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Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell

Dan Purcell | Sex & Intimacy Coach | Christian Husband

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It’s a challenge to build a long term relationship full of love, desire, and sexy fun. It can be especially challenging for Christians in a world filled with mixed messages about sex, intimacy, and marriage that go contrary to traditional values. Your host is Dan Purcell, a Life Coach and Couples Sex Expert that specializes in helping married couples take their sex life to the next level. You’ll gain new ideas, perspectives, and practical tools to help you "get your marriage on"! This podcas ...
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Still Becoming One

Brad & Kate Aldrich

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We deeply desired a marriage based on God's design: two people coming together as "one flesh," but we had no idea how to do it. We tried and fell flat many times, going through many dark seasons. We wondered when the oneness was supposed to begin. Renewing grace and love in our marriage wasn't an easy process, but now, more than 20 years later, our marriage is thriving, and Brad is a licensed counselor, and Kate is a relationship coach. We work with couples and individuals who want to discov ...
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Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at ...
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Marriage and Intimacy Tips for Christian Couples: Secrets of Happily Ever After

Monica Tanner - Marriage and Intimacy Coach for Christian Couples

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Have you ever wondered what makes the difference between those couples who absolutely LOVE to be together and the ones who merely tolorate each other in their old age? I always want to run up to the cute old couples who still hold hands while walking down the street and ask them all their secrets to relationship success. This podcast gives me the opportunity to do just that! I'm Monica Tanner, wife to a super hunky man, mom to 4 kids, weekly podcaster and relationship and intimacy expert/ent ...
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Are you struggling in your marriage? Feeling alone, disconnected, or stuck in the same fights? Marriage may feel hard right now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You may feel completely disconnected and withdrawn, but being UNITED is possible for your marriage! I was married at 18, after having a baby, and had no family support while I navigated it all, yet I still was able to go from completely lost and broken, to thriving in my marriage, home, and parenthood. How? Well, this podcast i ...
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Are you sitting in a marriage that feels empty? Struggling to connect with your husband? Maybe you’re telling yourself you’re just sticking it out for the kids, and what really keeps you in the marriage is God. If this is you, I’ve been there. My story is your story. I want to help you reconnect in marriage and feel cherished again. Hey, I’m Beatriz, a Jesus loving wife and mom I’ve been married for 15 years, but for the past 10, I’ve actually had the affectionate and connected marriage I’ve ...
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Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts

Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists

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Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof? Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage? Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse? Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy? If you can relate, you’re not alone. Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsi ...
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Intimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce

Kristina Joy | Affair Recovery Coach, Spiritual Healing, Christian Marriage Counseling

