Protecting Your Business In Marriage With Matthew McGonagle Ex-it Strategy podcast

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In this insightful discussion, Cameron, the Marketing and Business Development Manager at New Direction Family Law, and Elizabeth Stevenson, a partner at the firm, dive deep into the intricate intersection of estate planning and family law with Hampton Crumpler, an attorney at NC Planning. They explore the complexities of generational wealth, trusts, wills, and how these elements play crucial roles in divorce, custody battles, and property division. Key topics include the impact of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, protecting assets for children from previous marriages, the importance of regularly updating estate plans, and understanding the differences between revocable and irrevocable trusts. Tune in to gain valuable insights into how smart estate planning can save time, money, and stress for your family. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:57 Intersection of Estate Planning and Family Law 01:34 Prenups, Postnups, and Estate Planning 07:15 Trusts for Minor Children 10:15 Revocable vs. Irrevocable Trusts 12:26 Blended Families and Q-Tip Trusts 15:12 Importance of Having a Will 18:32 Inherited Property and Marital Assets 21:06 Tax Consequences of Inherited Money 21:30 Trusts and Taxation 22:22 Real Estate and Inheritance 23:47 Estate Planning and Separation Agreements 25:44 Gifts and Marital Property 27:09 Handling Property in Divorce 28:58 Importance of Estate Planning 31:53 Updating Estate Plans 33:02 Legal Representation in Divorce 34:49 Getting in Touch with an Estate Planning Attorney 37:17 Final Thoughts on Estate Planning…

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Tips for Choosing the Right Divorce Attorney 20:52

27 days ago20:52

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In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Ashley Oldham of New Direction Family Law discuss the crucial process of selecting the right divorce attorney. They cover essential steps such as the importance of initial consultations, building a trust-based relationship, understanding retainer fees, and ensuring transparent communication. They also emphasize the value of honesty and document organization in achieving the best legal outcomes. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:31 Choosing the Right Attorney 01:30 Initial Consultation Importance 01:51 Client Intake Process 04:33 Confidentiality and Trust 09:40 Financial Considerations 11:16 Document Organization 15:37 Final Thoughts and Contact Information…

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Military Divorces: Tips and Insights from Family Law Experts 19:20

5 weeks ago19:20

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Join Elizabeth Stevenson from New Direction Family Law and her colleague Ashley Oldham as they discuss the unique challenges of military divorces. In this episode, they delve into the nuances of divorce for military families, covering topics such as pension division, custody arrangements, and the Uniform Deployed Parents Custody and Visitation Act. Ashley, a board-certified family law specialist with extensive experience in military divorces, provides valuable insights on jurisdiction, survivor benefits, and child support. Whether you're a service member or a spouse, this episode is packed with essential information to help navigate the complexities of military divorces. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:38 Military Divorce Overview 02:33 Jurisdiction in Military Divorces 03:54 Custody Issues in Military Divorces 09:49 Division of Military Pensions 15:55 Domestic Violence and Military Personnel 17:25 Military Support Programs and Conclusion…

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Protecting Your Business in Marriage with Matthew McGonagle 17:28

11 weeks ago17:28

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Join Sarah Hink and Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they chat with guest attorney Matt McGonagle about crucial aspects of business creation, estate planning, and protecting your business in the event of divorce or death. They discuss the importance of having proper legal agreements like operating agreements and shareholders' agreements, and dive into the complexities of trusts, estate planning, and marital protections. Learn how to safeguard your business and assets against unforeseen life events in this insightful podcast episode. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:54 Matt McGonigal's Legal Expertise 01:15 Business Creation and Protection 03:43 Divorce and Business Ownership 06:27 Trusts and Estate Planning 15:22 Final Thoughts and Contact Information Learn more about Matt McGonagle, a board certified specialist with the North Carolina State Bar – Estate Planning and Probate Law Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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How to get a Domestic Violence Protective Order 22:45

13 weeks ago22:45

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In this episode, Sarah J. Hink and Ava K. Jennette from New Direction Family Law discuss the procedural steps involved in obtaining a domestic violence protective order (DVPO) in North Carolina. They offer advice on resources such as local domestic violence resource centers and highlight the essential details needed in the complaint form, including specific allegations and dates. The discussion includes what to expect during the ex parte hearing, service of the abuser, and the return hearing. They also cover the potential consequences of violating a DVPO, the importance of including all relevant incidents in the complaint, and the role of Legal Aid in assisting victims. The episode provides comprehensive guidance for those looking to pursue or defend against a DVPO, emphasizing the importance of legal representation. 00:00 Introduction to the Episode 00:30 Understanding Domestic Violence Protective Orders 01:39 Filing for a Protective Order 02:25 Details and Allegations in the Complaint 06:30 The Ex Parte Order Process 08:47 Preparing for the Return Hearing 09:57 Defending Against False Allegations 13:17 Consequences of Violating a Protective Order 17:56 Renewing a Protective Order 19:56 Final Advice and Resources Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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Navigating Absolute Divorce in North Carolina - Absolutely 17:06

