EP #1: Navigating Divorce With Confidence With Host Cary Jacobson, Attorney & Mediator Divorce Diaries: Lessons From The Trenches podcast

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Divorce Diaries: Lessons From the Trenches «
EP #1: Navigating Divorce with Confidence with host Cary Jacobson, Attorney & Mediator

about a year ago 15:30

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Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, introduces Divorce Diaries, a podcast aimed at transforming the conversation around divorce. With an emphasis on clarity, community, and practical advice, the show seeks to provide insights and support for those navigating the complexities of divorce.
Visit JacobsonFamilyLaw.com or call 443-726-4912 for support and guidance.

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25 episodes

EP #1: Navigating Divorce with Confidence with host Cary Jacobson, Attorney & Mediator

Divorce Diaries: Lessons From the Trenches

published about a year ago

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Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.

25 episodes

#Podcasting Education #Cary Jacobson, Esq #Cary Jacobson

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EP # 25: Documenting Abuse: Tools for High-Conflict Divorce with Guest Tiffany Colburn 30:07

1 day ago30:07

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Documenting the invisible battles of divorce can be your strongest defense against ongoing manipulation and control. Join host, Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator with Jacobson Family Law, as she sits down with divorce coach, Tiffany Colburn. Tiffany reveals how proper documentation becomes not just preparation for potential court appearances, but a crucial tool for recognizing harmful patterns in high-conflict co-parenting relationships. Remember that with proper documentation, clear boundaries, and strategic communication, you can protect your peace even when things feel chaotic. Connect with resources like myhiddenscars.com to develop the tools needed to navigate high-conflict co-parenting while keeping your children's wellbeing at the center. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #24: Co-Parenting with High-Conflict Exes with Guest Jill Kaufman 28:51

8 days ago28:51

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Attorney and mediator, Cary Jacobson is joined by divorce coach Jill Kaufman to tackle one of the most challenging aspects of family separation—co-parenting with high-conflict ex-spouses or narcissistic personalities. Drawing from her own difficult divorce experience and professional expertise as a therapist, Kaufman shares transformative strategies that can revolutionize even the most strained co-parenting relationships. Discover practical techniques like deep abdominal breathing to regulate emotions during triggering interactions and learn how setting thoughtful boundaries can transform your co-parenting experience. Ready for more support? Visit divorcecoachjill.com for resources designed to help you navigate this challenging journey with greater confidence and peace. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #23: Rediscovering Yourself After Divorce with Guest Dr. Emma Mansour 29:29

15 days ago29:29

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The emotional aftermath of divorce often blindsides us when we least expect it. Just when the paperwork is finalized and court appearances end, a profound sense of grief emerges—catching many off guard who anticipated only feeling relief. Dr. Emma Mansour, licensed psychologist and owner of Life Matters Counseling, joins Cary Jacobson to unpack this complex emotional landscape and offer guidance for those navigating the turbulent waters of separation. Ready to gain clarity and peace of mind during your divorce journey? Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to schedule a consultation and discover how we can support your path forward. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP# 22: Finding Empowerment in Divorce with Guest Sharri Freedman, Divorce Coach 36:39

22 days ago36:39

36:39

Divorce fundamentally changes who we are—and that's not something to fear, but to embrace. When former divorce attorney and certified coach Sharri Freedman joins host Cary Jacobson, she reveals the transformative power hidden within the painful process of ending a marriage. Drawing from 30+ years of experience and her innovative "liberated method," Sharri explains how understanding divorce as an identity evolution can help you maintain power rather than slip into victimhood. Whether you're contemplating divorce, in the middle of proceedings, or rebuilding post-divorce, this episode offers practical wisdom for navigating change with intention and emerging stronger on the other side. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #21: Self-Representation in Divorce: A Conversation with The Divorce Solutionist, Tracey Bee 29:46