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The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* * #9 RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of sh ...
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Send us a text Brad and Kate explore how couples can maintain connection during inevitable busy seasons when marriage can't be the top priority. They share personal examples from their May celebrations of their children's graduations and how they've learned to navigate similar challenging periods. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instag…
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When life gets chaotic, maintaining your sanity and your marriage requires intentional practices and clear communication. This episode shares my five-step approach to handling busy seasons with grace while keeping my relationship strong and cooperative. • Start each day with focused prayer to identify what truly matters that day • Ask for help conf…
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What’s your goal for your marriage? A wife who is excited to see you? A wife who hugs, kisses and has sex with you? A wife who appreciates you? And that should happen all the time, right? And if not, something is wrong. Right? Well, this mindset of having an “endpoint” to marriage usually leads to frustration. God helped me see that it’s much bette…
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Are you newly married and wondering why it already feels harder than you expected? Is the spark still there—but your communication feels...off? Does something feel “off” spiritually, emotionally, or even physically in your marriage—and you don’t know why? Then this episode was recorded just for you. In today’s power-packed episode, I’m sharing thre…
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 In this episode, I'm getting specific with actionable tactics while answering questions about the following: how to grow closer together emotionally overcoming body image concerns as it relates to sex. why women fake orgasms enhancing sexual intimacy with sex toys what the research says about pornography use and its impact on couples exploring rol…
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Are you unintentionally letting dysfunction creep into your marriage? Are you stuck in loops of asking yourself what's going wrong in your marriage? In today’s episode of the United Christian Marriage Podcast, we’re breaking down the top 3 threats to your relationship—the “marriage killers” that sabotage even strong couples. I’m sharing personal st…
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Hey friend! Today, we’re diving into one of those topics that might feel a little uncomfortable—but that’s exactly why it’s so important to talk about. Every marriage has its ups and downs. And sometimes, without even realizing it, we slip into habits that slowly create distance instead of building connection. In this episode, we’re talking about a…
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Send us a text Brad and Kate Aldrich explore how seemingly healthy self-care activities might actually be "imitation self-care" that creates distance rather than true rejuvenation in marriage relationships. • Imitation self-care activities mimic real self-care but leave us feeling worse afterward • Binge-watching shows and mindless scrolling often …
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Tony and Elisa DiLorenzo of One Extraordinary Marriage discuss how busy couples can rekindle intimacy and connection through intentional time together. They reveal the biggest roadblocks to intimacy are lack of meaningful conversation and diminished sexual connection, with practical solutions for couples who feel like roommates. • The "we'll make t…
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It can be easy to get into a downward spiral about our wife and marriage. The sex isn’t there. The connection isn’t there. We’re dealing with infidelity, separation or divorce. It can all seem pretty hopeless. And, when we feel hopeless, we don’t feel good, we’re not attractive, and we don’t solve our problems. Fortunately, there’s a way out of thi…
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Are you thinking about marriage God's way, or are you thinking about it the world's way? Are you quietly stuck in a “lazy love” season of marriage? Not on the edge of divorce, but not thriving either? In this episode, we’re examining what the Bible says about the marriage covenant and uncovering three key reasons your relationship might feel blah, …
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This episode is all about priming your mind and relationship for great sex.  Years ago, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, who is my guest on this episode today, made her first appearance on my podcast, (and if you want to listen to it, it's episode number 50). What she taught me then about the mental load made a deep impression on me. The mental load as it's ofte…
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What if lifting weights could restore connection in your marriage? 💪 In this unexpected conversation, I sit down with Christian fitness and nutrition coach and mom of many, Rachel DeSonier, to talk about how strength training can reshape more than just your body. Getting stronger requires understanding both exercise and nutrition. We dive into iden…
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Hi friend! Marriage is a beautiful journey—but let’s be honest, it’s not always easy. Between work, life, and everyday routines, we can slip into habits we don’t even realize are hurting the very people we love most. That’s why today, we’re diving into a topic that hits home for so many couples: “4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing.…
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Send us a text What happens when the very strategies we develop to care for ourselves actually pull us away from our partners? In this eye-opening exploration of "imitation self-care," we dive into the complex ways our coping mechanisms can disguise themselves as healthy practices while undermining our relationships. Imitation self-care is challeng…
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We celebrate a double milestone as my son gets married on our 23rd wedding anniversary. This emotional weekend brings together two generations of love stories while I reflect on what makes a marriage work for over two decades. • Cooking for 125 wedding guests from a small Airbnb with crockpots scattered throughout every room • The importance of mor…
