Best Understand why you binge eat and how to stop Podcasts (2025)

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208 + When Intuitive Eating Doesn’t Work (Yet): Trauma and Safety in the Body 29:38

11h ago29:38

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In this follow-up to last week’s conversation about trauma and weight, Dr. Michelle Tubman explores a crucial truth that doesn’t get talked about enough: you can’t listen to a body you don’t feel safe in. While intuitive eating is often positioned as the antidote to food struggles, it’s not always the right starting point—especially for those navig…

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Who Are You Listening To? 29:28

1d ago29:28

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Who are you listening to when it comes to your food choices? If you're like most people, you've probably been listening to everyone except the one voice that matters most - your own. Have you been following external food rules for so long that you've lost touch with your body's signals? Do you find yourself constantly researching the "right" way to…

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Discipline Is A Muscle Not A Mood — How To Build Mental Toughness 57:44

2d ago57:44

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Discipline is about doing what you don’t want to do because you know it’s the right. The person you ARE and who you become through doing hard things paradoxically makes you happier. Victim hood doesn’t serve us, and I’ve had that tested over the past 4 months. Once again I’m coming back to delusional optimism. Wild gratitude and the WORK of being c…

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EPISODE 69: 8 Signs That What You're Doing to Stop Binge Eating Isn't Working 22:09

2d ago22:09

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In this week's episode of the Outsmart Overeating Podcast, I dive deep into the 8 biggest mistakes that keep binge eaters trapped in a cycle of feeling out of control around food. If you're like the old me and are currently struggling to break free from binge eating, this episode will help you identify the hidden pitfalls that might be sabotaging y…

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207 - The Truth About Trauma and Weight 32:16

7d ago32:16

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This week on Thrive Beyond Size, Michelle dives into a growing narrative in the trauma-informed wellness world: that if you heal your trauma, you’ll lose weight. While well-meaning, this belief is not only overly simplistic—it’s harmful. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why trauma can influence weight—but doesn’t always What the ACEs study really tel…

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Creating Your Roadmap for Recovery 30:20

8d ago30:20

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You've done it before in other areas of your life—maybe landing that dream job, finding your partner, or achieving a goal you once thought was impossible. So why does food feel so different? Why do you keep finding yourself stuck in the same patterns? In this episode, I'll show you that you actually have TWO roadmaps operating in your life: one tha…

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EPISODE 68: 3 Steps to Break Negativity Bias and Control Overeating 23:07

9d ago23:07

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In this episode of the Outsmart Overeating podcast, we explore negativity bias, the brain’s tendency to focus on the negative over the positive, and how it affects your eating habits and weight loss journey. Negativity bias leads us to focus on what could go wrong, often using disempowering phrases like “I can’t” instead of “I don’t,” which can sab…

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206 - Lipedema: The Unrecognized Disorder Affecting Millions of Women 1:20:43

14d ago1:20:43

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In this urgent and deeply moving episode, Michelle sits down with Emma Cloney and Diana Dimmock—two powerful advocates from Lipedema Canada—to talk about the medical condition most clinicians have never even heard of, despite its potential to affect 1 in 9 women. Together, they dive into: What lipedema actually is—and how it differs from lymphedema…

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The Missing Piece in Binge Eating Recovery 18:57

15d ago18:57

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If you’ve tried therapy, treatment programs, books, or food freedom plans—and you still find yourself stuck in the binge cycle—this episode is for you. In this episode, I’m introducing you to something new: the Binge Breakthrough Mini Series. I created it because I saw what was missing in so many recovery paths—real understanding of why binge eatin…

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EPISODE 67: Honoring Your Body Today to Transform Your Body Tomorrow 31:36

16d ago31:36

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We're SUPER-DUPER EXCITED to announce our brand-spankin' new mini-course, Your Summer Grill & Chill Playbook! Summer is here, and with it comes summer vacations filled with sun, sand, and swimsuits—but for many women, the thought of wearing shorts, tank tops, or bathing suits can trigger body insecurity, tempting you to stay home instead of making …