29 days ago29:46

29:46

Facing family court without an attorney can feel like entering a foreign country without speaking the language. In this illuminating conversation, former family law attorney Tracey Bee reveals how she transformed her 25-year legal career into a mission helping self-represented litigants navigate the complex world of divorce and family court proceedings. Whether you're considering self-representation by choice or necessity, this episode provides invaluable insights into navigating the system effectively. Tracey offers a refreshing perspective that acknowledges both the challenges and possibilities of representing yourself, while emphasizing that selective professional guidance can make all the difference in your journey through family court. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #20: Navigating Home Ownership During Divorce with Guest Bridget McGee, the Maryland Mortgage Mama 37:58

5 weeks ago37:58

37:58

The home you shared is often the most emotionally and financially complex asset to handle during divorce. With today's rising interest rates, many couples face agonizing decisions about what to do with property they purchased at historically low rates. Bridget McGee, known as the Maryland Mortgage Mama, brings 24 years of mortgage expertise and specialized divorce lending certification to help you navigate these challenging waters. She reveals why consulting with a mortgage professional at the very beginning of your divorce process can save you thousands and prevent years of frustration. Whether you're considering divorce, currently navigating one, or helping someone who is, this episode provides essential knowledge to protect your housing stability during this vulnerable transition. Don't make decisions about your home without understanding the mortgage implications that could affect you for years to come. Contact The Maryland Mortgage Mama: www.swbcmortgage.com/bridget-mcgee Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #19: Navigating Special Education During Family Transitions with Guest Frances Shefter, Education Attorney 27:18

6 weeks ago27:18

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Frances Shefter, education attorney and former special education teacher, shares how parents can effectively advocate for their special needs children during and after divorce. Her unique experience on both sides of the IEP table helps create what she calls a "stress-free IEP experience" for families navigating complex educational systems during family transitions. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com or call 443-726-4912 for support and guidance. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #18: Communication Strategies for Healing During Divorce with Guest Mary Blackwood, LCMFT 30:34

7 weeks ago30:34

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Mary Blackwood, licensed clinical marriage and family therapist and founder of the Couples and Family Institute, shares her expertise on healing family systems during divorce and separation. She reveals how communication breakdowns occur when people listen to reply rather than listening to absorb, and offers practical approaches to help families navigate transitions with less trauma and more growth. Visit mpbhealth.com to learn more about Mary Blackwood and the Couples and Family Institute's services for families in transition. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #17: Financial Independence After Divorce with Guest Donna Cates, CDFA 30:23

8 weeks ago30:23

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Financial independence isn't just important during divorce—it's absolutely essential. In this powerful conversation with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Donna Cates, we explore how women can take control of their financial futures while navigating the emotional and practical challenges of divorce. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP # 16: Navigating College Financial Aid After Divorce with Guest Vicki Vollweiler 29:31

9 weeks ago29:31

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The financial intricacies of college planning become exponentially more complex when divorce enters the picture. In this episode, host Cary Jacobson sits down with Vicki Vollweiler, founder of College Financial Prep and a divorced parent herself, as she reveals game-changing strategies that can potentially save families hundreds of thousands of dollars in college costs. Ready to transform your approach to college planning during or after divorce? Visit collegefinancialprep.com to learn how proper planning can dramatically reduce your family's college expenses while creating a cooperative framework between separated parents that puts your child's educational future first. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #15: Navigating Divorce Without the Drama: Lessons from Coach Eric Chilton 24:58

10 weeks ago24:58

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In this episode, host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator for Jacobson Family Law, sits down with Eric Chilton, a Certified Divorce Coach, as he reveals how communication strategies and proper preparation can save divorcing couples significant money and emotional distress. Eric explains why immediate legal action isn't always the best first step and shares practical techniques for managing high-conflict situations. Visit palmettodivorcecoacching.com to connect with Eric Chilton for personalized divorce coaching. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #14: Divorce Strategies from a Coach's Perspective with Guest Chris Stuart 28:32