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Does your wife feel distant? Does she seem to not really care about you? Does she seem to care more about the kids than you? Do you tell her that she should be paying more attention to you, hoping to get more from her? Well, maybe it’s not actually about you at all! And maybe asking her to do more will create MORE distance instead of connection. Le…
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Do You Struggle With Snapping, Fighting, or Overreacting in Your Marriage? Here's a Script You Can Use When You're Triggered Are you ever surprised by how fast you go from calm to reactive? 😤 Maybe you feel blindsided by your own emotions, or you're wondering, "Why did I snap like that?" In today’s episode, I’m walking you through a simple but powe…
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 I read an excellent book a few years ago. It's for parents talking to their kids about sex. There was a chapter towards the end of the book titled Honeymoon Horror Stories, which really caught my eye and changed the way I think about the importance of getting and teaching our next generation a solid sex education as part of their research for the …
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Hi friend! There’s a popular saying: “Honesty is the best policy.” But does that mean we should say everything that crosses our minds—no matter how raw, blunt, or unfiltered? In today’s episode, we’re exploring a truth many couples overlook: Unfiltered honesty can do more harm than good in your marriage. Words that are unprocessed or spoken in the …
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Send us a text We examine the complexities of troubled marriages, challenging the idea that couples should "stick it out no matter what" while offering guidance on when to fight for your relationship and when boundaries might be necessary. • Understanding the difference between pursuing happiness versus finding fulfillment and contentment in marria…
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I spent an incredible weekend at the first-ever Relational Life Therapy conference in Orlando, immersed in transformative teachings from world-renowned relationship experts. RLT offers powerful tools for building radically honest, fiercely loving relationships where both partners thrive in equality, focusing on intimacy, connection, and practical r…
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Do you wish you had more in your marriage? More sex? More conversation? More connection? More fun? It’s not a problem to want more. However, your emotional state when you desire and ask for more can be a BIG problem. Most of us ask for more from a place of whininess and “not enough.” This usually just makes our wives feel like they’re not doing eno…
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Is It Weak to Cry? How do you stop letting emotions run your life? What Jesus Shows Us About Emotions (and how that applies in marriage) In this episode: We’re diving into the truth about emotional expression in marriage—especially for husbands. What does the Bible say about crying, grief, and sadness? And how does Jesus model emotional strength fo…
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Women's bodies and brains undergo large changes during puberty, childbirth and menopause. Just like how sexuality hasn't been talked about much in previous generations, at least not in a positive light, menopause also hasn't been a free topic of conversation. It might be a bit funny that a dude is doing an episode about menopause, but I'm really cu…
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Are you following God in your marriage—or just doing what feels natural? Have you heard of The Marriage Killer We Don’t Talk About: Grumbling, Complaining, and Following Your Flesh? In today’s devotional-style episode, we’re getting brutally honest about the internal patterns that quietly sabotage Christian marriages. We dive into scripture and tal…
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Hi friend! What if the biggest threat to your marriage wasn’t arguments, finances, or stress? Today, we’re unpacking something sneaky — something that can quietly unravel even the strongest relationships: assumptions. You know the ones: “They should know what I need.” “If they really cared, they’d act differently.” “I already know how they’ll respo…
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Send us a text Special guest Adam Young joins us to discuss his new book, Make Sense of Your Story. What if the relationship patterns you can't seem to break are rooted in stories you've never fully understood? Adam Young, therapist and host of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast, joins us to explore how our earliest experiences continue to shape o…
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Money often causes tension in relationships, but it doesn't have to. Nate and Bethany Smith share their expertise on creating financial harmony through better communication, understanding each other's money stories, and developing shared goals. • Understanding your partner's "money story" helps build empathy and reduces financial conflict • Creatin…
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Are you hiding in your marriage? Do you avoid speaking your mind? About money, sex, in-laws, parenting, religion, housework or free time? Do you get defensive with your wife? All of these symptoms are due to a fear… A fear of part of you being exposed or rejected. Learn how to overcome that fear… Through acceptance of your “Shadow…” Watch on YouTub…
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How to Get the Support You Actually Need From Your Spouse (Without Feeling Bitter or Unseen) If you’ve ever felt like your husband just doesn’t get it—like you’re carrying the mental load and he’s missing the weight of it—this episode is for you. You’re not alone in feeling like your needs go unseen or that you're expected to juggle it all without …
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Today I want to talk to those who are in a marriage where sex pretty good but maybe a little monotonous at times. Maybe it feels like it's the same old, same old. You wanna kind of spice it up, but then there's other factors involved, including feeling tired. Perhaps it feels like maybe sex is good enough, but you'd really like get to the next grea…
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When the Picture-Perfect Marriage Isn’t Your Story With Special Guest Britton George. What if my marriage is a little untraditional? In this episode, we discuss second marriages, unequally yoked, how anxiety and depression play a part in this, and the realities of a blended family. Marriage is already a journey, but what happens when you're navigat…
