenges of listening, including ego, fear of change, and the urge to fix problems. Why is self-reflection …
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Improving Communication Part 2: Speaking Wisely
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41:16In this episode, we delve into the intricacies of effective communication within marriage, building on previous discussions about emotional regulation and self-confrontation. They address a listener's question about how to communicate concerns without coming across as controlling, emphasizing the importance of collaboration and vulnerability. We in…
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Improving Communication Part 1: Preparing Yourself for Tough Conversations in Your Marriage
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35:15In this episode, we discuss the importance of effective communication in relationships, particularly during difficult conversations. There is a need for truth and integrity in communication, the significance of understanding differences between partners, and the necessity of self-confrontation to challenge personal narratives. The episode outlines …
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Ten Lies Satan Loves to Tell | Rev. Andrew R. Jones
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34:47In this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast, host Elizabeth Pittman speaks with author Rev. Andrew R. Jones about his newest book, Ten Lies Satan Loves to Tell. Andy dives into the truth that Satan lies to us all the time but helps us recognize and combat 10 of the major lies with God’s Word. Get Andy’s newest book at cph.org/tenlies.…
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Evangelical Lutheran Homiletics | Rev. Isaac Johnson
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33:48On this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast, we take a look at the history and legacy of Lutheran homiletics with guest Pastor Isaac Johnson. Isaac is the translator of Reinhold Pieper's Evangelical Lutheran Homiletics, available now on cph.org. Show Notes Listen now as host Elizabeth Pittman and guest Isaac Johnson talk discuss his t…
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6 Signs You and Your Partner Have Strong Teamwork in Your Marriage
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28:11"Good teammates don't keep score." In this episode, the hosts discuss the significance of teamwork in relationships, sharing insights from their annual retreat and emphasizing the importance of understanding core values. They outline six key signs that indicate a strong sense of teamwork between partners, highlighting the need for open communicatio…
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How to Create a Family Vision Statement for 2025
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35:28In this episode, we discuss the challenges of busy family life and the importance of creating a family vision and mission statement. We share our process of defining a family's values, crafting a vision statement, and implementing it into our daily lives. The conversation emphasizes the significance of aligning family goals, fostering a strong sens…
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10 Powerful Ways to Improve Your Marriage and Recommit in 2025
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30:20In this episode, we reflect on their journey through marriage, the transitions of life, and the importance of gratitude and personal growth within a relationship. We discuss the purpose of marriage, emphasizing shared experiences and emotional connections, and offer practical advice for recommitting to each other as they approach the new year. Take…
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Finding Peace in God’s Faithfulness | Michelle Diercks
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26:58Guest and author Michelle Diercks joins this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast to speak with host Elizabeth Pittman about her newest Bible study, Promised Hope: Finding Peace in God’s Faithfulness. Michelle talks about the hope we have in Jesus and how to use Promised Hope in your study, a group study, or a book club and face whatev…
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Repair: The Most Important Relationship Skill You’ve Never Mastered (Part 4): What Happens After a Big Fight
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37:12In this powerful and vulnerable episode, Robert and Sharla demonstrate how to process a regrettable incident—a big fight or emotional injury that still holds an emotional charge. Over the past three episodes, they’ve explored the ideal steps to repair conflict in the moment - which is ideally the goal. But what happens when repair doesn’t happen ea…
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Repair: The Most Important Relationship Skill You’ve Never Mastered (Part 3)
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37:38Create Your Strongest Year Yet as a Couple Get Intentional With Your Relationship in 2025: Download our exact blueprint to aligning your values and planning your year, with our 2025 Yearly Couples Planning & Alignment Workbook—just $19. Get it here: https://bit.ly/2025goalsetting In this episode, we discuss the essential steps in repairing relation…
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Repair: The Most Important Relationship Skill You’ve Never Mastered (Part 2)
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26:16Create Your Strongest Year Yet as a Couple Get Intentional With Your Relationship in 2025: Download our exact blueprint to aligning your values and planning your year, with our 2025 Yearly Couples Planning & Alignment Workbook—just $19. Get it here: https://bit.ly/2025goalsetting In this episode, the hosts discuss the essential steps for repairing …
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Lamentations – Concordia Commentary | R. Reed Lessing
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39:47Listen to this episode of The Concordia Publishing House Podcast as author and guest R. Reed Lessing takes a close look at recent interpretations, historical and canonical settings, genres, and more in the book of Lamentations. Lessing provides his perspective on all of these things and more in the newest volume in the Concordia Commentary series t…
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How to Use Appreciation to Break the Cycle of Negativity in Marriage
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21:51Create Your Strongest Year Yet as a Couple Get Intentional With Your Relationship in 2025: Download our exact blueprint to aligning your values and planning your year, with our 2025 Yearly Couples Planning & Alignment Workbook—just $19. Get it here: https://bit.ly/2025goalsetting Get the appreciation blueprint discussed in this episode here: https:…
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Faith Notes: A Christ-Centered Survival Kit for Young Women | Cassie Moore
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29:04Young women today are faced with a host of challenges, including things like loneliness, isolation, anxiety, bullying, social media behavior, and relationship issues. Guest and author Cassie Moore reminds us that young women can turn to God through all the issues they meet. Listen to the episode now as Cassie discusses her new book, Faith Notes: A …
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Repair: The Most Important Relationship Skill You’ve Never Mastered (Part 1)
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30:12Create Your Strongest Year Yet as a Couple Get Intentional With Your Relationship in 2025: Download our exact blueprint to aligning your values and planning your year, with our 2025 Yearly Couples Planning & Alignment Workbook—just $19. Get it here: https://bit.ly/2025goalsetting In this episode, we discuss the essential role of conflict and repair…
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