15 weeks ago17:06

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Join Sarah Hink and attorney Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they delve into the intricate process of filing for absolute divorce in North Carolina. Learn about the requirements such as the mandatory one year and one day physical separation, the importance of resolving property and alimony issues beforehand, and the nuances related to service and court filings. They also discuss unique scenarios involving military service and incompetency. Whether you're doing it yourself or seeking professional help, this episode provides essential insights to guide you through the divorce proceedings. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:39 Understanding Absolute Divorce 01:33 Filing for Divorce in North Carolina 04:06 Checklist Before Filing for Divorce 05:17 The Divorce Filing Process 06:18 Service Issues in Divorce 07:53 Court Procedures and Attorney Involvement 14:02 Special Cases and Unique Scenarios 16:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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Rings, Romance, and Real Talk... Prenups! 21:22

17 weeks ago21:22

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Understanding Prenuptial Agreements: Protecting Your Future and Assets In this episode of New Direction Family Law, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink discuss the importance of prenuptial agreements, especially for individuals entering second marriages or who have children from previous relationships. They explain how prenups can protect personal assets, manage debts, and anticipate changes in circumstances, such as starting a business. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions about prenups, the emotional and financial implications, and the necessity of discussing finances openly before marriage. Tune in for real talk on romance, prenups, and safeguarding your future. 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Prenups 01:01 Meet the Team 01:37 Discussing Prenups and Common Misconceptions 03:05 Debt and Financial Transparency in Marriage 06:16 Prenups and Business Ownership 10:31 Changing Prenups: Legal Advice 10:41 Prenups and Children: Legal Limitations 11:11 Prenups and Infidelity Clauses 11:25 Public Policy and Prenups 12:22 Prenups and Coercion 12:55 Timing and Prenups 13:29 Prenups for Second Marriages 14:10 Strange Prenup Clauses 15:11 Postnups: Similarities and Differences 15:58 Prenups and Business Ownership 17:03 Prenups: Personal Decisions and Legal Advice Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation 23:29

19 weeks ago23:29

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In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the complexities and emotional challenges of separation and divorce. They share practical advice on handling separation, especially in cases of domestic violence, financial complications, and child custody. They also introduce Cam Heinsohn, their new marketing and business development manager. The conversation touches on real-life scenarios, legal strategies, and the emotional toll of ending a marriage, aiming to provide guidance and support for those going through such a difficult time. 00:00 The Hardest Part of Separation 00:58 Introducing the New Podcast Member 02:04 Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation 05:43 Handling Separation Conversations 11:39 Navigating Separation: Initial Steps 12:08 Living Arrangements and Legal Implications 13:27 Financial Responsibilities During Separation 15:44 Court Orders and Legal Actions 18:39 Consulting an Attorney: When and Why 20:48 Emotional and Practical Support 21:28 Finding Strength and Moving Forward Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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High-Conflict Divorce: The Role of Parenting Coordinators 18:32

21 weeks ago18:32

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In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullshit Guide to Divorce,' experienced attorneys Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the vital role of parenting coordinators in high-conflict divorce situations. Learn how parenting coordinators, either attorneys or mental health professionals, are appointed to assist co-parents in making decisions and improving communication. Discover how this essential service can help avoid prolonged court battles, reduce legal fees, and ensure the best interests of the children are prioritized. Tune in for expert insights on how to navigate co-parenting challenges effectively. 00:00 Introduction to the Exit Strategy 00:18 Meet the Attorneys 00:42 Understanding Parenting Coordinators 01:05 Role and Appointment of Parenting Coordinators 01:51 Challenges in Co-Parenting 03:53 Legal Implications and Court Involvement 05:03 Benefits of Parenting Coordinators 07:22 Practical Advice for Co-Parents 17:16 Final Thoughts and Contact Information Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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Navigating Taxes During Divorce: Expert Tips from Jason Deshayes 32:54