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How Sam Lost 35lbs And Beat The All Or Nothing Cycle As a Busy Mum 45:59

17d ago45:59

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Sam has struggled with her diet for years, even losing 50lb on Herbalife and then gaining it back. She felt like a failure with her diet because even when she knew what to do, she couldn’t get consistent. Now she’s lost close to 70lbs and has used the power of tiny habits in so many other areas of her life too. If you’re ready to do whatever is req…

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How to Stop Making Excuses And Become Someone Who Does Hard Things 47:28

21d ago47:28

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If you feel stuck in a cycle like you’re trying, but progress just isn’t happening fast enough, you’re not alone. It’s not that you’re not capable. It’s that there are hidden bottlenecks, subconscious beliefs, old habits, and tiny decisions you’re making daily—that are keeping you stuck. In this episode, I’m sharing a replay from a live event insid…

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205 - Hot Takes with Rob: Gym Selfies, Cheat Days, Dad Bods & More 42:48

21d ago42:48

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What happens when you ask your husband for his unfiltered opinions on diet culture, fitness myths, and wellness fads? You get Hot Takes with Rob—a lighthearted, totally unscripted episode where Rob and I riff on everything from gym selfies and cheat days to dad bods, fat jokes in movies, and whether "no pain, no gain" still has a place in our lives…

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From Emotional Eating to Empowerment with Deb Drummond 45:07

22d ago45:07

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In this week's episode of the Binge Eating Breakthrough Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Deb Drummond, who opens up about her remarkable journey from using food as an emotional crutch to discovering genuine food freedom. Deb's story is one that might feel familiar – from her fast-paced music industry days to her awakening about how she was u…

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EPISODE 66: From Picnics to Parties: Stick to Your Weight Loss Strategy This Summer 21:50

23d ago21:50

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Think summer’s all-you-can-eat BBQs and beachside cocktails are a death sentence for your diet? Think again. In this episode, I'm breaking down how to nail your weight loss goals without ditching the fun. From dodging buffet traps to mastering mindful eating, we’re sharing the EXACT strategies we use to keep our clients on track—no matter how many …

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204 - Rethinking Exercise: How to Make Movement Joyful, Not a Chore 21:55

28d ago21:55

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What happens when you want to move your body more—but it always feels like a “should”? In this episode, I’m sharing a personal story from a recent camping trip with my husband, Rob, that sparked a meaningful conversation about movement, motivation, and mindset. Together, we unpacked what’s really getting in the way of consistent, joyful movement—ev…

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Never Give Up 26:24

29d ago26:24

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What does it really mean to never give up - especially when the goal takes years longer than you expected? In this final episode of my 3-part post-marathon series, I’m sharing the long, winding journey to qualifying for the Boston Marathon - and how it parallels the path to food freedom and body trust. I talk about the power of holding a vision, ev…

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EPISODE 65: How to Shift Your Mindset From "Diet" to "Lifestyle" 19:45

1M ago19:45

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In this heartfelt episode, we dive into a relatable Reddit post from a woman who’s struggling to maintain a healthy weight while juggling a busy social calendar and a family who doesn't have the same eating goals she does. She loves cooking, eating, and indulging in high-calorie dishes at weekly gatherings, but finds herself stuck in a cycle of wei…

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Why You’re Not Making Progress (break the cycle NOW) 47:36

1M ago47:36

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If you keep gaining weight, sabotaging your progress, or feeling like you’re on a loop — you’re not lazy or broken. You’re just making tiny directional choices every day that are steering you somewhere. In this episode, we talk about how your daily habits are shaping your identity, why you don’t need massive motivation to change, and how to course-…

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203 - When You Rush Through Life (and Reach for Food Instead) 26:21

1M ago26:21

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What if your eating habits could teach you more about how you move through the world than you ever imagined? In this deeply personal episode, I share insights sparked by a recent labyrinth walk—one that cracked open an uncomfortable (but necessary) realization about how I navigate discomfort in all areas of life, not just around food. You’ll hear: …

