Understanding Root Causes: Key to Successful Divorce Mediation - with Avi Kahan

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The world often feels rigged. And this episode is a wake-up call to recognize the barriers that exist for those who don’t fit the traditional mold. In this episode, which is a kind of tribute to my dear departed Dad, I recount some powerful lessons from the man who was a brilliant psychiatrist and my biggest champion. He taught me that if something feels off about the environment you’re in, it probably is—and it’s absolutely hella-not your fault. We dare to break into the uncomfortable truth that many workplaces are designed for a very specific demographic, leaving neurodivergent individuals, particularly those on the autism spectrum, feeling excluded. I share three stories in which my Dad imparted to me more than my fair share of his wisdom, and I'm hoping you to can feel empowered. You'll learn that we can advocate for ourselves and others to create a more inclusive work culture. Newsletter Paste this into your browser if the newsletter link is broken - https://www.lbeehealth.com/ Join our Patreon - https://differentnotbrokenpodcast.com/patreon Mentioned in this episode: Sign Up For Our Newsletter Stay updated on all the things! Get added to our newsletter mailing list. Newsletter…

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"You don't get divorced from your spouse. It doesn't exist. It's a made-up word. You commit to a new relationship with them." - Avi Kahan Avi Kahan, a distinguished mediator and founder of the non-profit Vad Hadin Vahora, is renowned for his innovative approach to divorce proceedings, integrating halakhic principles with civil law to offer comprehensive conflict resolution. With a background in finance and law, he expertly navigates the complexities of money, ethics, and family dynamics, promoting mediation over litigation to transform traditional divorce processes. Kahan believes that many mediators act merely as facilitators who know the divorce system, rather than genuinely resolving conflicts, and advocates for a deeper form of mediation that focuses on understanding underlying conflicts and crafting third solutions acceptable to both parties. Envisioning a future where divorce is seen as a positive transition rather than a war, Kahan emphasizes the importance of viewing divorce as a means of improving relationships, ultimately fostering an environment where couples can co-parent amicably without the animosity of court battles. Key Takeaways ->Mediation in divorce is essential for fair resolutions despite challenges compared to traditional litigation. ->Understanding conflict and finding mutually acceptable solutions is crucial in true mediation. ->Effective mediation can navigate complex family dynamics and ethical considerations for a more amicable separation process. ->Unresolved conflict and breakdowns in communication often lead to divorce. ->Real mediation aims to address underlying conflict dynamics and real problems in divorces. ->Divorce should be viewed as a positive step towards a new beginning, shifting societal perspective. ->Prioritizing children's well-being during divorce is crucial for minimizing emotional and psychological impact. Connect with Avi Kahan https://hadin.org/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/avi-kahan-428aba169/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

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Understanding Root Causes: Key to Successful Divorce Mediation - with Avi Kahan

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Reconnecting After a Breakup: Building Healthy Relationships - with Kimia Moghadam 28:17

6 days ago28:17

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"That it's a journey, allow yourself time, allow yourself the grace and whatever that you need and set intentions for why you are trying to reconnect with certain people." - Kimia Moghadam Kimia Moghadam, a licensed mental health counselor and clinical director at My Therapy NYC, is dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of relationships, particularly when facing the challenges of leaving them. She emphasizes the multifaceted nature of this decision, taking into account cultural norms, financial dependencies, and emotional vulnerabilities that can make it daunting. Moghadam encourages individuals to seek support from their community, friends, and family, recognizing the value of a strong support system in such times. By fostering open communication and advocating for personal needs, she helps clients reconnect with themselves, approach new relationships with patience and self-compassion, and ultimately prioritize their own well-being. Key Takeaways ->Kimia Moghadam emphasizes relational, compassionate, and honest approach in therapy sessions for couples navigating separation and divorce. ->Creating a safe and trusting environment for clients using humor and compassion to facilitate difficult conversations. ->Encouraging clients to address issues and communicate effectively in sessions, holding them accountable for their words and actions. ->Importance of acknowledging evolving identities after divorce and finding ways to empower these identities in new ways. ->Seeking support, allowing time and grace needed for rediscovering identity post-divorce. Connect with Kimia Moghadam https://mytherapynyc.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimia-moghadam-lmhc-d-487784122/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Establishing Clear Expectations and Consequences for Proactive Parenting - with Gary J. Edelstein 32:36