23 weeks ago32:54

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In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullsh$t Guide to Divorce,' hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law are joined by Jason Deshayes, CEO of Cook Wealth. They discuss the crucial role of financial planning and tax preparation in the context of divorce. Topics include tax liabilities, the importance of transparency in joint tax filings, handling separate and joint accounts, and the significance of consulting with CPAs and financial advisors. The episode aims to educate listeners on making informed financial decisions during and after a divorce, ensuring a smoother transition from victim to victorious and from bitter to better. 00:00 Spotting Financial Red Flags in Relationships 00:21 Introduction to the Exit Strategy Podcast 00:53 Meet the Expert: Jason Dehe from Cook Wealth 01:34 The Role of Spouses in Tax Preparation 02:38 Understanding Joint Tax Returns and Liabilities 03:37 The Importance of Financial Transparency in Marriage 04:08 Navigating Financial Conflicts During Divorce 05:22 The Benefits of Filing Taxes Separately 07:31 Managing Separate and Joint Bank Accounts 10:08 Handling CPA Conflicts During Divorce 13:59 Dividing Assets: Brokerage vs. Retirement Accounts 16:08 Navigating Financial Confusion 17:21 The Role of Financial Advisors 17:58 Tax and Wealth Management 18:30 Cash vs. Retirement Funds 19:26 Alimony and Tax Implications 21:16 Pre-Planning for Divorce 23:52 Financial Planning for Smaller Budgets 29:10 Services Offered by Wealth Management Firms 31:43 Conclusion and Contact Information Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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All I want for Christmas is... An Annulment? 20:17

25 weeks ago20:17

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Join Elizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they explore the often misunderstood topic of annulments and how they differ from divorces. They discuss various grounds for annulments in North Carolina, including bigamy, mental incapacity, and underage marriage with parental consent. Elizabeth and Sarah also touch on some complex cases they’ve encountered and provide insights into legal protections and agreements that can safeguard your future. Whether you're considering an annulment or a divorce after the holidays, this informative discussion will help you understand your options. 00:00 Holiday Wishes and Legal Choices 00:04 Understanding Annulments 01:09 Legal Grounds for Annulments in North Carolina 01:48 Bigamy Cases and Legal Implications 04:00 Age and Mental Capacity in Marriage 06:49 Impotence and Annulment 09:51 Consent and Manipulation in Marriage 11:14 Hallmark Movies and Mistaken Beliefs 11:40 Fraud in Marriage: Proving the Case 14:14 Annulment vs. Divorce: Legal Differences 15:23 Cohabitation Agreements and Property Rights 17:12 Prenups and Postnups: Protecting Your Assets 19:36 Final Thoughts and Holiday Wishes Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/…

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Top 10 Things to Know When Going Through a Divorce 28:39

47 weeks ago28:39

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Summary: In this episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law share the top ten essential tips and advice for navigating through a divorce. They cover both legal and personal aspects, offering practical insights and supportive guidance to help listeners manage this challenging period in their lives. From financial independence to emotional support, these tips aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of what to expect and how to handle various situations during a divorce. Key Points: Your Kids Will Be Okay Emphasize the importance of shielding children from conflict. Tips on co-parenting and maintaining a healthy relationship with your children. Love Your Kids More Than You Hate Your Ex Avoid speaking negatively about your ex in front of your children. Focus on your children's well-being rather than on past grievances. There's Always a Way to Make It Work Financially Discuss strategies for financial independence. Importance of understanding your financial situation and planning accordingly. Don't Use Your Attorney for Emotional Support Seek professional counseling for emotional needs. Focus on using your attorney for legal advice and strategy. Things Might Get Worse Before They Get Better Prepare for potential escalation of conflict during the process. Stay focused on long-term outcomes and personal growth. Focus on Yourself and Set Boundaries Prioritize self-care and establish clear boundaries with your ex. Use tools like Our Family Wizard for communication. Unfriend or Block Your Ex on Social Media Avoid the temptation to stalk or engage with your ex online. Protect your mental health by limiting exposure to potentially upsetting content. Treat Communications as Though They Will Be Read in Court Always maintain a respectful and factual tone in written communications. Understand that any communication could be used as evidence. Surround Yourself with Supportive People Lean on friends, family, or support groups for emotional support. Avoid people who encourage negative or aggressive behavior. Don't Rush into Dating After Divorce Take time to heal and reflect on your past relationship. Ensure you are emotionally ready before starting a new relationship. Resources Mentioned: Our Family Wizard and other co-parenting tools. Professional counselors and therapists. Support groups and online communities for divorced individuals. Call to Action: Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more tips and insights. Reach out to a professional counselor for emotional support. Consult with an attorney to understand your legal rights and options. Conclusion: Divorce can be a challenging and emotional journey, but by following these ten tips, you can navigate it more effectively. Focus on your well-being, seek appropriate support, and take one step at a time to ensure a better future for yourself and your children.…

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Courtroom Drama: How to Avoid Being a Hot Mess 18:01

