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Healing Shame, Reclaiming Pleasure, and Living Unapologetically with Annalie Howling

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This episode is one of the most raw, riveting, and liberating conversations I’ve ever had. I sit down with performance coach, trauma therapist, and author of Unapologetic, Annalie Howling, to remind us we’re not alone in the shame stories we carry, and the powerful process of setting them down for good.

We talk about the difference between shame and guilt, the trauma responses that keep us stuck, and symptoms you might be living with caused by the shame you’re holding in your body. Annalie shares her deeply personal journey through self-harm, divorce, reclaiming her sensuality, and ultimately becoming the most unapologetic version of herself.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to shrink, hide, or apologize for who you are—this episode is your permission slip to take your power back.

HIGHLIGHTS

  • Annalie’s journey from self harm to radical self-compassion.
  • The key to healing from traumatic experiences.
  • The difference between guilt and shame.
  • 5 trauma responses (two common ones you may not realize you’re doing.)
  • Ways to reclaim your power after trauma.
  • Tips for navigating relationships (and even break ups.)
  • The difference between sensuality and sexuality.

RESOURCES + LINKS

Get your copy of Annalie’s book Unapologetic HERE!

Join The Shift Immersive! Text the word "waitlist" 602-428-7221.

Check out upcoming retreats + more: chrissymay.com

Watch & Subscribe on YouTube!

FOLLOW

Chrissy May: @thechrissymay

Annalie Howling: @annaliehowling

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If this episode resonated with you, it would mean the world if you left a 5‑star review on your favorite podcast platform. Your support helps more people discover these conversations. And if you know a friend who would love this episode, share it with them, it might be exactly what they need today.

**GRAB MY BOOK ON AMAZON!**
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Connect with Chrissy:
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Instagram: @theChrissyMay
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Chapters

1. Introducing Annalee Howling (00:00:00)

2. Understanding Shame vs. Guilt (00:11:12)

3. Trauma Responses and Fawning (00:21:17)

4. Self-Compassion as Shame's Antidote (00:30:17)

5. Breaking Free from One-Sided Relationships (00:37:45)

6. Sexual Awakening and Self-Discovery (00:42:21)

7. Embodying Shamelessness (00:54:35)

8. Rapid Fire Reclamation Round (01:01:05)

136 episodes

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Send us a text

This episode is one of the most raw, riveting, and liberating conversations I’ve ever had. I sit down with performance coach, trauma therapist, and author of Unapologetic, Annalie Howling, to remind us we’re not alone in the shame stories we carry, and the powerful process of setting them down for good.

We talk about the difference between shame and guilt, the trauma responses that keep us stuck, and symptoms you might be living with caused by the shame you’re holding in your body. Annalie shares her deeply personal journey through self-harm, divorce, reclaiming her sensuality, and ultimately becoming the most unapologetic version of herself.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to shrink, hide, or apologize for who you are—this episode is your permission slip to take your power back.

HIGHLIGHTS

  • Annalie’s journey from self harm to radical self-compassion.
  • The key to healing from traumatic experiences.
  • The difference between guilt and shame.
  • 5 trauma responses (two common ones you may not realize you’re doing.)
  • Ways to reclaim your power after trauma.
  • Tips for navigating relationships (and even break ups.)
  • The difference between sensuality and sexuality.

RESOURCES + LINKS

Get your copy of Annalie’s book Unapologetic HERE!

Join The Shift Immersive! Text the word "waitlist" 602-428-7221.

Check out upcoming retreats + more: chrissymay.com

Watch & Subscribe on YouTube!

FOLLOW

Chrissy May: @thechrissymay

Annalie Howling: @annaliehowling

Support the show

If this episode resonated with you, it would mean the world if you left a 5‑star review on your favorite podcast platform. Your support helps more people discover these conversations. And if you know a friend who would love this episode, share it with them, it might be exactly what they need today.

**GRAB MY BOOK ON AMAZON!**
https://a.co/d/63r93l6

Connect with Chrissy:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChrissyMayFB
Instagram: @theChrissyMay
Website for more information: ChrissyMay.com

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Introducing Annalee Howling (00:00:00)

2. Understanding Shame vs. Guilt (00:11:12)

3. Trauma Responses and Fawning (00:21:17)

4. Self-Compassion as Shame's Antidote (00:30:17)

5. Breaking Free from One-Sided Relationships (00:37:45)

6. Sexual Awakening and Self-Discovery (00:42:21)

7. Embodying Shamelessness (00:54:35)

8. Rapid Fire Reclamation Round (01:01:05)

136 episodes

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