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Why Rest Feels So Hard 27:14

1M ago27:14

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After the marathon, I gave myself more space to recover than ever before - and I still found myself overriding what my body was asking for. This episode is part two of my 3-part post-race series, and it’s all about the after: the energy drop, the resistance to slowing down, and the uncomfortable truth that even intentional rest sometimes misses the…

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Bingeing, All or Nothing Mindsets, Eating Out and MORE… Live Coaching Replay with Broccoli Mum 46:20

1M ago46:20

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Ever feel like you're smashing it one day… then eating everything in sight the next?Or maybe you eat out and think, “ I've ruined it” so you just give up on your diet completely or maybe deep down, you’ve got a story about yourself and your idenity that's keeping you stuck You’re not alone and you’re definitely not broken. In this live coaching rep…

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EPISODE 64: Menstrual Munchies: How to Control Cravings, Hunger, and Bloat During Your Period 29:14

1M ago29:14

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Do you struggle to stick to your weight loss plan during your period? You're not alone! In this week's episode, I dive into the psychological and physiological differences behind menstrual munchies and hormonal challenges that can derail your goals. Join us as we share practical strategies to tame cravings, manage hunger, and reduce bloating, all w…

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202: Healthism and Why It's Harmful 28:32

1M ago28:32

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Healthism is everywhere—but most of us don’t even know it has a name. In this powerful episode of Thrive Beyond Size, Dr. Michelle Tubman unpacks the hidden force that turns health into a moral responsibility and worth into a measurement of discipline. From the praise of weight loss at any cost to the judgment we place on food, movement, and rest, …

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No Regrets: Inside My Boston Qualifying Race 36:29

1M ago36:29

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I recently ran the Eugene Marathon - and I qualified for Boston. But what made this race so meaningful wasn’t just the finish time. It was how I showed up when things got hard. In this episode, I’m sharing the full story of race day: the physical pain, the mental challenges, the moments I wanted to quit, and the mindset that carried me through. It’…

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EPISODE 63: Behind Closed Doors: Understanding Why You Secretly Eat 30:55

1M ago30:55

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Have you ever bought cookies you’ve been craving, consumed the entire box, and then taken out the trash before your partner returns home? Or maybe you’ve ordered a salad while dining out with friends, but stopped to pick up a cheeseburger and fries on your way home so you can enjoy the food without feeling judged? Yeah, me too. Join me on this week…

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201: What Fiction Can Teach Us About Diet Culture – A Conversation with Paulette Stout 51:22

2M ago51:22

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This week, I’m joined by award-winning author Paulette Stout for a powerful conversation about her latest novel, What We Give Away—a book that absolutely blew me away. We explore how fiction can illuminate truths in ways facts and figures can’t, and why Paulette’s story of a woman navigating disordered eating, body image, and diet culture feels so …

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Olympic Athletes & Body Image 32:44

2M ago32:44

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In today's episode, I share what happened when I watched Olympic and Paralympic athletes discuss their body image struggles on Project Runway. I was struck by how these incredible women - whose bodies many of us might envy - still faced insecurities and fitting challenges. If even Olympic athletes struggle with body image, what does that mean for t…

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EPISODE 62: A Compilation of 'Naturally Thin' Eating Habits 28:37

2M ago28:37

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In this episode I debunk the lie that the fitness industry teaches about discipline being the key to a successful transformation and how that philosophy has kept dieters on a hamster wheel for years. Every frustrated dieter wonders why they can’t just be more disciplined. They wonder why they can start off strong in the morning and the wheels inevi…

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200: From Weight Loss to Body Trust – My Full Circle Journey 45:29

2M ago45:29

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Welcome to Episode 200 of Thrive Beyond Size! 🎉 This milestone episode is deeply personal. I'm pulling back the curtain on my full journey—from launching this podcast in my bedroom closet under the name Mindful Weight Loss… to becoming a fierce advocate for body trust, intuitive eating, and weight-inclusive care. In this episode, I share: The truth…