49 weeks ago18:01

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Summary: In this insightful episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law discuss essential tips and advice for anyone preparing to go to court. Drawing from their extensive experience, they provide practical do’s and don’ts to help listeners present themselves effectively and navigate the courtroom with confidence. The episode covers everything from appropriate attire and punctuality to emotional control and the importance of honesty. Key Points: Introduction and Overview (00:00:00) Hosts introduce themselves and the topic of the episode. Elizabeth and Sarah share their extensive courtroom experiences. Courtroom Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts (00:01:18) Importance of dressing appropriately for court. Avoiding casual attire such as running shorts, flip-flops, and tank tops. Respect and Behavior in Court (00:02:12) Respecting the judge and courtroom officials. Do not interrupt the judge or make inappropriate gestures. Punctuality is Key (00:06:00) Always arrive on time for court hearings. Plan your route and parking in advance to ensure timely arrival. Emotional Control (00:05:19) Importance of maintaining composure and controlling emotions in court. Avoid eye-rolling, sighing, and other negative expressions. Preparation and Honesty (00:12:12) Being prepared with all necessary documents well in advance. Always be honest with your attorney and in court to avoid damaging your case. Courtroom Procedures and Expectations (00:14:53) Understanding the flow of a court case and what to expect. The significance of hearing prep meetings and following your attorney’s guidance. Children in Court (00:10:41) Avoid bringing children to court unless absolutely necessary. Impact of childcare challenges for low-income families attending court. Community and Judicial Support (00:16:14) Appreciation for the judicial community and legal professionals. The importance of respecting the legal process and the roles of everyone involved. Conclusion and Final Thoughts (00:17:08) Encouragement to follow the discussed tips for a smoother court experience. Mention of New Direction Family Law's TikTok account for more insights. Resources Mentioned: New Direction Family Law TikTok account for additional tips and insights. Call to Action: Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more helpful content. Reach out to your attorney with any questions or for further guidance on preparing for court.…

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Pride Month Special: Navigating Family Law for LGBTQ+ Couples 16:17

51 weeks ago16:17

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Summary: In this special Pride Month episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux discuss the intricacies of family law as it pertains to same-sex relationships. The episode delves into the legal challenges and considerations for LGBTQ+ couples, particularly in North Carolina. Topics include custody issues, child support, surrogacy, adoption, and the recent Court of Appeals case affecting same-sex couples. The hosts emphasize the importance of legal guidance and community support for LGBTQ+ families. 00:00 Introduction and Greetings 00:49 Busy Times in Family Law 01:16 Pride Month and Family Law 01:56 Legal Nuances of Same-Sex Marriage 03:22 Common Law Marriage Explained 04:34 Recent Court Case on Same-Sex Custody 11:55 Surrogacy and Adoption Considerations 13:33 Community Support and Resources 15:39 Conclusion and Call to Action Key Points: Introduction to Pride Month Overview of the significance of Pride Month. Brief discussion on the recent uptick in divorce and separation cases. Legal Landscape for Same-Sex Couples Examination of the laws applying to same-sex marriages in North Carolina. Challenges faced by same-sex couples regarding asset division, spousal support, and custody. Recent Court of Appeals Case Analysis of a recent case involving custody and child support for a non-biological parent in a same-sex relationship. Discussion on the legal interpretation of “mother” and “father” in child support statutes. Common Law Marriage and Custody Explanation of common law marriage and its non-recognition in North Carolina. Legal nuances in custody and child support for same-sex couples. Adoption and Surrogacy Considerations (00:12:30) Importance of legal contracts in adoption and surrogacy. Steps involved in ensuring parental rights and responsibilities are protected. Community Support and Resources Highlighting local resources and support systems for LGBTQ+ families. Encouragement to engage with local community centers and legal professionals. Advocacy and Legal Reform Call to action for legal reforms to ensure equality and fairness for all families. Importance of voting and reaching out to legislative representatives. Resources Mentioned: Local LGBTQIA+ community centers and support groups. Legal professionals specializing in family law for same-sex couples. Mental health professionals with a focus on LGBTQ+ issues. Call to Action: Get involved in local advocacy for legal reforms. Reach out to community resources for support and guidance. Contact legal professionals for advice on family law matters.…

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Terminal Trials: Custody Concerns 22:04

1 year ago22:04

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Episode Summary: In this episode, Sarah Hink, a seasoned family law attorney, explores a significant North Carolina Court of Appeals case that sheds light on custody disputes, particularly focusing on the implications of a parent's terminal illness and the subsequent legal maneuvers to ensure the well-being of the child involved. With Elizabeth Stevenson absent due to other legal obligations, Jen Bordeaux steps in to co-host, ensuring the conversation remains insightful, informative, and engaging. The episode delves into the complexities of custody appeals, the importance of timing in legal filings, and the rights of biological and non-biological family members in custody cases. Key Topics Discussed: The role of the Court of Appeals and its function in the legal hierarchy. A deep dive into a recent Court of Appeals case from Guilford County, highlighting the challenges and strategic legal actions taken amidst a parent's terminal illness. The legal nuances and implications of filing motions to modify custody and intervene in ongoing custody cases. The significance of a parent's death on custody disputes and the intervention rights of grandparents and other relatives. Insights into proving a parent unfit and the legal hurdles involved in non-biological family members seeking custody. Discussion on the legal strategies and emotional considerations necessary when planning for custody amidst life-changing events like terminal illness. The limitations of wills in dictating custody outcomes post a parent's demise. Episode Highlights: Learn about the critical importance of timely and strategic legal filings in custody disputes, especially in light of terminal illness. Discover the legal complexities surrounding custody modifications, interventions, and the unique challenges faced by non-biological relatives in securing custody rights. Gain insights into the real-life impact of family law issues on the well-being of children and the importance of experienced legal counsel in navigating these challenges. Recommended Resources: Previous episodes on topics such as parental alienation and the legal challenges faced by same-sex couples in custody disputes. Consultation with a specialized family law attorney for personal guidance and support in custody and family law matters. Closing Thoughts: The intersection of family law with deeply personal life events such as terminal illness presents both emotional and legal challenges. This episode highlights the crucial role of informed legal action in safeguarding the future of children caught in the midst of custody disputes. Through a discussion on a poignant Court of Appeals case, listeners are reminded of the complexities of the legal system and the vital need for expert legal advice in these sensitive situations. Reminder: For those navigating similar challenges or seeking legal counsel, it's essential to consult with a knowledgeable family law attorney to understand the best course of action for your unique circumstances.…