13 days ago32:36

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"Yelling is not a consequence. It's the avoidance of a consequence." - Gary Edelstein Gary Edelstein, a seasoned psychotherapist specializing in neuropsychology and family systems, is dedicated to advancing a collaborative co-parenting model. He underscores the importance of maintaining a unified front in parenting, particularly when children experience emotional, psychological, or neurodevelopmental challenges. Edelstein advocates for parents to establish consistent discipline rules across households' post-divorce, which he believes can prevent the polarization of parental perspectives and reduce conflict. By promoting collaboration based on neurocognitive principles, Edelstein aims to lower the emotional tone in households and support healthier relationships, ultimately benefiting the children's well-being. Key Takeaways ->Establishing a collaborative co-parenting relationship is crucial to prevent parental conflict and minimize the negative impact of divorce on children. ->Consistency in setting limits and discipline rules across both households is key to reducing disagreements and promoting a neutral authority for children. ->Parental conflict during divorce can intensify children's feelings of guilt and responsibility, making the divorce process even more difficult for them. ->Proactive parenting involves setting clear expectations, consequences, and rules in advance to address problematic behaviors without escalating emotional outbursts. ->Lowering the emotional tone in the household and implementing consequences for negative behaviors can aid in effective conflict management and strengthen family bonds. Connect with Gary J. Edelstein https://npiprofile.com/npi/1518003177 https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/gary-j-edelstein-brewster-ny/134476?msockid=3bb72f09a5256ac538a43db7a43c6be1 Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Understanding Root Causes: Key to Successful Divorce Mediation - with Avi Kahan 36:03

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Structured Communication Methods for Healing Relationships Post-Divorce - with Trisha Sanders 32:57

27 days ago32:57

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"Mirroring slows down the communication process. It really helps us to be able to tune in and listen in addition to be able to hear the information." - Trisha Sanders Trisha Sanders is a licensed clinical social worker with nearly twenty years of experience, specializing in guiding families through the challenging transitions associated with divorce. Recognized for her expertise in expressive therapies and imago relationship therapy, Sanders places a strong emphasis on the development of emotional intelligence and effective communication as essential tools for healing and strengthening relationships. She underscores the importance of these skills in divorce, particularly when co-parenting, as they help address the trauma and loss of control that often accompany such life changes. Through her work on platforms like wholefamilynj.com and her Instagram account, Sanders advocates for strategies that foster a supportive environment, enabling families to navigate the complexities of divorce with empathy and understanding. Key Takeaways ->Utilizing play therapy and storybooks is crucial for effectively communicating with children about divorce. ->Maintaining boundaries, avoiding negativity, and fostering open communication with children is important during divorce. ->Emotional intelligence and effective communication are key in healing and strengthening relationships during and after divorce. ->Structured communication techniques like mirroring, empathy, and validation are crucial in high-tension situations like divorce. ->Learning skills to deal with difficult personalities is valuable for personal growth, particularly for young children and teenagers. ->Effective communication strategies, such as mirroring and validation, are crucial during divorce to avoid criticism and conflict. Connect with Trisha Sanders: https://www.wholefamilynj.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/trish-sanders-lcsw07652/ https://www.instagram.com/trish.sanders.lcsw/ https://www.facebook.com/wholefamilynj/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Divorce Settlements: Balancing Emotions with Financial Realities - with Jeff Landers 34:49

