Alex Bruno’s Resilient Journey From Self-Doubt To Self-Validation Can't Be Broken podcast

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What happens when life throws you a curveball so devastating it brings you to your knees? For Amber Lynne, a former LA County Sheriff's Department custody assistant of 17 years, that moment came in the form of a panic attack while trying to navigate her son's developmental challenges. Feeling like she couldn't breathe and couldn't control anything, this wake-up call became the catalyst for a remarkable transformation. During our conversation, Amber takes us through her journey from that bathroom floor to the competitive bodybuilding stage. After a year of neglecting her wellbeing while focusing entirely on her son's needs, she found herself 30 pounds heavier and emotionally exhausted. The turning point came when she discovered A2F (Addicted to Fitness), a gym where she immediately felt at home. Under the guidance of owners Mark and Arlene, Amber not only reclaimed her physical health but rediscovered her sense of purpose and identity. What makes Amber's story so compelling is how she balances the intensity of competition prep with family life. As the wife of a sheriff's deputy and mother to a child with special needs, she's mastered the art of daily five-minute meditation, meal prep discipline, and maintaining a positive mindset despite challenges. Her philosophy that "you get what you give in life" has served her well both in law enforcement and on the fitness stage, where she placed second in her categories during her very first competition. Whether you're struggling with mental health, looking to make a fitness transformation, or simply need inspiration to overcome life's obstacles, Amber's practical wisdom offers a roadmap. She debunks common fitness myths, shares how to approach gym intimidation, and reveals the mindset shifts that helped her find peace with herself at 40. Ready to reset your life? Amber's journey proves it's never too late to become the strongest version of yourself—physically, mentally, and emotionally.…

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Building Your Body, Building Your Life: Monique Lawson's Path to Empowerment 1:02:59

13 days ago1:02:59

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When was the last time you truly invested in yourself? In this captivating conversation with Monique Lawson, we explore how one woman's decision to prioritize her own well-being completely transformed her life trajectory. Monique shares her remarkable journey from growing up in a large family with a single mother to becoming a successful hair stylist, business owner, and fitness competitor. What began as a simple desire to "look good" after having her third child evolved into a profound transformation that impacted every aspect of her life. "I had no idea how it would help me mentally," she reveals, describing how fitness became her anchor during difficult times. The conversation takes us through Monique's unexpected career beginning when a friend drove her to a salon where she was hired on the spot—a serendipitous moment that launched her 20+ year career as "Machine Hands." Similarly, her entry into fitness competitions came through another unexpected push when her trainer saw potential she didn't recognize in herself. What makes this episode particularly valuable is Monique's candid discussion of the mental benefits that came with physical discipline. She articulates how the confidence gained through fitness helped her navigate personal challenges and become more present for her family. Her advice for those intimidated by fitness is practical and accessible: find a trainer, consider group training, and remember that everyone started somewhere. Whether you're contemplating a fitness journey, building a business, or simply looking to invest more in yourself, Monique's philosophy that "nothing good comes easy" offers both challenge and encouragement. Her story reminds us that the greatest investment we can make is in ourselves, creating something "no one can take away from you." Ready to start your own transformation journey? Listen now and discover how small, consistent actions toward self-improvement can create ripple effects throughout your entire life.…

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Stop Scrolling, Start Living: The False Reality of Digital Life 11:13

5 weeks ago11:13

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Do you ever scroll through social media and wonder why everyone else's life seems perfect while yours feels like a constant struggle? C - Monster dives deep into this modern phenomenon, exposing the carefully crafted illusions that dominate our digital landscape and impact our self-worth. With raw honesty and zero filter, this episode challenges our cultural obsession with influencers and celebrities who we elevate to hero status despite knowing nothing about their true character. "Idolize the person that gets up every freaking morning to go to work, to put food on the table and a roof over your head," Sea Monster urges, encouraging listeners to redirect their admiration toward those who genuinely impact their lives—parents, teachers, coaches, and mentors who provide authentic guidance and support. The conversation takes a revealing look at gym culture, where people film elaborate workouts while barely breaking a sweat, and contrasts it with genuine grinders who are "too busy grinding" to document their journey. Sea Monster delivers the powerful truth that "a good person, a real person, actually works harder and better and does the right thing when nobody is looking." This becomes the episode's core message: character is defined not by what you showcase online but by who you are when there's no external validation at stake. Whether you're struggling with social media addiction or simply feeling lost in a world of digital smoke and mirrors, this episode offers a refreshing reality check and a path toward authentic living. Subscribe to Can't Be Broken for more unfiltered conversations that challenge conventional thinking and inspire genuine growth beyond the constraints of social expectations.…

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Angie Quintero's Journey to Self-Love Through Strength Training 57:53

