Teaching Grit with Heart: Andrew Carbajal’s People-First Mission

B+ with Krista Gregg

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Episode Summary

In this powerful first episode of B+, U.S. veteran and high school assistant principal Andrew Carbajal shares his extraordinary journey of resilience, recovery, and the grit it takes to lead with heart. After being told he’d never learn beyond a high school level due to a traumatic brain injury, Andrew defied expectations—earning multiple advanced degrees, raising eight children, and dedicating his life to helping students who feel unseen.

Andrew talks with Krista about what it means to put “people first,” how struggle can become fuel, and why vulnerability is the true gateway to connection. Whether in classrooms, communities, or conversations, his story reminds us that grit isn’t about perfection—it’s about continuing forward, especially when it’s hard.

Content Warning

This episode includes real and vulnerable discussion around trauma, suicide ideation, and mental health challenges. We understand how sensitive this content can be, and we edit each episode with care to honor both our guests and listeners. If you or someone you love is struggling, call or text 988 or visit 988lifeline.org for 24/7 support. Please listen with care. You are not alone.

Takeaways

• Grit is earned through continued struggle—not something you're born with.
• Healing starts by being seen, heard, and supported.
• Students need more than academic instruction—they need someone to see them as a person first.
• Parents can model resilience by owning their struggles and being venerable with their kids.
• Failing is part of the learning process—and it should be safe to try again.
• The path forward isn’t easy, but it’s always worth it.

Mental Health Resources

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 for free, 24/7, confidential support for mental health crises, suicidal thoughts, or emotional distress.
• Find a Therapist: Search for licensed therapists near you through directories like Psychology Today, TherapyDen, or Mental Health Match.
• Join a Support Group: Connect with others through peer-led or professionally facilitated support groups via NAMI or GriefShare.

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Chapters

1. Introduction and Trigger Warning (00:00:00)

2. Andrew's Journey: From Medic to Educator (00:01:33)

3. Defying Expectations: Overcoming a Traumatic Brain (00:04:04)

4. The Power of Grit and Struggle (00:07:19)

5. Building Trust and Motivation in Students (00:11:11)

6. Mental Health Awareness and Student Struggles (00:14:20)

7. Creating a Supportive School Environment (00:18:03)

8. Curriculum Development for Student Success (00:21:26)

9. Initiatives and the Importance of Grit (00:22:32)

10. Creating a People-First Environment (00:27:01)

11. The Role of Parents in Fostering Grit (00:30:00)

12. Vulnerability and Community Support (00:31:35)

13. Writing for Change: The Power of Storytelling (00:33:51)

14. Building Grit: The First Steps to Resilience (00:38:11)