5 weeks ago34:49

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"Well, I guess it's important to know what's important to the spouse that you're divorcing and for them to know what's important to you so you could have a win-win situation." - Jeff Landers Jeff Landers is a distinguished expert with over 40 years of experience in real estate, mortgages, and the financial intricacies of divorce, renowned for his guidance in navigating the complex financial challenges of ending a marriage. He emphasizes the crucial importance of being financially involved in household matters before a divorce to avoid complications and advises individuals to prioritize financial over emotional decisions during the process. Landers advocates for the engagement of specialized financial advisors with experience in divorce, recommending tools like Broker Check to assess their credibility and expertise. By highlighting the need for proactive and strategic financial planning, Landers aims to prevent common pitfalls and ensure a stable future for those going through a divorce, advocating for decisions that avoid long-term regrets and secure financial independence. Key Takeaways: ->Involvement in household finances during divorce is crucial to avoid complications and unknown financial details. ->Emotional decisions during divorce can have long-term financial consequences, highlighting the importance of thinking financially. ->Divorce settlements are ultimately about money and ensuring financial security for the future. Financial advisors can help ensure that divorce settlements lead to financial success in the future. ->Asset division in divorce involves strategies to help individuals attain a favorable settlement based on their goals and trade-offs. ->Setting up a divorce settlement for financial success involves seeking guidance from a financial advisor and managing expenses carefully. Connect with Jeff Landers: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jefflanders/ https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/ https://a.co/d/bBmQcPd Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Market Trends and Property Conditions: Crucial Considerations in Divorce - with Nikki Beauchamp 32:58

6 weeks ago32:58

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"There's a whole grief process that starts all over again when you make that final decision to sell that property. And that's hard for people." - Nikki Beauchamp Nikki Beauchamp, a seasoned Manhattan-based real estate expert with over two decades of experience at Sotheby's International Realty, provides invaluable guidance at the intersection of divorce and property transactions. With a keen focus on personal goals rather than general market trends, Nikki emphasizes the necessity of seeking advice from a trusted professional to navigate the complexities of the real estate market during a divorce. She advocates for open communication and regular assessment of real estate portfolios to make informed decisions, highlighting the importance of addressing these matters early in the divorce process. By offering nuanced insights and tailored solutions, Nikki Beauchamp fosters a supportive environment for divorcing couples, ensuring a smooth and positive transition with her empathetic and data-driven approach. Key Takeaways ->Valuation of marital properties during divorce can be complex, considering children's needs, emotional attachment, market trends, renovation needs, and staging considerations. ->Property buyouts in divorce, especially in New York City, involve challenges related to financial resources, refinancing, cooperative housing requirements, credit challenges, liquidity issues, and lifestyle changes post-divorce. ->Selling a home during divorce can be emotionally challenging due to attachment and grief, especially when children are involved, requiring careful consideration of emotional ties, family dynamics, and financial concerns. ->Consider current market trends and property conditions in divorce cases to avoid overvaluing homes due to emotional attachments, emphasizing the importance of aligning personal circumstances with market dynamics. ->Real estate agents play a crucial role in working with divorcing couples, providing trust, comfort, and a neutral resource to guide couples smoothly through the real estate process, alleviating misunderstandings and ensuring a positive experience for both parties. Connect with Nikki Beauchamp: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolebeauchamp/ https://www.nicolebeauchamp.com/ https://www.instagram.com/nikkibeauchamp Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Establishing Boundaries and Co-Parenting in Divorce - with Jessica McCarthy PSY.D. 34:30