6 weeks ago57:53

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What happens when someone who "hated PE" transforms into a passionate fitness enthusiast? Angie Quintero, a recent Cal Berkeley graduate with a sociology degree, joins host C-Monster to share her remarkable journey from disordered eating to strength training advocate. Angie candidly reveals how body changes during high school led her down a path of excessive cardio and calorie restriction—an approach she now recognizes was based on misinformation and fear. The turning point came when her parents connected her with strength training, helping her discover that proper nutrition wasn't the enemy but the essential fuel for building the body and life she wanted. The conversation dives deep into practical strategies for maintaining fitness while navigating college life, from morning workout routines to meal prepping. Angie shares wisdom beyond her years about overcoming gym intimidation as a woman, creating sustainable fitness habits, and setting realistic goals instead of falling into the "all or nothing" mindset that derails so many fitness journeys. Most powerfully, Angie articulates how strength training became much more than physical transformation—it became a philosophy for approaching life's challenges: "The discipline aspects and hard-working aspects that come from the gym bleed into other parts of your life." Her perspective on fitness as "the highest form of self-love" rather than punishment offers a refreshing counterpoint to toxic fitness culture. Whether you're just beginning your fitness journey or looking to deepen your relationship with wellness, Angie's insights provide both practical wisdom and inspiring motivation. Her parting message resonates deeply: the mountains we face aren't obstacles but opportunities to discover the strength we never knew we possessed.…

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The Four C's of Mental Toughness: Control, Commitment, Challenge, Confidence 9:04

8 weeks ago9:04

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Mental toughness isn't born—it's forged through adversity, failure, and the deliberate pursuit of challenge. As I return for Season 4 of the Can't Be Broken podcast, I'm diving headfirst into what truly creates resilience in both athletics and life. Your mind functions exactly like a muscle. When weightlifters target their biceps, they deliberately create microscopic tears through resistance, allowing the muscle to rebuild stronger. Mental toughness develops through this same mechanism—facing resistance, experiencing setbacks, and growing through recovery. Without these challenges, your mental fortitude remains underdeveloped and unprepared for life's inevitable obstacles. The four C's framework provides a practical approach to building unbreakable mental strength. Control teaches us to focus exclusively on factors within our influence rather than wasting energy on circumstances beyond our reach. Commitment challenges us to show up consistently regardless of how we feel or what conditions we face. Challenge serves as the essential catalyst for growth—we must either seek out difficult situations or learn from our failures when they naturally occur. Finally, Confidence emerges not from empty affirmations but from thorough preparation and proven resilience. This authentic confidence grows in direct proportion to the work invested and obstacles overcome. Whether you're an athlete, student, business professional, or parent, embracing these principles creates not just temporary success but lasting mental fortitude. After all, a tough mind, like a C - Monsters Mindset, truly can't be broken.…

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Closing a Chapter: Celebrating the Journey and Gratitude of Can't Be Broken Podcast, C-Monster Edition 16:45

18 weeks ago16:45

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A reflective journey through the closing of the Can't Be Broken Podcast highlights gratitude, resilience, and the importance of tough love. The episode emphasizes personal responsibility in achieving success while cherishing the memories made along the way. • Reflecting on the journey and emotional farewell • Gratitude for EA Essence and podcast supporters • Acknowledging the vulnerability of guests and their impact • Offering coaching services to aspiring athletes • Emphasizing the importance of leaving a legacy for daughters • Encouraging young adults to avoid quitting and fight for their goals • The significance of hard work and preparation in building confidence • Final thoughts on love, community, and facing life's challenges…

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Exploring Wellness and Identity: Harnessing Emotional Intelligence and Purpose with EA Essence 1:21:27

25 weeks ago1:21:27

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Join us for a thought-provoking conversation with the insightful EA Essence, who's been a cherished voice on our show for almost three years now. This episode starts with an intriguing look at high cholesterol, a common issue often tackled with medication in the U.S. medical system. With the help of human biologist Gary Brekka, we explore the potential of natural remedies such as fasting, mineral intake, and hydration, offering a fresh perspective that questions traditional medical approaches and encourages listeners to consider lifestyle changes as a path to wellness. Our discussion takes a deeper turn as we unpack the impact of social media and influencers on personal growth, especially in dealing with addiction and depression. We dive into the delicate balance between harnessing social media for positive learning and the risk of mindless scrolling. The conversation reflects on the importance of community, purpose, and coping tools in navigating emotional storms. By sharing strategies to develop emotional intelligence and self-awareness, we inspire listeners to pursue personal fulfillment beyond societal achievements. Lastly, the episode delves into the complex interplay between identity, addiction, and the pursuit of purpose, drawing insights from Dr. Gabor Mate. We explore how childhood experiences shape our search for love and comfort, and the role of emotional intelligence in understanding oneself. Through personal anecdotes and expert insights, we highlight the importance of self-awareness in building confidence and seeking personal growth. From the pressures faced by young athletes to the balance between soul and ego, this episode offers a rich tapestry of ideas to guide listeners toward a more authentic and meaningful life.…