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I'm taking a break 1:04:44

2M ago1:04:44

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Hi friends! Lily here <3 This episode is really important. In today's convo, I share why it's time for me to take a step back. Then, I share a re-run of my testimony (posted on Jan 19, 2025) which is one of the most important episodes on the 80/20 catalog. 80/20 is and always will be something I'm most proud of. It's been an honor to host conversat…

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What Marathon Training Taught Me About Healing 32:59

2M ago32:59

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In this personal episode, I take you behind the scenes of my Boston Marathon qualifying journey and reveal the unexpected parallels I've discovered between athletic training and healing our relationship with food. I share how shifting from bracing against discomfort to opening up to possibility has transformed not just my running performance, but o…

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EPISODE 61: Overcoming Body Insecurity in Swimsuit Season 27:44

2M ago27:44

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Every summer, the same anxiety creeps in. You’ve been working hard to shift your mindset and embrace positive changes, but the sight of everyone in shorts and short sleeves sends your confidence spiraling. Sound familiar? In this episode, we dive into the struggle of a woman on Reddit who posted how she was feeling defeated in her body when the sum…

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how I stopped binge eating & obsessing over food (rerun!) 39:46

2M ago39:46

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It's not really about the food. In today's episode, Lily discusses the real reason why disordered eating habits begin and how she overcame her food obsessed. She covers topics like body image struggles, anxiety, extreme stress, and more. Note: this is a rerun from May 2024 :) Connect with 80/20 https://instagram.com/8020pod Submit to the 80/20 Advi…

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199: Familiar Comfort vs True Nourishment 21:59

2M ago21:59

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In this episode of Thrive Beyond Size, I'm diving into something that's been showing up in my own intuitive eating journey lately—something sneaky that might be tripping you up too: the difference between pleasure and familiarity. Sometimes we reach for certain foods, habits, or even thought patterns not because they truly bring us joy or nourishme…

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The Power of Co-Regulation 33:11

2M ago33:11

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In this episode, I explore the transformative power of co-regulation and why it might be the missing piece in your journey to freedom from binge eating. I'll share what happens in your brain and body when you connect with someone safe, why isolation often triggers binge behaviors, and how to find sources of co-regulation even when human connection …

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34 Habits and Hacks I Learned Before 34 50:43

2M ago50:43

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Ever feel like you're doing all the right things but still not seeing results? As it’s my birthday and I’m turning 34, I thought it was the perfect time to deep dive into the 34 habits and mindset shifts that have actually transformed my approach to health, fitness, and life all before turning 34! We're talking: Why delayed gratification beats deni…

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EPISODE 60: Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway: Breaking the Cycle of Inaction 27:52

2M ago27:52

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In today's episode, we dive deep into how fear fuels inaction and keeps your dreams just out of reach. It can feel safe to do nothing, but staying still carries a hidden risk — remaining stuck in the same place year after year, never reaching your true potential. Through powerful stories, expert insights, and practical steps, we uncover why fear pa…

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the "EVEN IF" mindset & how to practice it with Sarah Helton & Kenzie Todd 58:35

2M ago58:35

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Even if I’m single, that job doesn’t work out, I fail, I don’t know what’s next in life… Sarah Helton and Kenzie Todd, co-hosts of Even If, join Lily on the mic to chat about the EVEN IF mindset and what it means to keep pursing Jesus even if things aren't going our way. The girls discuss persistent prayer, setting healthy boundaries, community in …

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198: The Food Freedom Illusion 24:58

2M ago24:58

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Hello there, and welcome back to the podcast. In last week’s episode, I used the phrase ‘food freedom’ in the context of food being a mirror to show the relationship you have with yourself. But upon reflection, it doesn’t make sense. Food freedom is a phrase that is used a lot in diet culture and weight loss circles. But what is food freedom? It so…

