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Scars and Stars: Finding Self-Worth After Narcissistic Abuse Trigger Warning
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What does it mean to heal after narcissistic abuse? In this raw, unfiltered Q&A episode, Dana and Victoria tackle the questions that keep survivors up at night—from handling others' judgment to finding self-worth when everyone around you has tried to strip it away.
"I don't have to prove anything to anybody," Victoria asserts when addressing how to handle others talking down about you. This powerful statement sets the tone for a conversation that gives listeners permission to stop shrinking themselves for people who can't—or won't—see them clearly. The hosts share deeply personal experiences about recognizing they weren't at fault for their abuse, a realization both admit they're still working through even now.
As the episode unfolds, Dana and Victoria create a safe space for exploring how to celebrate your individuality in families that demand conformity. "You don't have to fit in," they remind listeners, challenging the societal expectation that family relationships must follow a predetermined script. Instead, they propose a radical idea: what if the problem was never you?
The most moving moment comes when the hosts address a question from a young listener about suicidal thoughts. Their compassionate response acknowledges the reality of those feelings while offering hope. "You know you're worth the fight because you've started your journey," Victoria says, speaking directly to a teenager questioning their worth while navigating gender transition without family support.
Whether you're questioning if you could someday become a narcissist (spoiler: if you're worried about it, you're not one), feeling responsible for your family's dysfunction, or simply trying to understand how to let people in after abuse, this episode offers validation, clarity, and the comforting reminder that you've survived 100% of your worst days—you are stronger than you know.
Chapters
1. Welcome to Q&A Episode (00:00:00)
2. Handling Others' Judgment and Opinions (00:06:37)
3. Recognizing It's Not Your Fault (00:29:01)
4. Celebrating Your Individuality (00:42:15)
5. Self-Preservation vs Selfishness (00:58:11)
6. Suicide Ideation and Finding Worth (01:05:31)
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