Episode 17: What Happens When You Lose Everything at Once?
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Brandon shares his journey through his third divorce, which became the lowest point of his life as he simultaneously lost his job, home, and faced financial ruin while fighting for custody of his children.
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• Third marriage ended after 12 years together, 10 years married with two sons
• Ex-wife initially discussed amicable divorce but then hired attorney and prevented him seeing his children for three months
• Lost job when Raytheon discontinued contract with his employer DSI
• Declined offer to work directly for Raytheon out of loyalty to current employer
• Court ordered him to sell home, pay child support and spousal maintenance despite being unemployed
• Forced to sell home at a $500 loss (which later appreciated by $150K during COVID)
• Focused on physical fitness to maintain mental health during this difficult period
• Eventually moved in with a woman he barely knew due to financial necessity
• Attempted to help his adult son Ethan from previous marriage get his life on track
Intro
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Chapters
1. The beginning of the third divorce (00:00:00)
2. Fighting for custody and assets (00:04:09)
3. Losing employment during divorce (00:08:41)
4. Rebuilding physically and emotionally (00:14:13)
5. Moving in with someone new (00:18:21)
6. Reconnecting with older son Ethan (00:25:14)
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