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The Art of Divorce Rituals: Breaking Bonds, Building Bridges 26:35

1 year ago26:35

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Episode Summary: In this episode of the New Direction Family Law podcast, hosts Sarah Hink and Jenn Bordeaux are joined by Elizabeth Barbour, a seasoned life and business coach with 24 years of experience, and the author of "Sacred Celebrations: Designing Rituals to Navigate Life's Big Transitions." Coming from Asheville, North Carolina, Elizabeth shares her profound insights into the importance of rituals in marking significant life changes, particularly focusing on divorce. The conversation uncovers the therapeutic power of creating personalized rituals to process and celebrate the end of a marriage, alongside the grieving process akin to dealing with death and loss. Through Elizabeth’s personal stories and expertise, listeners are guided on how to create meaningful rituals that acknowledge the past, heal the present, and welcome the future. Key Topics Discussed: The significance of rituals in navigating life transitions, especially divorce. Elizabeth Barber’s journey into life, business coaching, and her inspiration behind her latest book. Personal divorce rituals: Elizabeth shares her experiences with two divorces and how rituals helped her heal. Suggestions for divorce rituals include symbolic actions like walking the Great Wall of China and hosting backward weddings. The concept of a "familyversary" to maintain family bonds post-divorce. Ideas for involving children in divorce rituals to ensure they feel included and secure. The importance of closure, letting go, and setting positive intentions for the future. Episode Highlights: Learn about the unique and empowering ways people have chosen to mark their transition from married to single life. Discover how rituals can serve as a tool for healing, closure, and even celebration amidst the pain of divorce. Understand the impact of divorce on families and how to create rituals that honor the changes while reinforcing family continuity. Guest Contact Information: Elizabeth Barbour Website: https://elizabethbarbour.com/ Book: "Sacred Celebrations: Designing Rituals to Navigate Life’s Milestone Transitions" available on Amazon and Elizabeth's website. Closing Thoughts: Divorce, much like any major life transition, brings with it a mixture of emotions, from grief and loss to relief and new beginnings. Through the lens of Elizabeth Barber's expertise and heartfelt advice, this episode invites listeners to embrace the healing power of rituals. By marking the end of a marriage with intention and grace, individuals can find peace and pave the way for a hopeful future. Remember: Safety first! If any ritual involves fire or physical activity, take necessary precautions to ensure a safe and positive experience.…

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Betting Against the House: When Gambling Threatens Marriage 18:29

1 year ago18:29

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Episode Summary: In this insightful episode, Sarah Hink, an experienced attorney and partner at New Direction Family Law, is joined by Jennifer Bordeaux in the absence of Elizabeth Stevenson. As North Carolina embraces March Madness, the duo dives into the recent legalization of online sports betting in the state, its implications for family dynamics, and how it intersects with legal considerations in family law. They explore the excitement of the NCAA basketball season, the thrill of online gambling, and the potential dark side of gambling addiction and its impact on relationships and financial stability. Key Topics Discussed: Introduction to the legalization of online sports betting in North Carolina. The excitement around March Madness and the state's basketball teams. The potential fun and risks associated with online gambling. Gambling addiction as a serious concern, affecting relationships and leading to financial instability. The significance of financial transparency and communication in relationships. Legal implications of gambling in divorce and separation cases, including financial disputes and the division of debt. The process of discovery in legal cases to uncover hidden gambling debts. Strategies for addressing gambling issues within a relationship, including postnuptial agreements and seeking professional help. The importance of financial literacy and awareness, especially for women. The role of financial counseling and support in understanding and managing finances. Advice for Listeners: Be vigilant about the signs of gambling addiction and its impact on your relationship and finances. Maintain open communication about finances with your partner, and seek joint solutions to manage gambling behaviors. Consider legal advice early if gambling becomes a contentious issue in your relationship, especially concerning separation or divorce proceedings. Engage in financial education and counseling to better understand and manage your finances, particularly in the context of marriage and potential separation. Closing Thoughts: While online gambling brings a new layer of excitement to sports and entertainment, it also poses significant risks that can escalate into serious relationship and financial problems. Awareness, communication, and proactive legal and financial planning are key to navigating these challenges.…