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How To Stay Consistent When Your Emotions Feel Overwhelming with Coach Abbie 54:17

2M ago54:17

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Ever feel like life is just too much? Like you're drowning in emotions, trapped in a whirlwind of inconsistency, and the only thing that sounds remotely manageable… is lying in bed, crying, and eating chocolate? In this episode, I sat down with one of our amazing one-on-one Lean with Plants coaches, Abbie, to talk about how to manage those intense …

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Why Nervous System Work Matters More Than Willpower 24:56

2M ago24:56

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What do you do when everything goes off the rails and your nervous system is on high alert? In this episode, I share what happened during a recent workshop when unexpected tech issues threw everything off track—and how I responded in a way that’s very different from how I would have during my binge eating years. Instead of relying on willpower or p…

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EPISODE 59: "It's 3pm and I only have 300 calories left for the day. What do you do?" 18:58

2M ago18:58

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In this episode, we dive into the relatable struggles of calorie tracking and unexpected weight gain, inspired by one woman’s eye-opening journey. After “mysteriously” packing on pounds, one Redditor — a 27-year-old, 5’8” professional —discovered the culprit: underestimating her daily intake. (You can see the original post HERE.) With breakfast at …

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keep walking in faith (even though you might have doubts) 17:11

3M ago17:11

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How do you keep walking in faith through the ebbs and flows? This week, Lily chats through Matthew 14 and how Jesus always extends a hand through all the challenges and changes. Download the SURF Guidebook: https://lilyrakow.myflodesk.com/surf Listen to the previous SURF episodes: learn to ride the wave: an introduction to the SURF series stop chas…

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197: The Mirror Effect - It's Not Just About the Food 19:57

3M ago19:57

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Welcome, everyone. I’m excited to have you back here this week because I want to talk to you about something truly life-changing. I call it the mirror effect. It has to do with diet culture telling us to fix our eating and fix our bodies when really those are not the issues. There’s nothing wrong with our bodies. I want to make the point that true …

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Safety vs Control: What You Really Need to Stop Binge Eating 22:23

3M ago22:23

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Many of us believe we need more control over our eating habits, more willpower, more discipline. But what if control is actually the problem, not the solution? In this episode, I share my personal journey of realizing that my binge eating wasn't about lacking control—it was about desperately seeking safety in the wrong ways. I explain why the more …

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How To Break The Binge and Restrict Cycle — 5 Step System 52:31

3M ago52:31

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Break free from the binge and restrict cycle with this powerful 5-step system. In this episode, I share my personal journey with binge eating and how I finally overcame it. I'll reveal why binge eating isn't a failure of willpower, but rather a normal response to food restriction and highly processed foods. You'll learn why traditional approaches f…

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EPISODE 58: Unlock Your Brain to Stop Overeating - Answering Your Questions! 44:17

3M ago44:17

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YOU DIDN'T MISS IT, DID YOU!? Last week, Coach Steph Miramontes and I hosted our Virtual Live Event: Unlock Your Brain to Stop Overeating and we're dedicating today to answering some of the questions we didn't get to address in the training. Also, if you're struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and interested in joining us in the O…

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why isolation isn't healthy & how to strengthen friendships through vulnerability 37:49

3M ago37:49

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Loneliness leads to mind games. It shakes your faith and leaves you feeling worse than before. In this episode, Lily unpacks what isolation is and is not, explains why we need community, and shares ways to be the initiator in your friendships and relationships. This is episode #4 of the SURF series — Stop, Understand, Relationships, Faith — a five-…

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196: The Control Paradox - Why More Food Rules Make You Feel More Out Of Control 21:10

3M ago21:10

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Hello everyone and welcome back to Thrive Beyond Size. This episode was partly inspired by my husband returning to school and watching how meticulous he is about his assignments. The effort he puts into things is admirable but not sustainable and I realized that striving for perfection is about the illusion of control. It correlates to healing rela…

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