Better Husband, hosted by Men's Marriage and Relationship Coach Angelo Santiago, is the podcast for married men who want to strengthen and transform their marriages. After 12 years of marriage—including a near-divorce that became the catalyst for profound change—Angelo has dedicated himself to helping men learn the skills to be the husband their spouse deserves. With a background in facilitating in-person men’s retreats, online men’s communities, and one-on-one coaching, Angelo brings expert ...
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031|Why You’re Great with Clients, Co-Workers, and Strangers—but Struggle with Your Wife
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15:54🔥 The Support You’ve Been Missing Is Now Here: Better Husband Academy 🔥 — a step-by-step course and group coaching program for men who want to lead with clarity, rebuild trust, and reconnect in their marriage. Join now at www.BetterHusbandAcademy.com - Ever notice how you can be calm, patient, and composed with coworkers, clients, or even strangers…
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030|The Daily Habits That Saved My Marriage (And Still Keep It Strong Today)
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16:18🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - If you’ve ever wondered: “What do I actually need to do every day to be a better husband?” This episode is for you. In this epis…
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029|You’re Making Progress—Here’s How to Make It Actually Feel Like It’s Working
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028|She’s Upset. You React. And Now It’s Worse. (Here’s What to Do Instead)
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13:44🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - Most men don’t mean to make things worse. They just react... fast. A sharp reply. A shut down. A quick fix that backfires. And s…
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027|Most Marriages Struggle in Silence—Here’s What Happens When You Don’t
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026|“I Can Fix This On My Own”—The Lie That’s Costing Men Their Marriage
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14:51🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - For a lot of men, asking for help feels like weakness. We’re taught to be self-reliant. To lead. To figure it out on our own. So…
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025|The First Move Every Better Husband Makes: Full Ownership
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024|When You Feel More Like Roommates Than Lovers—How to Rebuild Connection in Your Marriage
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18:39🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - Tell me if this sounds familiar: Everything looks “okay” on the surface. You handle the tasks, manage the schedule, keep things …
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023|Staying Quiet Isn’t Helping—Here’s What She Actually Needs From You
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022|Why “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Working — And the 4 Steps to Real Repair
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13:35🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - You apologized. You meant it. But for some reason, she still seems distant—and nothing feels resolved. If you’ve ever wondered w…
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021|Your Self-Esteem Is Hurting Your Marriage: 3 Faulty Beliefs That Keep Men Stuck
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020|How to Build a Championship Marriage: 5 Winning Strategies
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13:42🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - The best teams in sports don’t win by accident—they follow a proven strategy. The same is true for marriage. If you want a stron…
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019|Why Most Men Don’t Prioritize Their Marriage (Until It’s Too Late)
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018|Why Your Arguments Never Get Resolved—And What to Do Instead
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17:23🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - Do you and your wife keep having the same arguments over and over? Do your conflicts feel like a frustrating loop, leaving you b…
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017|Defensiveness Is Ruining Your Marriage—Here’s How to Fix It
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016|How 10 Minutes a Day Can Transform Your Marriage
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10:57🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - Most couples struggle to find quality time together. You live under the same roof, but between work, kids, and distractions, you…
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015|The Secret to Handling Your Wife’s Emotions Without Feeling Overwhelmed
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014|How to Use Valentine’s Day to Build a Stronger, More Connected Marriage
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10:49🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - Many men see Valentine’s Day as a commercial scam, an obligation filled with overpriced flowers and chocolates. But what if you …
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013|Choosing Comfort Over Connection is Sabotaging Your Marriage
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012|Navigating Sexual Frustration in Marriage—And How to Fix It
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011|The Secret to Ending Arguments in Your Marriage: Yield, Don’t Defend
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010|Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage: 5 Essential Steps After Breaking It
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009|Create the Marriage You Want in 2025: 8 Powerful Questions for Husbands
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008|What Every Husband Should Know About Forgiveness and Trust with Dr. Bruce Chalmer
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38:35🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode of Better Husband, I am joined by psychologist Dr. Bruce Chalmer. We explore the critical issues in marriage whe…
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007|How to Avoid Conflict in Your Marriage By Asking This One Question First
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006|Why Men Struggle to Seek Help in Marriage with Dr. Dean Sunseri
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39:53🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode of Better Husband, I'm joined by Dr. Dean Sunseri, a licensed professional counselor and coach with over 30 year…
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005|Why Gratitude Could Save Your Marriage
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004|How Your Attachment Style is Impacting Your Marriage with Bev Mitelman
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50:28🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, I am joined by Bev Mitelman, founder of Securely Loved, and we dive into the world of attachment styles. We dis…
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003|How to Get More of What You Want in Your Marriage
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002|How To Be a S.T.R.O.N.G. Husband With Kristal DeSantis
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47:30🧰 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🧰 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - In this episode, I am joined by Kristal DeSantis, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and we discuss themes from her book …
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001|Overcoming Defensiveness: Improving Communication in Marriage
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🔥 Want to Be a Better Husband? 🔥 Download the Better Husband Toolkit—a short, powerful guide with three essential skills you can start using today to improve your marriage. Get yours now at www.betterhusbandtoolkit.com. - Welcome to Better Husband, the show that helps you answer the question "How can I be a better husband?" Join me every single wee…