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Facebook Legal Advice Fails: The Not-So-Fine Print 37:36

1 year ago37:36

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Overview: This episode of "Exit Strategy" delves into the risks and misunderstandings surrounding seeking and giving legal advice on Facebook. Hosts Elizabeth A. Stephenson, a family law attorney, and Jennifer Bordeaux, specializing in marketing and beyond at New Direction Family Law, dissect real examples from social media, highlighting the misinformation often spread in these platforms. Key Points Discussed: The Danger of Unqualified Legal Advice: The hosts emphasize the pitfalls of taking legal advice from unqualified individuals on social media, particularly Facebook. They analyze several examples where advice, often well-meaning, is legally incorrect and potentially harmful. Legal Misconceptions: Common misconceptions about family law, such as separation regulations, child support, and property division, are addressed. The hosts clarify these issues, contrasting them with the inaccurate advice found online. Importance of Professional Guidance: The conversation repeatedly stresses the importance of consulting a professional attorney for legal matters. The hosts discuss how personal experiences and opinions shared on social media cannot replace tailored legal advice. Varied Legal Outcomes: The episode highlights how legal outcomes can significantly vary based on individual circumstances, underscoring the limitations of generalized advice on social media. Closing Thoughts: The hosts conclude by urging listeners to be cautious with the information on social media and to seek professional legal advice for their specific situations. Listen to the full episode for an in-depth exploration of the complexities of legal advice in the age of social media.…

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Love, Marriage, and How Not to End Up in a True Crime Podcast with Amanda Lamb 34:04

1 year ago34:04

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Our Guest: Amanda Lamb is a veteran television crime reporter with more than three decades of experience and is also a podcast host and producer. She works for award-winning WRAL TV in Raleigh, North Carolina. Amanda currently hosts and produces a weekday morning podcast called the WRAL Daily Download . She has also hosted and produced two true crime podcasts and has another on the way. Follow the Truth was released in 2021 and won the prestigious regional Edward R. Murrow award for excellence in journalism. What Remains was released in 2022. The Killing Month is scheduled for release in the summer of 2023. Amanda has written and published a dozen books. Her fictional murder mystery series includes: Dead Last, Lies That Bind and No Wake Zone. Amanda is also the author of three true crime books based on murder cases she covered for WRAL including: Deadly Dose , Evil Next Door , and Love Lies . She has published four memoirs, one about caregiving and three about parenting, including: The Living Room , I Love You to God and Back , Girls Gone Child , and Smotherhood , and two children’s books, I Love You to God and Back and We Are Not the Same. Amanda writes a monthly blog on WRAL’s website called “Go Ask Mom.” To learn more about Amanda and her work go to www.alambauthor.com . You can also follow her on social media. Facebook: @wralAmandaLamb @stagemight Twitter: @alamb Instagram: @wral_amanda_lamb . ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Episode Overview: This episode of "Exit Strategy" features Amanda Lamb, a seasoned reporter from WRAL, as she discusses various aspects of crime and domestic violence and her experiences in reporting and authoring books on these topics. Key Discussion points: True Crime Books: Lamb talks about her books, including 'Deadly Dose' and 'Love Lies,' which delve into high-profile murder cases involving domestic violence. Domestic Violence Insights: The conversation highlights the complex nature of domestic violence, touching upon its psychological aspects, including financial control and emotional abuse. Legal Perspectives: Lamb and the hosts discuss the legal implications and challenges in domestic violence cases, emphasizing the difficulty in prosecuting non-physical forms of abuse. Impact on Children: The episode underscores the lasting impact of domestic violence on children, with Lamb discussing this theme in her mystery series and real-world cases. Investigative Challenges: Lamb highlights advancements in DNA technology and their role in solving cold cases, sharing insights from her true crime podcast projects. Personal Projects: Amanda discusses her upcoming projects, including a book set in the mountains about a missing hiker and a podcast about women transforming their lives post-50. Conclusion: The episode provides a comprehensive look at domestic violence, its societal impact, and the role of media in bringing these stories to light, driven by Amanda Lamb’s extensive experience in crime reporting and storytelling.…

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New Year, New Me - How to prepare if you’re considering divorce in 2024 35:20