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Conquering Life's Challenges Through Sports and Resilience with Jamie Whitmore 1:52:38

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What happens when a college athlete's passion for sports leads to an unexpected, life-altering journey? Meet Jamie Whitmore, a phenomenal athlete whose story captivates with tales of resilience, humor, and triumph over adversity. From swimming laps as a child and running cross-country in high school to making a pivotal career decision influenced by a chance encounter with a triathlete, Jamie’s narrative is a testament to ambition and determination. Learn how a memorable incident involving a naked guy at Berkeley played a role in her college choice, and how an unexpected path led her to become a professional triathlete and mountain biker. Discover the intricate balance between Olympic dreams and financial realities as Jamie sheds light on the lesser-known challenges faced by athletes outside major sports circuits. Her journey through the Xterra circuit embodies strategic decision-making, showcasing the complexities of training across multiple disciplines like mountain biking, trail running, and swimming. She candidly discusses the role of sponsorships and endorsements in sustaining an athlete’s career, underscoring the power of perseverance and community support during health crises. Facing two battles with cancer, Jamie’s strength shines through as she recounts the emotional journey and the importance of faith and family in overcoming life's hurdles. Jamie’s story doesn’t end at the finish line; rather, it inspires the next generation as she looks to the future with hopes of writing a book and fostering an interest in STEM education. Her experiences as a Paralympian and motivational speaker offer a rich tapestry of lessons in grit and resilience. Whether championing innovation in sports safety or sharing her motivational journey, Jamie Whitmore exemplifies the power of purpose and the impact one dedicated individual can have on the world. Tune in to this powerful episode filled with humor, heartache, and hope, and let Jamie's story inspire you to confront challenges and pursue your passions fearlessly.…

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Embracing Failure and Cultivating a Winning Mindset: C-Monster Mindset 12:44

33 weeks ago12:44

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What if shielding our children from failure is actually setting them up for a harder fall? This episode of Can Be Broken Podcast dares to question the conventional methods of parenting and personal growth, advocating for a tough love approach that embraces adversity and learning from failure. We argue that true development springs from overcoming challenges, not avoiding them. By providing honest feedback and pushing for improvement, we can cultivate resilience and a relentless mindset. This candid discussion is a must-listen for parents, educators, and anyone invested in personal growth, as it highlights the importance of seeing obstacles as opportunities for growth. Next, we turn our focus to the concept of a winning mindset, drawing inspiration from Tim Grover's philosophies in his book "Winning." Victory demands more than just ambition; it requires relentless effort, resilience, and a deep love for the process itself. This episode stresses the importance of being driven by purpose and not by fleeting motivations or external opinions. We call for massive action and self-honesty, encouraging listeners to stop merely talking about their goals and start executing on them. Discover how to embrace failures as stepping stones to success in this no-nonsense conversation aimed at inspiring you to take control of your destiny.…

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Fueling Peak Performance: C-Monster Mindset 15:46

36 weeks ago15:46

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Can proper nutrition really transform your athletic performance? Discover the secrets to achieving peak performance in this invigorating episode of the Can't Be Broken podcast with me, C Monster. We break down the indispensable elements of athletic success, focusing on strength, agility, endurance, and the often-neglected aspect of nutrition. Imagine your body as a high-performance Ferrari—what kind of fuel are you putting into it? Join us as we explore how disciplined dietary choices, with the support of parents, can be a game-changer in avoiding fatigue and ensuring athletes perform at their best. But that's just the beginning. We dive deep into the mental and physical training required to excel in any sport. Consistency in skill development, strength training, and agility drills is just the tip of the iceberg. We stress the importance of pushing through discomfort and adversity to build mental resilience, a key factor in both sports and life. Learn about the critical role of sleep, physical conditioning, and mental fortitude, enhanced through reading, visualization, and positive influences. This episode is a treasure trove of actionable insights, ensuring you're equipped to overcome challenges and achieve greatness. Your feedback is always welcome, reinforcing the mantra that a calloused mind is crucial for enduring success. Tune in and transform your athletic journey.…

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Forging Pathways in Sports and Academics: The Remarkable Journey of Olyvia and Priscylla Rutter 1:00:31