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"Divorce will get you out of one situation. It will not guarantee, though, a happy ending in the next." - Jessica McCarthy Dr. Jessica McCarthy, a renowned clinical and school psychologist from New Jersey, is celebrated for her expertise in supporting women through life transitions, including divorce. As the founder of Elements Psychological Services, she adopts a no-nonsense approach to simplify complex psychological concepts, making her a respected figure in both clinical and media landscapes. Dr. McCarthy views divorce as an opportunity to start anew rather than an assured path to happiness, urging individuals to engage in self-reflection and learn from past experiences to avoid repeating old patterns. She advocates for intentional living by setting clear boundaries and focusing on self-discovery, empowering her clients to craft a fulfilling and purposeful new chapter in their lives after divorce. Key Takeaways ->Healing after divorce requires time and support to prioritize personal well-being. ->Divorce can lead to personal growth and self-discovery by focusing on self-investment. ->Establishing new boundaries and parameters is crucial in post-divorce relationships. ->Co-parenting after divorce requires setting boundaries, clear communication, and prioritizing children's needs. ->Setting boundaries in communication with ex-partners post-divorce is essential for healthy dynamics. ->Maintaining consistency and structure for children of divorce is crucial for their well-being. Connect with Jessica McCarthy: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-a-mccarthy-psy-d-795b333/ https://elementspsych.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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The Role of Parents in Teaching Money Management - with Ed Vargo 38:00

8 weeks ago38:00

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"If you don't know about the money, you don't have control over the money or access to the money." Ed Vargo, the founder of Burning River Advisory Group and Enlighten Her, is a fervent advocate for financial literacy, particularly focusing on empowering women. Inspired by his immigrant mother's struggles with financial independence, Ed has dedicated his career to providing compassionate financial guidance to help women achieve equality through financial strength. He emphasizes the significance of teaching financial literacy from a young age, advocating for parents to model positive financial behaviors for their children and encouraging open discussions about money within families. Vargo also highlights the impact of financial misunderstandings on relationships, especially during divorce, underscoring the importance of assembling a knowledgeable support team and fostering financial education to promote harmony and independence. Key Takeaways: ->Ed Vargo emphasizes teaching children about money management from a positive perspective and modeling good money behavior. ->Communication about money values and decisions is crucial in relationships to avoid disharmony and resentment. ->Open dialogue about money in relationships can prevent conflicts and build financial harmony. ->Educating oneself about family finances, especially during divorce, is essential to avoid being at a disadvantage. ->Enlighten Her offers resources like white papers on money myths and steps to take during divorce to empower women in managing their finances. ->Early intervention in divorce proceedings is crucial to avoid post-settlement regrets and make informed decisions. ->Enlighten Her aims to empower women to take control of their finances and make informed decisions, especially during major life events like divorce. Connect with Ed Vargo: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-zweben-17676434a/ https://www.instagram.com/joezweben_/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Positive Impact of Co-Parenting on Emotional Growth - with Joseph Zweben 28:34

9 weeks ago28:34

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"If your parents and you are just going to look at the negative side only and just keep making it worse for yourself, it's never going to get better." -Joseph Zweben- Joseph Zweben, a student at Pace University, is a testament to the positive impact of cooperative parenting during challenging times like divorce. Having personally experienced the benefits of his parents' collaborative efforts, Joseph emphasizes how their open communication and conflict-free environment allowed him and his brother to thrive academically and athletically. This nurturing approach not only bolstered his emotional well-being but also sparked his passion for helping others facing similar challenges, as demonstrated through his volunteer work with organizations such as Top Soccer and Best Buddies. Joseph's story underscores the potential for resilience and growth in children when parents prioritize a supportive and stable environment, even amidst the complexities of divorce. Key Takeaways: ->The positive impact of cooperative parenting during and after divorce on children's adaptation and mental well-being ->The value of empathy, support, and effective communication in navigating tough situations, as learned through personal experiences ->Maintaining a sense of normalcy for children during family celebrations, birthdays, and holidays post-divorce ->The enduring unity within divorced families and the importance of open communication and adaptability in family relationships post-separation ->Reassuring children during divorce to prevent them from blaming themselves and minimizing the negative impact on their well-being ->The emotional intelligence growth and ability to help others influenced by watching parents co-parent Connect with Joseph Zweben: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joe-zweben-17676434a/ https://www.instagram.com/joezweben_/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Avoiding Pitfalls: Family Home, Financial Models, and Individual Goals - with Melissa Murphy Pavone 28:43