1 year ago35:20

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Hosts : Elizabeth Stephenson and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law. Topic : Preparing for and navigating separation and divorce. Key Discussions : The tendency for people to consider separation post-holidays. Consultations as a tool for preparation and planning, offering legal advice and a "toolbox" for navigating separation. Addressing fears and misconceptions about custody and financial survival post-separation. The importance of individual plans and strategies in the context of family law. The role of attorneys in providing guidance and representation. Specific Advice : Different aspects of family law: custody, child support, spousal support, and property distribution. Approaches to dealing with joint property and finances in separation. The ethical boundaries of consultations and the importance of confidentiality. Audience : Individuals considering separation or divorce, seeking practical and legal advice. Tone : Informative, supportive, addressing complex emotional and legal aspects of separation with clarity.…

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Breaking the Rules: What to do if Your Ex Isn't Following a Court Order or Separation Agreement. 23:18

2 years ago23:18

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The episode's topic is the serious implications of violating a court order, specifically in the context of family law. Violating Court Orders: Discuss common ways people violate court orders, including not following custody or child support orders. An explanation is that judges are not pleased with non-compliance and the importance of settling cases to have a say in the outcome. Once a judge gives an order, it must be followed. Even if one has a custody order, law enforcement may not get involved. Remedies for Violation: If one is constantly late for exchanges or violates the order in other ways, the remedy often starts with contacting an attorney. Options include contacting the other party's attorney to resolve the issue without court intervention. If resolution is not possible, filing a motion for an order to show cause and motion for contempt is the next step. Repercussions and Types of Contempt: Courts have a wide range of repercussions. Two types of contempt are discussed: civil and criminal. Civil contempt can lead to jail until compliance is achieved, and criminal contempt is seen as punishment. Discussion on the power of judges to modify custody or support orders and the likelihood of immediate payment once jailed. Understanding Court Orders: Importance of having an order in place and the challenges if there's no signed order in the court file. Frustration when parties continue to do as they please without a signed order and the limits of what attorneys can do in such cases. Criteria for Contempt and Costs: Trivial violations like being 15 minutes late may not be enough for contempt. The financial aspect of filing another motion and going to court is highlighted.…

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I Want Out: How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce 32:44

2 years ago32:44

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You don't want to start the beginning of the end conflicted. So when possible be kind. Discussion About Guests and Support: Mention guests who have supported people during a divorce. Emphasizing the need for support for those who have been through divorce. Introduction of Tracey Stracener with Simply Thrive Therapeutic Associates : Discussion about her role in supporting people through divorce. Introducing the topic: telling your spouse that you want to leave. Tracey Speaks About Her Practice: Overview of working at Simply Thrive Therapeutic Associates, focusing on trauma therapy. Discussing the trauma involved in asking for a divorce and the delicate nature of the subject. Emphasizes her love for working with women and her approach to therapy. Discussion on Therapy and Moving Forward: Tracey details her work with individuals, couples, and families. The hosts and Tracey discuss the theme of moving forward. Navigating the Emotional Aspect of Divorce: Discussion on how to handle telling a spouse about wanting a divorce. Consideration of keeping secrets and preparing for the other person's reaction. Discussion about taking various individual responses to a divorce request. Dealing with Narcissistic Personalities: Reflection on encountering narcissistic personalities in their line of work. Contemplating how to approach a conversation with someone with a narcissistic personality.…

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From Tin Cup to Enforcing a Prenup: Our Take on Kevin Costner's Divorce 17:42

2 years ago17:42

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Introduction Elizabeth Stephenson and Sarah introduced themselves from New Direction, Family Law. They discuss their passion for trash-talking and telemetry. Main Topic: Rich People's Divorces The topic concerns divorces, specifically among the rich, covering issues like child support, custody, and property. More money is involved, but issues are similar to average divorces. Kevin Costner's Divorce Drama Focusing on the Kevin Costner divorce drama from his longtime wife, who married in 2004. Discussion of a prenuptial agreement. Elizabeth and Sarah role-play representing wife and husband, respectively. Property Issues Fifty-eight thousand square feet property with various amenities discussed. They are debating over property rights and why the wife has to leave. The property includes the main house, fishing lodge, guest house, baseball field, etc. Child Support and Prenup Child support amount: around $129,000 a month. Prenup required Kevin Costner to pay $1.4 million to his wife. Concerns about how long she can survive on that sum. Humorous discussion on dividing up pots and pans in the divorce. Caretakers and House Maintenance Discussions about the extensive care required for the property. The debate over environmental issues and large houses. Legal Considerations Discussion on prenup legality and limitations regarding child support. The hosts mention the surprise at the large child support order in this case. Overall Tone A mix of serious legal insights and lighthearted banter about celebrity lifestyles and legal proceedings related to divorce.…

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Til Death or Divorce Do Us Part: The intersection of family law and estate planning featuring Adam Hopler 35:33