37 weeks ago1:00:31

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Get ready to be inspired as we welcome Olyvia and Priscylla Rutter, two exceptional young athletes, who share their journeys on and off the softball field. Olyvia, fresh from graduating Providence High School, is set to pitch for NYU while pursuing a career in dentistry. Meanwhile, Priscylla, a talented first baseman or designated hitter at Dominican University in Chicago, sheds light on her studies in natural science. They reminisce about their early days at Mid Valley, their leap to competitive travel ball, and even their brief pursuits in soccer and water polo. Ever wondered how student-athletes navigate the complex college recruitment process? We share invaluable insights on tools and strategies, featuring platforms like Fast Pitch Scout that can make this journey smoother. Discover the importance of aligning your athletic goals with academic aspirations, and how to make the most of your college years, whether playing in Division I or otherwise. Learn from the Rutter sisters' experiences, emphasizing the fleeting yet impactful nature of these pivotal years. But it doesn’t stop at sports and academics. This episode delves deep into the mental game, underlining the importance of staying true to oneself and maintaining self-discipline. Hear personal stories of motivation, resilience, and the irreplaceable role of family support. We discuss the blend of passion and accountability, overcoming adversity, and the impact of social media on today’s youth. Whether you're an aspiring athlete, parent, or coach, this episode offers a treasure trove of wisdom on achieving success both in sports and in life.…

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The Power of Persistence and Clear Goals: C-Monsters Mindset 13:08

39 weeks ago13:08

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What does it really mean to work hard, and are you truly giving your best effort? Join me, C Monster, as we kick off Season 3 of the Can't Be Broken Podcast with a fresh perspective and a renewed sense of purpose. After a brief hiatus to explore new endeavors and recover from personal injuries, I'm excited to share my journey and the lessons learned along the way. In this opening episode titled "C Monster’s Mindset," we explore the importance of trying new things to keep life fulfilling and dive into the foundational themes of hard work and excellence. Throughout the episode, we dissect what it means to have "High Intention and Sincere Effort," focusing on self-honesty, responsibility, and the necessity of a clear direction in your efforts. We also highlight the critical components of achieving excellence, such as effort, integrity, and strategic planning, in the "Strive for Excellence" chapter. If you're feeling stuck or need that motivational push, this episode is tailored just for you. Tune in and let’s start turning intentions into tangible results. Thank you for joining the Can't Be Broken Podcast—let's make things happen together!…

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Resilience in the Face of Adversity: C-Monster Mindset 16:49

1 year ago16:49

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They say all journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware, and as C-Monster, I'm sharing an intimate look back at the grooves we've carved on the Can't Be Broken podcast. From the gritty beginnings of my competitive spirit to the unwavering commitment to my principles, this episode is a heartfelt tribute to the incredible guests and you, the listeners, who've shaped this odyssey. We've sprinted through storms and basked in victories, and as we perch on the possibility of a final lap, I'm infused with gratitude for the lessons learned and the wisdom imparted about resilience and mental strength. Embrace the notion that action is the foundational key to all success. This conversation is a clarion call to be the first to grab the reins, to labor beyond the glare of the spotlights, turning your aspirations into tangible triumphs. I hold nothing back as we explore the criticality of hard work trumping talent, and the potency of personal accountability and work ethic. Our dialogue serves as a powerful reminder that the deliberate steps we take each day craft the future we dream of. As we potentially close this chapter, the echo of our mantra resounds with certainty—you simply can't be broken.…

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Dribbling Through Challenges: Madison Guerrero's Court of Growth and Resilience 1:03:26

1 year ago1:03:26

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The path from high school hoops to college courts is lined with personal evolution, and Madison Guerrero's story is a testament to that journey. On 'Can Be Broken', we're joined by this relentless defender and freshman basketball player from Los Angeles Valley Junior College, who takes us through the trials and triumphs of her athletic and personal growth. From the sting of a championship loss to the thrill of collegiate-level competition, Madison's experiences shed light on the realities of being a student-athlete—balancing ambition with academics, the game with personal development, and setbacks with success. Madison's candid conversation with us reaches beyond the basketball playbook, exploring the intense preparation that goes into every game and the mental agility required to keep pace at the college level. She dives into the nuances of team dynamics, the pivotal role of coaches, and how the decision to stay local for college shaped her experience. Listeners will hear how Madison's commitment to nursing parallels her dedication on the court, illustrating the drive it takes to succeed in sports and in life. Her story is a playbook on resilience, echoing the mentorship and advice that have fueled her ambitions. As you tune in, be prepared to be inspired by Madison's heartfelt gratitude for her support system. You'll gain perspective on the impact of social media in the recruitment process, and how platforms like Synergy can spotlight an athlete's performance. This episode is more than just a conversation about basketball—it's a celebration of the indomitable spirit found within every dedicated athlete and a reminder of the joy that comes from chasing your passion, no matter the challenges. Join us on 'Can Be Broken' to be part of a community that uplifts and empowers through each shared story.…

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Swinging for the Fences in Life and Leadership with Chuy Rico 1:13:31

1 year ago1:13:31