Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation

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Traditional banks often lack personalized service, and local businesses struggle to find true partnership in financial institutions. Meanwhile, higher education faces scrutiny over relevance and ROI in a world where information is nearly free. Harry Allen helped launch Studio Bank to blend technology with high-touch service, fueled by community investment. At Belmont, he's applying the same entrepreneurial mindset to modernize university operations and embed practical learning experiences, like a one-of-a-kind partnership with Dolly Parton, into academia. In this episode, Harry L. Allen, co-founder of Studio Bank and now CFO at Belmont University, unpacks the bold vision behind launching a community-first bank in a city dominated by financial giants. He shares the leadership lessons that shaped his journey, how to lead through crisis, and why mentorship is the key to filling today's leadership vacuum. Key Takeaways Leveraging both financial and social capital creates a unique, community-first banking model. High-tech doesn't mean low-touch, Studio Bank fused innovation with personal relationships. Leadership means showing up, especially during crisis. Universities must shift from being information hubs to delivering real-world experience. Succession and mentorship are vital to cultivating the next generation of leaders. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Harry L. Allen 01:49 The Birth of Studio Bank 04:29 Leveraging Technology in Community Banking 07:25 The Courage to Start a New Venture 10:37 Leadership Challenges in High Growth 13:02 Leading Through Crisis: The COVID Experience 17:55 Transitioning from Banking to Education 21:16 The Role of Leadership in Higher Education 25:16 Adapting to Challenges in Higher Education 30:04 The Leadership Vacuum in Society 33:17 Advice for Emerging Leaders 35:21 The American Dream and Community Impact No Limit Leadership is the go-to podcast for growth-minded executives, middle managers, and team leaders who want more than surface-level leadership advice. Hosted by executive coach and former Special Forces commander Sean Patton, this show dives deep into modern leadership, self-leadership, and the real-world strategies that build high-performing teams. Whether you're focused on leadership development, building a coaching culture, improving leadership communication, or strengthening team accountability, each episode equips you with actionable insights to unlock leadership potential across your organization. From designing onboarding systems that retain talent to asking better questions that drive clarity and impact, No Limit Leadership helps you lead yourself first so you can lead others better. If you're ready to create a culture of ownership, resilience, and results, this leadership podcast is for you.…

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00:00 The Hardest Part of Separation

00:58 Introducing the New Podcast Member

02:04 Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation

05:43 Handling Separation Conversations

11:39 Navigating Separation: Initial Steps

12:08 Living Arrangements and Legal Implications

13:27 Financial Responsibilities During Separation

15:44 Court Orders and Legal Actions

18:39 Consulting an Attorney: When and Why

20:48 Emotional and Practical Support

21:28 Finding Strength and Moving Forward

Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

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Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation

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published about a year ago

MP3•Episode home

00:00 The Hardest Part of Separation

00:58 Introducing the New Podcast Member

02:04 Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation

05:43 Handling Separation Conversations

11:39 Navigating Separation: Initial Steps

12:08 Living Arrangements and Legal Implications

13:27 Financial Responsibilities During Separation

15:44 Court Orders and Legal Actions

18:39 Consulting an Attorney: When and Why

20:48 Emotional and Practical Support

21:28 Finding Strength and Moving Forward

Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

74 episodes

#New Direction Family Law Firm #Divorce #Attorney #Advice #Separation #Lawyers #Victim #Help #Encouragement #Empowerment #Society #Relationship #Podcasting Education #Cary

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Join Elizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they explore the often misunderstood topic of annulments and how they differ from divorces. They discuss various grounds for annulments in North Carolina, including bigamy, mental incapacity, and underage marriage with parental consent. Elizabeth and Sarah also touch on some complex cases they’ve encountered and provide insights into legal protections and agreements that can safeguard your future. Whether you're considering an annulment or a divorce after the holidays, this informative discussion will help you understand your options. 00:00 Holiday Wishes and Legal Choices 00:04 Understanding Annulments 01:09 Legal Grounds for Annulments in North Carolina 01:48 Bigamy Cases and Legal Implications 04:00 Age and Mental Capacity in Marriage 06:49 Impotence and Annulment 09:51 Consent and Manipulation in Marriage 11:14 Hallmark Movies and Mistaken Beliefs 11:40 Fraud in Marriage: Proving the Case 14:14 Annulment vs. Divorce: Legal Differences 15:23 Cohabitation Agreements and Property Rights 17:12 Prenups and Postnups: Protecting Your Assets 19:36 Final Thoughts and Holiday Wishes Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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Summary: In this episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law share the top ten essential tips and advice for navigating through a divorce. They cover both legal and personal aspects, offering practical insights and supportive guidance to help listeners manage this challenging period in their lives. From financial independence to emotional support, these tips aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of what to expect and how to handle various situations during a divorce. Key Points: Your Kids Will Be Okay Emphasize the importance of shielding children from conflict. Tips on co-parenting and maintaining a healthy relationship with your children. Love Your Kids More Than You Hate Your Ex Avoid speaking negatively about your ex in front of your children. Focus on your children's well-being rather than on past grievances. There's Always a Way to Make It Work Financially Discuss strategies for financial independence. Importance of understanding your financial situation and planning accordingly. Don't Use Your Attorney for Emotional Support Seek professional counseling for emotional needs. Focus on using your attorney for legal advice and strategy. Things Might Get Worse Before They Get Better Prepare for potential escalation of conflict during the process. Stay focused on long-term outcomes and personal growth. Focus on Yourself and Set Boundaries Prioritize self-care and establish clear boundaries with your ex. Use tools like Our Family Wizard for communication. Unfriend or Block Your Ex on Social Media Avoid the temptation to stalk or engage with your ex online. Protect your mental health by limiting exposure to potentially upsetting content. Treat Communications as Though They Will Be Read in Court Always maintain a respectful and factual tone in written communications. Understand that any communication could be used as evidence. Surround Yourself with Supportive People Lean on friends, family, or support groups for emotional support. Avoid people who encourage negative or aggressive behavior. Don't Rush into Dating After Divorce Take time to heal and reflect on your past relationship. Ensure you are emotionally ready before starting a new relationship. Resources Mentioned: Our Family Wizard and other co-parenting tools. Professional counselors and therapists. Support groups and online communities for divorced individuals. Call to Action: Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more tips and insights. Reach out to a professional counselor for emotional support. Consult with an attorney to understand your legal rights and options. Conclusion: Divorce can be a challenging and emotional journey, but by following these ten tips, you can navigate it more effectively. Focus on your well-being, seek appropriate support, and take one step at a time to ensure a better future for yourself and your children.…