10 weeks ago28:43

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"You really want to know what your priorities are and then you want to know what your spouse's priorities are, because they might be different." - Melissa Murphy Pavone Melissa Murphy Pavone is a seasoned certified financial planner and divorce financial analyst, whose 18 years of experience in the field are deeply influenced by her personal experiences as a child of divorce. She founded Mindful Divorce Partners to guide clients through the intricate financial challenges of divorce with clarity and assurance. Melissa stresses the importance of proactive and holistic financial planning, focusing on understanding settlement options, tax implications, and the long-term effects of financial decisions, especially when children are involved. Her approach goes beyond mere numbers, helping clients design balanced and sustainable financial plans that align with their future goals and risk tolerance, while avoiding common pitfalls such as retaining the family home without considering its long-term financial impact. Key Takeaways: ->Working with a financial planner post-divorce is crucial for navigating the transition to saving for oneself, contributing to retirement, and bridging the financial gap left by alimony and child support. ->Understanding priorities in financial assets during divorce negotiations is key to ensuring a fair and balanced outcome, particularly when children are involved. ->Having a financial planner as a supportive ally can provide guidance tailored to risk tolerance and financial goals for a secure future post-divorce. ->Offering fee-for-service and assets under management advisory models allows financial advisors to tailor their services to best suit individual circumstances and goals, especially in divorce scenarios. ->Educating clients on the importance of having an emergency fund and considering tax implications is crucial in making informed decisions about the family residence in divorce settlements. Connect with Melissa Murphy Pavone: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissamurphypavone/ https://mindfulfinancialpartners.com/about/ https://mindfulfinancialpartners.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/…

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Recovery and Transformation: The Potential for Positive Change Post-Divorce - with Justine Carino 34:28

11 weeks ago34:28

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"In divorce we grieve the marriage, we grieve the life we once had with our partner and what that looked like. We grieve that stability." - Justine Carino Justine Carino, a licensed mental health counselor with over 12 years of experience, is a prominent voice in understanding the psychological impact of divorce. Specializing in anxiety and depression, she highlights the critical role therapy plays in navigating the emotional complexities of this life-altering event. Through her practice and her podcast, "Thoughts from the Couch," Justine emphasizes the importance of therapy in guiding individuals through the stages of grief, helping them rebuild their identities, and fostering personal growth. Her compassionate insights, featured in major media outlets like Cosmopolitan and the Huffington Post, reassure those experiencing divorce that with the right support, happiness and transformation are attainable outcomes. Key Takeaways: ->Divorce can bring about a range of emotional challenges similar to the stages of grief. ->Therapy is essential in assisting individuals going through divorce. ->Establishing clear boundaries is essential for preserving relationships during divorce. ->Common misconceptions about divorce recovery can be disproven. ->Individuals experience an identity shift post-divorce. ->Many individuals eventually consider dating post-divorce. Connect with Justine Carino: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justine-carino-lmhc-39a84615b/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/…

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Investing in Yourself: Acquiring Skills for Career Re-Entry - with Jody D'agostini 30:11

12 weeks ago30:11

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Why is emotional well-being important in financial planning post-divorce? Jody D'Agostini is a renowned financial strategist and certified divorce financial analyst with nearly two decades of experience, specializing in helping individuals navigate the financial intricacies of divorce at Falcon Financial Group in Morristown. Transitioning from a career as a physician's assistant, Jody has dedicated her practice to empowering clients, particularly women, by educating them on financial literacy and the importance of informed decision-making. Her approach emphasizes personalized, holistic financial planning that considers each client's unique life stressors and priorities, with a focus on setting them up for long-term success rather than short-term gain. Jody advocates for a balanced mindset during divorce, advising clients to meet their needs while minimizing emotional and financial strain, and is committed to fostering financial stability and growth through tools like collaborative law and career re-evaluation. Key Takeaways: ->Financial planning during divorce is crucial for making informed decisions and preparing for sudden financial changes. ->Tailoring financial plans for success and using software to project future outcomes can provide individuals with a sense of control and security post-divorce. ->Emotional impact of divorce, including anxiety and disorientation, requires a holistic approach to financial planning for stability and well-being. ->Supporting individuals in overcoming career challenges and pursuing fulfilling career paths after divorce is essential for building a brighter future. ->Lawyers play a crucial role in divorce proceedings by providing legal guidance, negotiating settlements, and ensuring compliance with legal precedents. ->Creating a budget, assessing income sources, setting financial goals, and adjusting investments post-divorce are essential for establishing a stable financial future. Connect with Jody D'agostini: https://www.thefalconfinancialgroup.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/jody-d-agostini/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://miller-law.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ New boost…

