Navigating Divorce: Emotional Health, Money Scripts, and Financial Empowerment with Jonathan Aslay

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Jamie M. Lima and Jonathan Aslay explore the connection between emotional health and financial decisions in divorce. They discuss marriage's financial implications, "money scripts," and their impact on divorce outcomes. The episode covers adversarial divorces, mediation, and how financial upbringing influences relationships, highlighting gender differences in generating financial resources. They emphasize honest financial conversations, the risks of one partner managing finances, and the importance of self-care during divorce. The discussion concludes with insights on turning divorce struggles into professional passion and self-discovery.

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(0:00) Introduction by Jamie M. Lima with guest Jonathan Aslay (1:01) Emotional health and financial decisions during divorce (3:20) Marriage, government, and financial implications (4:11) Understanding "money scripts" and their impact on divorce (6:05) Financial resources and post-divorce relationships (8:11) Adversarial divorces, mediation, and money scripts (13:25) Financial upbringing and its impact on relationships (15:34) Gender differences in financial resource generation (18:19) The risks of one partner managing finances (23:20) The need for radically honest conversations about finances (24:04) Self care and self love during divorce (27:32) Coping with emotional and financial turmoil (31:03) Turning divorce struggles into professional passion (32:13) Final thoughts on self discovery after divorce (32:33) Closing remarks and resources