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Courtroom Drama: How to Avoid Being a Hot Mess 18:01

1 year ago18:01

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Summary: In this insightful episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law discuss essential tips and advice for anyone preparing to go to court. Drawing from their extensive experience, they provide practical do’s and don’ts to help listeners present themselves effectively and navigate the courtroom with confidence. The episode covers everything from appropriate attire and punctuality to emotional control and the importance of honesty. Key Points: Introduction and Overview (00:00:00) Hosts introduce themselves and the topic of the episode. Elizabeth and Sarah share their extensive courtroom experiences. Courtroom Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts (00:01:18) Importance of dressing appropriately for court. Avoiding casual attire such as running shorts, flip-flops, and tank tops. Respect and Behavior in Court (00:02:12) Respecting the judge and courtroom officials. Do not interrupt the judge or make inappropriate gestures. Punctuality is Key (00:06:00) Always arrive on time for court hearings. Plan your route and parking in advance to ensure timely arrival. Emotional Control (00:05:19) Importance of maintaining composure and controlling emotions in court. Avoid eye-rolling, sighing, and other negative expressions. Preparation and Honesty (00:12:12) Being prepared with all necessary documents well in advance. Always be honest with your attorney and in court to avoid damaging your case. Courtroom Procedures and Expectations (00:14:53) Understanding the flow of a court case and what to expect. The significance of hearing prep meetings and following your attorney’s guidance. Children in Court (00:10:41) Avoid bringing children to court unless absolutely necessary. Impact of childcare challenges for low-income families attending court. Community and Judicial Support (00:16:14) Appreciation for the judicial community and legal professionals. The importance of respecting the legal process and the roles of everyone involved. Conclusion and Final Thoughts (00:17:08) Encouragement to follow the discussed tips for a smoother court experience. Mention of New Direction Family Law's TikTok account for more insights. Resources Mentioned: New Direction Family Law TikTok account for additional tips and insights. Call to Action: Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more helpful content. Reach out to your attorney with any questions or for further guidance on preparing for court.…

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Pride Month Special: Navigating Family Law for LGBTQ+ Couples 16:17

1 year ago16:17

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Summary: In this special Pride Month episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux discuss the intricacies of family law as it pertains to same-sex relationships. The episode delves into the legal challenges and considerations for LGBTQ+ couples, particularly in North Carolina. Topics include custody issues, child support, surrogacy, adoption, and the recent Court of Appeals case affecting same-sex couples. The hosts emphasize the importance of legal guidance and community support for LGBTQ+ families. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:49 Busy Times in Family Law 01:16 Pride Month and Family Law 01:56 Legal Nuances of Same-Sex Marriage 03:22 Common Law Marriage Explained 04:34 Recent Court Case on Same-Sex Custody 11:55 Surrogacy and Adoption Considerations 13:33 Community Support and Resources 15:39 Conclusion and Call to Action Key Points: Introduction to Pride Month Overview of the significance of Pride Month. Brief discussion on the recent uptick in divorce and separation cases. Legal Landscape for Same-Sex Couples Examination of the laws applying to same-sex marriages in North Carolina. Challenges faced by same-sex couples regarding asset division, spousal support, and custody. Recent Court of Appeals Case Analysis of a recent case involving custody and child support for a non-biological parent in a same-sex relationship. Discussion on the legal interpretation of “mother” and “father” in child support statutes. Common Law Marriage and Custody Explanation of common law marriage and its non-recognition in North Carolina. Legal nuances in custody and child support for same-sex couples. Adoption and Surrogacy Considerations (00:12:30) Importance of legal contracts in adoption and surrogacy. Steps involved in ensuring parental rights and responsibilities are protected. Community Support and Resources Highlighting local resources and support systems for LGBTQ+ families. Encouragement to engage with local community centers and legal professionals. Advocacy and Legal Reform Call to action for legal reforms to ensure equality and fairness for all families. Importance of voting and reaching out to legislative representatives. Resources Mentioned: Local LGBTQIA+ community centers and support groups. Legal professionals specializing in family law for same-sex couples. Mental health professionals with a focus on LGBTQ+ issues. Call to Action: Get involved in local advocacy for legal reforms. Reach out to community resources for support and guidance. Contact legal professionals for advice on family law matters.…

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