11 weeks ago28:32

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Divorce can blindside you with emotional turmoil that makes rational decision-making nearly impossible. Join host, Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, as she sits down with Chris Stuart, a divorce coach and entrepreneur as he discusses his own high-conflict divorce. He found himself $100,000 in legal fees before even seeing a judge, uncertain how to navigate the process, and struggling to maintain his relationship with his child. This transformative experience led him to create a new approach to divorce support. Whether you're contemplating divorce, currently navigating one, or supporting someone who is, this episode provides essential strategies for maintaining clarity during life's most challenging transitions. Connect with Chris at cstuart@divorcetom.com or look for his upcoming nationwide Divorce Support Network launching soon. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #13: Navigating Divorce with Empowerment with Guest Beverly Price 29:23

12 weeks ago29:23

29:23

Are you or someone you know navigating the complex landscape of divorce? In this episode, host, Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator with Jacobson Family Law and guest, Beverly Price, delve into the critical elements of empowerment, resilience, and self-discovery in the face of marital dissolution. With expert insights from Beverly Price, a renowned divorce and empowerment coach, they explore the often-overlooked emotional and practical challenges women encounter when going through a divorce. Beverly’s work focuses on helping women reclaim their self-worth and independence during this difficult transition while also raising awareness about the various forms of domestic abuse that may exist in relationships. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #12: Supporting Parents of Special Needs Children During Divorce with Guest Mary Ann Hughes 27:26

13 weeks ago27:26

27:26

Divorce is a complex journey for any family, but it becomes even more challenging when special needs children are added to the mix. In this episode, host, Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator at Jacobson Family Law, delves into the nuances of divorce involving children with disabilities, drawing on expert insights from certified special needs divorce coach Mary Ann Hughes. Their conversation covers the unique difficulties these families face, from emotional turmoil to logistical hurdles in co-parenting. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #11: Divorce and Home Financing: Essential Insights with Guest Will Camacho 32:39

14 weeks ago32:39

32:39

Making sense of home financing during and after a divorce can often feel overwhelming. Today, we bring you a conversation with mortgage expert Will Camacho, who specializes in bridging the gap between divorce and real estate. This episode is packed with practical insights on how child support and alimony can be leveraged to secure a mortgage but with specific attention to the seasoning requirement many lenders impose. Will sheds light on the significance of consistent income documentation over an adequate timeframe to ensure smooth loan qualification. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #10: Navigating Divorce Finances Confidently with Guest Leah Hadley, AFC, CDFA 28:58

15 weeks ago28:58

28:58

Divorce often presents a whirlwind of emotions and financial decisions that can leave anyone feeling overwhelmed and uncertain. In this episode, host, Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, sits down with financial expert Leah Hadley, who brings two decades of experience to navigate the crossroads of divorce and personal finance. Drawing on her own transformative journey, Leah shares how critical financial planning can lead to empowerment and success during such challenging times. Join us as we discuss actionable insights and strategies for navigating your financial landscape post-divorce. Remember, financial clarity is possible even amid change! Don't forget to subscribe and share this episode with anyone who might need a little guidance through their financial journey. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #9: Advice From a Divorce Coach with Guest Lisa Lisser 33:44

16 weeks ago33:44

33:44

Divorce can be daunting, but with the right guidance, it becomes a journey of empowerment. Host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, sits down with Lisa Lisser, Divorce Coach, to discuss the crucial role of divorce coaching in helping individuals navigate their emotional challenges, recognize their strengths, and communicate effectively during legal processes. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #8: Dividing Assets During Divorce 18:43

17 weeks ago18:43

18:43

Unlock the secrets of equitable asset division in divorce as host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, guides you through one of the most challenging aspects of marital separation: dividing assets. Ever wondered how your assets would be categorized if you were to part ways with your spouse? Cary demystifies the distinction between marital and separate property, and explore how premarital assets, gifts, and inheritances play into the equation. With insights into the strategic use of pre-nuptial and post-nuptial agreements, you'll discover how to safeguard your interests and minimize conflict, making the divorce journey a bit smoother. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #7: Navigating Alimony in Maryland 19:25

