EP15: Finding Family in Unlikely Places: A Conversation on Love and Support with Seth Oliver & Mike Clarke

Beyond the Shed: Expanding Horizons in Men's Conversations

In this episode, we sit down with two incredible guests, Seth and Mike, for a heartfelt conversation about masculinity, personal journeys, and the power of connection. Seth, a father of three, reflects on how growing up without his father inspired him to be a more present dad. He shares stories from his early career in the music industry, including working with Whitney Houston's fan club, and how those experiences shaped his view of relationships and success. Mike, who grew up in the care system in South London, opens up about the challenges he faced, including navigating violence and a lack of trust. Throughout the episode, Seth and Mike explore themes like kindness, resilience, and the importance of small acts of love—like offering someone a sandwich—which can make a huge difference in someone’s life. Their journey highlights the impact of empathy, mentorship, and the simple yet powerful ways we can show up for each other.

Episode Highlights:

01:09 - Seth's Journey as a Dad

02:42 - Working with Whitney Houston's Fan Club

04:39 - Mike's Diverse Background

10:07 - The Language of Love

13:56 - Experience is Everything

18:36 - A Scary Home Invasion

20:25 - Why I Couldn’t Trust Anyone Around Me

27:22 - Being the Kid Who Saw What Others Didn’t

30:07 - The Real ‘Peckham’ of Birmingham

33:29 - What Happened to the Days of Open Doors and Free Play?

36:59 - Why We Need Real Friendships

42:38 - Camaraderie Beyond Race

43:58 - When You Know They’ve Got Your Back

50:45 - The Unmatched Magic of Live Music

55:43 - Rebuilding After the System Let Me Down

01:00:22 - The Key to Surviving Parenthood

01:05:22 - Why Presence Matters More Than Perfect Parenting
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