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In this episode of We Are The Men, I explore the psychological barriers men face when embracing change and offer practical steps to overcome them. By understanding why our brains resist change and finding the right motivation, I encourage all men to adopt a growth mindset. I make sure to discuss the importance of stress balance and community suppor…
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How to Truly Live Authentically with Ray Martin
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38:18In this episode of 'We Are The Men,' host Angelo Santiago sits down with Ray Martin, an entrepreneur and award-winning business leader on a mission to empower people to live authentically. Ray shares his transformative journey from a successful businessman to finding his true calling as a coach and mentor. Following personal tragedies, Ray embarked…
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In this episode of We Are The Men, I share my thoughts on the profound impact of men's groups on personal growth and relationships. I share my own journey from skepticism to life-changing experiences in a men's group, emphasizing the importance of community and connection for men. I also outline three key reasons why these groups are essential: get…
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Finding Strength in Adversity with Rick Cheatham
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39:39In this powerful episode of 'We Are The Men,' Angelo welcomes guest Rick Cheatham, a retired fire captain, transformational speaker, and life coach. Rick shares his profound and inspiring life story, detailing how he overcame significant adversities, including a nearly failed marriage, the tragic loss of his son, and a debilitating injury that left…
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In this episode of 'We Are The Men,' host Angelo Santiago explores seven key qualities that define a truly good man, according to psychology. Angelo shares personal experiences, scientific studies, and practical tips for self-improvement, inviting viewers to reflect on their own lives. Learn how to become a better husband, father, community leader,…
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Raising Resilient Kids with Michael Anderson
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44:15Join Angelo Santiago in this conversation with Michael Anderson, a family therapist, coach, and author of the children's book series 'Jungle Tales.' They discuss the importance of parents doing their inner healing to show up more powerfully for their children, the principles of psychological flexibility, and the journey of overcoming personal fears…
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In this episode of We Are The Men, Angelo delves into his personal journey of the first 30 days of his social media detox. He shares the motivations behind his decision, the challenges faced in the initial days, and the positive changes experienced in his life and relationships. Angelo also discusses the impact of social media on mental health, pro…
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In this episode of 'We Are The Men', Angelo chats with men's coach and author Mike Campbell. Mike, the founder of Everyday Legends Academy, shares his expertise on helping 'nice guys' build self-worth, self-respect, and security. They explore the idea of 'killing the nice guy' and transitioning into a solid, secure, good man. Mike also opens up abo…
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In this episode, Angelo explores the critical importance of having a vision for one's life. He discusses how lacking a vision leads to being swayed by external expectations and ending up empty. Emphasizing the need for men to have a clear purpose, Angelo shares his journey of creating 'We Are The Men' and the challenges he faced in aligning his vis…
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Building the Future Through Youth Mentoring with Trevor Spring
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48:42In this episode of the We Are The Men Podcast, host Angelo Santiago engages in a heartfelt conversation with Trevor Spring, founder and director of Sonz Youth. They discuss Trevor's extensive 21-year journey as a holistic movement coach and his 12 years in men's work, including his impactful initiatives with the Mankind Project and Sacred Sons. Tre…
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Pattern Interrupts - A Strategy for a Fully Lived Life and Stronger Relationships
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15:39In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago delves into the concept of pattern interrupts—intentionally breaking daily routines to uncover new possibilities and deeper connections in life. Drawing from his recent family vacation to Belize, Angelo shares personal experiences of how stepping out of comfort zones can rejuvenate…
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Finding Authenticity and Connection with Dauss Miller
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42:50In this episode of the We Are the Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Dauss Miller, an award-winning commercial fashion and lifestyle photographer known for his transformative work with high-level entrepreneurs and thought leaders. The episode delves into Dauss's background, including his experiences as a 'super dad' to six children and his …
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In this solo episode of the We Are the Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago delves into the critical topic of why men need other men in their lives. He shares personal experiences and discusses the detrimental effects of loneliness, bolstered by research and statistics. Angelo emphasizes the importance of emotional and spiritual connections through br…
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Building a Strong Foundation in Life and Business with Robert Kandell
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45:09In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago speaks with Robert Kandell, an accomplished businessman, teacher, and author of 'Unhidden: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them.' Robert shares insights from his life journey, including his venture from corporate environments to successful entrepreneurship. He discusses the im…
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A Level Deeper with Angelo Santiago
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1:15:54This episode is a recording of Angelo Santiago's guest appearance on the A Level Deeper Podcast in May 2024. In this episode, host Chad Miles engages in a great conversation with Angelo about the evolving definition of masculinity. They explore Angelo's journey of self-discovery through men's work, the emotional challenges in his marriage, and the …
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Strengthening Marriages Through Sexual Intimacy with Dan Purcell
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49:20In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago connects with Dan Purcell, co-founder of Get Your Marriage On. They discuss the importance of sexual intimacy in strengthening marriages, the challenges couples face, and the resources available to help them. Dan shares his journey from a difficult sex life to becoming a coach and …
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Exploring Consent, Sexual Integrity, and Personal Growth with Mischa Byruck
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51:49In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago speaks with Mischa Byruck, a men's sexual integrity coach and founder of Evolve.Men, about the profound topics of sexuality and sexual shadows. Mischa shares insights from his extensive experience in coaching and consent education, touching on issues like navigating the complexitie…
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Embracing Your Leadership and Self-Trust with Jose Alejandro
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38:30In this episode of the We Are The Men podcast, host Angelo Santiago welcomes Jose Alejandro, a certified men's life and leadership coach. They dive into topics such as personal growth, rites of passage, self-trust, and the importance of community in men's lives. Jose shares his journey as a co-founder of Modern Renaissance Man, an organization empo…
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