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Adjusting Your Expectations

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Are you constantly disappointed by friends, overworked as "the capable one," or questioning your worth when reality doesn't match your expectations? This episode explores how our expectations across friendships, work, finances, and intimate relationships often trigger deep feelings of unworthiness when unmet.

We dive into why we tie our value to others meeting our expectations, the childhood origins of these patterns, and provide practical strategies for breaking free. Learn how to separate your inherent worth from external outcomes using our address-adjust-apply framework. Whether you're dealing with friendship disappointments, work boundary issues, financial frustrations, or relationship mismatches, this episode offers actionable tools to maintain your sense of self-worth regardless of circumstances.

Connect with our "whole you pyramid" concept as we reveal how adjusted expectations lead to greater peace, authentic connections, and a stable sense of self.

Let’s Connect!

Website: www.adjustingpod.com

Social Media: @adjustingpod on Instagram | Facebook | Youtube | TikTok

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adjusting-podcast/id1748188929

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Lyu594jw5luH1rujNcTZZ?si=386a7e7728f5461b

Amazon Music/Audible: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/7863b34c-b85c-4f67-8044-10dd08cfb660/adjusting-podcast

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AdjustingPodcast

Substack Channel: https://substack.com/@justingnelson

Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]

Disclaimer: Adjusting Podcast is NOT a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.

Let’s Connect!

Website: www.adjustingpod.com

Social Media: @adjustingpod on Instagram | Facebook | Youtube | TikTok

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adjusting-podcast/id1748188929

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Lyu594jw5luH1rujNcTZZ?si=386a7e7728f5461b

Amazon Music/Audible: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/7863b34c-b85c-4f67-8044-10dd08cfb660/adjusting-podcast

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AdjustingPodcast

Substack Channel: https://substack.com/@justingnelson

Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]

Disclaimer: Adjusting Podcast is NOT a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.

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Content provided by Justin G. Nelson. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Justin G. Nelson or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

Are you constantly disappointed by friends, overworked as "the capable one," or questioning your worth when reality doesn't match your expectations? This episode explores how our expectations across friendships, work, finances, and intimate relationships often trigger deep feelings of unworthiness when unmet.

We dive into why we tie our value to others meeting our expectations, the childhood origins of these patterns, and provide practical strategies for breaking free. Learn how to separate your inherent worth from external outcomes using our address-adjust-apply framework. Whether you're dealing with friendship disappointments, work boundary issues, financial frustrations, or relationship mismatches, this episode offers actionable tools to maintain your sense of self-worth regardless of circumstances.

Connect with our "whole you pyramid" concept as we reveal how adjusted expectations lead to greater peace, authentic connections, and a stable sense of self.

Let’s Connect!

Website: www.adjustingpod.com

Social Media: @adjustingpod on Instagram | Facebook | Youtube | TikTok

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adjusting-podcast/id1748188929

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Lyu594jw5luH1rujNcTZZ?si=386a7e7728f5461b

Amazon Music/Audible: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/7863b34c-b85c-4f67-8044-10dd08cfb660/adjusting-podcast

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AdjustingPodcast

Substack Channel: https://substack.com/@justingnelson

Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]

Disclaimer: Adjusting Podcast is NOT a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.

Let’s Connect!

Website: www.adjustingpod.com

Social Media: @adjustingpod on Instagram | Facebook | Youtube | TikTok

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adjusting-podcast/id1748188929

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4Lyu594jw5luH1rujNcTZZ?si=386a7e7728f5461b

Amazon Music/Audible: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/7863b34c-b85c-4f67-8044-10dd08cfb660/adjusting-podcast

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AdjustingPodcast

Substack Channel: https://substack.com/@justingnelson

Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]

Disclaimer: Adjusting Podcast is NOT a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment.

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