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Hi friend! When was the last time you asked your spouse a question that made them pause and feel truly seen? In this episode, we're diving into 5 endearing, heartfelt questions you can ask your spouse to spark deeper connection, emotional intimacy, and meaningful conversation in your marriage. Whether you’ve been married for 5 months or 5 years, th…
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In this episode, we explore how recommitting to daily conversations and weekly date nights can reignite emotional intimacy and transform your relationship with your partner. • Gottman research shows mapping your partner's inner world is crucial for emotional connection • People constantly change and evolve—nobody remains the same person they were w…
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Does your wife make you mad? When she criticizes you? When she seems to care about the kids more than you? Do you feel like just a paycheck? When we get into this negative spiral… It doesn’t do us or anyone else much good. Thankfully, there IS a way out of it… A way we can feel FREE instead of TRAPPED. We can feel powerful no matter what our wife o…
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How to fix a broken marriage? Imagine waking up and finally feeling safe, seen, and supported in your marriage. No walking on eggshells. No more wondering if it’s even worth the fight. Just peace, connection, and knowing you're in this together. Sounds far off? It’s not. In this episode, we’re diving deep into what actually works when your marriage…
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 Ever play the game "Two Truths and a Lie"? (A person makes three statements, and you guess which two are factual and which one is false.) Well, we get to play that game today on our episode with my guests Sheila Wray Gregoire and her husband Keith (return guests to the Get Your Marriage On Podcast). The Gregoires completed extensive research, surv…
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Hi friend! Looking for ways to show love to your spouse this week? In this episode, we’re diving into 3 intentional ways to express love in your marriage that will make a lasting impact. These simple yet powerful gestures will help your spouse feel truly seen, valued, and deeply loved. Whether your goal is to reconnect or strengthen your bond in ma…
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Send us a text We explore the dynamic when husbands experience higher sexual desire than their wives, examining how both partners often feel broken or inadequate when confronting these differences. • Sexual desire disparity affects approximately 80% of marriages with the husband having a higher desire • Both partners suffer—husbands feeling rejecte…
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Passionate relationships require more than love—they need the right psychological dynamics to keep desire alive. When couples come to me feeling more like roommates than lovers, they're often surprised to learn that their sexual disconnection has less to do with libido or attraction and more to do with unrecognized emotional patterns. The truth abo…
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Are you feeling “stuck” in your marriage? Do you avoid having difficult conversations? Do you avoid asking for what you want? Are you stuck in “roommate mode?” There’s one big reason for the “stuck” feeling in your marriage. It’s avoiding pain. It’s normal to avoid the pain of a hard conversation and risking rejection. It just keeps you stuck. Lear…
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What is biblically aligned self-improvement and how can it transform your marriage? How to self-coach and transform your marriage. 🌟 Ever feel like your brain is working against you in your marriage? When emotions run high, our minds can jump to conclusions that aren’t always true. "He never listens." "She doesn't care." But what if you could rewir…
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 Have you ever received really bad marriage advice? Today I have the privilege of interviewing Kendra Nielson, a fellow marriage coach and therapist. Together we address common pieces of marriage advice that often miss the mark, such as "Never go to bed angry," or "Always put your spouse first," and "Your spouse should be your best friend." And of …
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How to Shift Your Mindset and Transform Your Marriage Ever feel like no matter how much effort you put into your marriage, you keep running into the same struggles? You’re not alone. But what if the solution isn’t just about doing more—but actually about thinking differently? In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into how your thoughts shape your m…
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Hi Friend! The words we use in marriage matter—and sometimes, a simple shift in how we speak can make all the difference. That’s why in today’s episode, we’re diving into 5 powerful “I” statements that can help you strengthen communication, build trust, and create a deeper emotional connection with your spouse. Because let’s be real—sometimes, it’s…
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Send us a text Brad and Kate welcome J Parker, author of "The Higher Desire Wife," to discuss the often overlooked reality of wives who desire more sexual intimacy than their husbands and how couples can navigate this sensitive dynamic with understanding and compassion. • Sexual desire fluctuates throughout marriage, with partners' drives shifting …
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What's the worst piece of marriage advice you've ever received? In my years coaching couples, I've heard countless well-meaning but misguided tips passed down between generations. Today, I'm pulling back the curtain on one of the most damaging myths that keeps showing up, especially in religious communities: "divorce is not an option." Despite its …
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I’ve recently started to take MMA lessons and I am LOVING it. Here are some of my big takeaways: -Having a strong base keeps you prepared and stable -Having a strong base in God does the same -You won’t die if you take a punch -You won’t die if you take an emotional punch from your wife or kids -You can be confident in caring for yourself Hear more…
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