18 weeks ago19:25

19:25

Discover the essential tools you need to navigate the complex world of alimony with insights from host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator. Ever wondered how alimony is determined and why it's so different across states? We bring clarity to these questions by focusing on Maryland's unique approach to alimony, breaking down pendente lite, rehabilitative, and permanent types. With Cary's legal expertise, we unravel the different factors courts weigh when deciding on support, shedding light on how age, health, education, and marriage length influence outcomes. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #6: Expert Insights on Financial Planning in Divorce with Guest Gregory Gann, CDFA 28:54

19 weeks ago28:54

28:54

Navigate the turbulent waters of divorce with our esteemed guest, Gregory Gann, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and president of Gann Partnership LLC. Gregory brings his deep expertise to the table, shedding light on the distinct role a CDFA plays in carefully balancing financial implications, negotiating equitable settlements, and significantly trimming down court time and costs. Discover how divorce-specific financial planning differs from the traditional approaches and why there's an increasing demand for this specialized knowledge. Together, Gregory and host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, explore the emotional toll litigation often takes and advocate for amicable resolutions to prevent escalating tensions. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #5: Understanding Child Custody with host Cary Jacobson 19:31

20 weeks ago19:31

19:31

Unlock the keys to understanding child custody with expert insights from host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator. In this episode, Cary dives into the benefits of flexibility, open communication, and mediation as alternatives to drawn-out court battles. She discusses how to navigate the sometimes turbulent waters of divorce by mastering the distinctions between legal and physical custody. Listen now to gain the knowledge necessary to make informed decisions about child custody. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #4: Resilient Divorce Approaches and Practical Advice with Guest Attorney Kelly Krupinski 20:47

21 weeks ago20:47

20:47

Unlock the secrets to a more empowered and less stressful divorce with guest, Kelly Krupinski, a seasoned family law attorney who brings her wealth of experience to our discussion. Together, Kelly and host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, uncover why having a specialist in family law can make all the difference, offering creative solutions to steering clear of court battles. Listen now to gain practical tools that can turn this challenging life transition into a more manageable experience. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #3: Unlocking Financial Clarity in Divorce with Guest Amanda Campbell, CFP 25:42

22 weeks ago25:42

25:42

Learn the secrets to managing your finances during divorce with insights from guest, Amanda Campbell, a Certified Financial Planner and Divorce Financial Analyst. Amanda and host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, tackle the emotional and financial complexities of divorce. Amanda provides expert advice on understanding the full financial picture, including hidden costs beyond the mortgage. This episode promises valuable guidance for navigating high-stakes decisions in the midst of a divorce, helping you achieve stability and clarity in a turbulent time. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #2: Emotional Healing, Co-Parenting, and Decision Making with Guest Carrie Mead 32:42

23 weeks ago32:42

32:42

In this episode, host Cary Jacobson, attorney and mediator, explores the emotional complexities of divorce with guest Carrie Mead, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. Learn how Carrie utilizes cognitive behavioral therapy, neuroscience, and mindfulness to support women facing issues like emotional abuse. Discover the keys to effective co-parenting during and after divorce, as we address the fears and uncertainties that loom large in this journey. Carrie sheds light on the importance of informed legal advice to dispel myths surrounding child custody and financial concerns. Through this episode, we aim to foster a supportive environment for our listeners, acknowledging the unique and diverse paths through which individuals navigate their divorce journeys. Join us in extending heartfelt gratitude for the stories shared and the connections formed in this episode of Divorce Diaries. Visit jacobsonfamilylaw.com to learn more. Visit jacobsonworkshop.com to learn more.…

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EP #1: Navigating Divorce with Confidence with host Cary Jacobson, Attorney & Mediator 15:30

24 weeks ago15:30