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# 58 - Can We Inspire Care from Others?

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Love cannot be ordered up.
Care cannot be demanded.
If we want certain people to love us, or care about us, is there anything we can do to make that more likely?
This episode explores various relational moves across three scenarios that might help to inspire more care for ourselves from other people. We discuss:

  • 1:36 The stove is broken. How can I inspire my partner to care about this?
  • 5:25 The two levels in every conversation: Tactical and Relational
  • 9:43 How to amplify another's good intentions
  • 16:59 How to have an honest discussion with a friend group?
  • 21:05 Checking for shared purpose: Do you still want a connection with me?
  • 23:36 How to show up differently in a conflict
  • 31:23 Strategies for getting my HOA to care about our well water

Feeling overwhelmed with the current state of the world? You're not alone, and I can help. Join me this summer as I host my Inner Grounding Summer Series. We'll explore strengthening inner sovereignty, centering hope, and choosing truth over comfort.

For ongoing practice and deeper learning, join my monthly membership program. You will find a safe space for live discussions and a supportive community of like-minded, open-hearted humans.
Stay updated on new episodes and resources by subscribing wherever you listen to podcasts or visiting yvetteerasmus.com.

Get 20% off your annual NVC Library subscription using the code YVETTENVCLIBRARY at checkout at: https://nvcacademy.com/registration/signup/nvc-library

Here are more ways to connect with me:

  continue reading

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Manage episode 439024840 series 3498921
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Love cannot be ordered up.
Care cannot be demanded.
If we want certain people to love us, or care about us, is there anything we can do to make that more likely?
This episode explores various relational moves across three scenarios that might help to inspire more care for ourselves from other people. We discuss:

  • 1:36 The stove is broken. How can I inspire my partner to care about this?
  • 5:25 The two levels in every conversation: Tactical and Relational
  • 9:43 How to amplify another's good intentions
  • 16:59 How to have an honest discussion with a friend group?
  • 21:05 Checking for shared purpose: Do you still want a connection with me?
  • 23:36 How to show up differently in a conflict
  • 31:23 Strategies for getting my HOA to care about our well water

Feeling overwhelmed with the current state of the world? You're not alone, and I can help. Join me this summer as I host my Inner Grounding Summer Series. We'll explore strengthening inner sovereignty, centering hope, and choosing truth over comfort.

For ongoing practice and deeper learning, join my monthly membership program. You will find a safe space for live discussions and a supportive community of like-minded, open-hearted humans.
Stay updated on new episodes and resources by subscribing wherever you listen to podcasts or visiting yvetteerasmus.com.

Get 20% off your annual NVC Library subscription using the code YVETTENVCLIBRARY at checkout at: https://nvcacademy.com/registration/signup/nvc-library

Here are more ways to connect with me:

  continue reading

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