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Harnessing the Unseen: Finding Clarity in Emotional Exploration - with Deborah Lukovich 33:42

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"Depth psychology is a more spiritual approach, a psychospiritual approach to understanding yourself more deeply." - Deborah Lukovich Dr. Deborah Lukovich is a renowned depth psychologist who offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of divorce by delving into the unconscious mind. With a belief that up to 90% of our actions and decisions are influenced by hidden forces, she emphasizes the importance of uncovering these unconscious patterns and behaviors that shape relationships. Through her book "Your Soul is Talking, Are You Listening?" and her engaging podcast and blog, Dr. Lukovich provides valuable insights into the unseen dynamics and hidden agendas that often go unnoticed during the tumultuous process of divorce. By guiding individuals to explore the depths of their psyche, Lukovich aims to foster a deeper understanding of personal and relational dynamics, ultimately aiding clients in transforming their relationship patterns and preventing past experiences from dictating future connections. Key Takeaways: -Depth Psychology focuses on uncovering hidden aspects of the unconscious mind to promote personal growth and transformation. -Anger during divorce can be connected to past experiences and emotions, influencing individuals' reactions and behaviors. -Dr. Lukovich shares her personal journey through divorce and highlights the importance of understanding the unconscious mind in life transitions. -Relationship complexes involve patterns of thinking and behaving that impact interactions, hinder personal growth, and can lead to misunderstandings. -Effective communication in relationships requires honesty, vulnerability, and creating a safe space for open dialogue. -Unconscious fears and thoughts often hinder honest communication, emphasizing the importance of tools like 'Start with Hearts' to manage emotions and promote authenticity. Connect with Deborah Lukovich: https://www.deborahlukovich.com/ https://www.facebook.com/dlukovich https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-lukovich-phd-5322953/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/…

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Challenges of Nesting: Sharing Living Space Post-Divorce - With Lisa Herrick 28:08

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"Kids have large antenna on their heads that you can't see, but they're always scanning for information, and that is information that is picked up very easily." - Lisa Herrick Dr. Lisa Herrick, a renowned family therapist and collaborative divorce coach, has nearly twenty years of experience guiding families in the Washington, D.C. area through the complex transition period of separation and divorce. She emphasizes that this transition varies greatly among individuals, depending on their resilience and specific circumstances, and underscores the importance of allowing adequate time for adjustment, adaptation, and recovery. Dr. Herrick advocates for honest and respectful communication between co-parents, particularly when introducing new partners to children, to minimize confusion and build trust. Drawing from personal experience, she highlights the intricate dynamics involved in shared family activities post-divorce, such as spending holidays together, and the necessity of preparing new partners for their roles within a blended family to foster a healthy and harmonious environment. Key Takeaways: • The period of time required for individuals and families to adjust, adapt, and recover from separation and divorce is crucial. • Nesting during divorce involves sharing living space, household responsibilities, and potential implications for future relationships. • It is important to go slow when introducing children to new romantic partners after divorce. • Lisa Herrick emphasizes the importance of preparing new partners for interactions with children and ex-spouses in blended families. • Lisa and Katherine emphasize the benefits of waiting for the right moment to introduce shared holidays and dinners in a blended family. Connect with Lisa Herrick: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisa-herrick-009a6128/ https://lisaherrick.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/…

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The Benefits of Bird Nesting for Children's Stability - with Ann Gold Buscho, Ph.D. 27:37

15 weeks ago27:37