2 years ago35:33

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Guest: Adam Hopler, an Estate Attorney from the firm Hopler, Wilms, & Hanna PLLC. Adam shares about his personal background, including his experience of practicing law in Durham for 12 years and being a father to six kids. Discussion about the intersection of family law and estate planning: how divorce and separation can impact one's estate and the importance of consultation with estate attorneys. The podcast addresses certain scenarios where it becomes essential to speak with an estate attorney, such as in cases of separations involving substantial estates or closely held businesses. Adam elaborates on how estate planning isn't just about the individual but also about those around them, who may end up dealing with the consequences of inadequate planning. Discussion on the need for life insurance and how it's meant to cover debts so that dependents don't have to. The podcast addresses the importance of revisiting estate plans periodically due to life changes and gives an example of how the pandemic has accelerated these changes for many. Adam talks about the significance of beneficiary designations and shares an anecdote from his law school days. Discussion about what happens if a person dies without a will, or 'intestate', in North Carolina, with particular emphasis on the role of a spouse and children in the division of the estate. The hosts conclude with a discussion on the importance of estate planning, even in complex family situations, such as split families, and during periods of separation before divorce is finalized. Note: For expert advice tailored to your specific circumstances, it is always recommended to consult with a certified legal professional in your area.…

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How to Talk to Your Children about Divorce 24:16

2 years ago24:16

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Guest: LINDSEY OHLER, PSY.D. Introduction: Hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law invite Dr. Lindsay Ohler to discuss a critical topic - how to approach the conversation about separation and divorce with children. The Emotional Impact of Divorce on Children: Dr. Ohler emphasizes the profound emotional effects of divorce on children, comparing the experience to grief. She highlights the need for care and gentleness while discussing separation with children, regardless of age. The Perceptive Nature of Children: Discussing how even if parents try to shield their children from their disputes, children are intuitive and often sense that something is wrong. Breaking the News as a United Front: Dr. Ohler recommends both parents be present when informing children about the divorce. This provides a united front and reassures the child. Approaching Different Age Groups: The conversation varies based on the child's age. For a two-year-old, keep the explanation simple. For older kids, explain the logistics of the new living arrangements without delving into the details of the separation. Creating Comfort in New Spaces: Encourage children to participate in creating their new spaces in separate homes. This could include choosing room colors or selecting mementos from their previous home. Discussing Divorce with Teenagers: Teenagers, who tend to pick sides, balance their time with parents and friends. Parents must maintain control of their emotions during the conversation, provide reassurance, and refrain from oversharing details of the divorce. Protecting Sensitive Information: Parents must secure any divorce-related documents (both hard copies and electronic) to prevent their children from stumbling upon them and causing potential distress. Effect on Adult Children: Even adult children might struggle with their parent's divorce, questioning their relationships and family identity. Therapy for Children: Therapy could benefit children as young as three, helping them navigate the emotional turbulence during a divorce. Stay tuned for more episodes as we navigate the complexities of family law together.…

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Divorcing a Sociopath with Kerrie Droban 24:57

2 years ago24:57

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In this episode of the New Direction Family Law Podcast, Elizabeth, Sarah, and guest Kerrie Droban discuss the pathology of the criminal mind and identify the traits of sociopaths, psychopaths, and narcissists in the context of family law. They also provide strategies for victims to protect themselves and unmask their abusers during litigation. Elizabeth and Sarah from New Direction Family Law are joined by Kerrie Droban, an award-winning true crime author and criminal and family law attorney. Kerrie Droban shares her expertise on the pathology of the criminal mind, focusing on identifying the personality disorder traits of narcissists, psychopaths, and sociopaths. While not all of these personalities have criminal intent, their dangerous behaviors make them a threat to those around them. Victims of abusive relationships with dark personalities often suffer psychological abuse, leading to gaps in their stories, making litigation difficult. Unmasking the psychopath, narcissist, or sociopath is the key to getting the victim out of the abusive relationship and prevailing in litigation. Kerrie shares strategies to educate people in the courtroom about these personality disorders to gain a stronger position in litigation. https://www.kerriedroban.com zhivagolaw@gmail.com Kerrie’s books on Amazon Kerrie’s writing workshop LinkedIn Instagram zhivagolaw@gmail.com…

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I Always Feel Like Somebody's Watching Me: Is Your Spouse Spying on You? 18:31

2 years ago18:31

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What do you do if you think someone is stalking you, digitally or in real life... Spying is a common issue in family law cases. People may spy on their spouses because they suspect infidelity or substance abuse. Hiring a private investigator or conducting your own investigation by looking through trash or tracking purchases can gather evidence. Spouses may spy by following their partner, audio or video recording, accessing emails or phone data, or installing tracking devices on cars or personal items. AirTags can be used to track people discreetly. If you suspect someone is spying on you, talk to an attorney and consider having a specialist scan your devices. Change passwords, set up new email accounts, and be aware of your surroundings to protect your privacy. Mental health concerns may need to be addressed if someone is overly paranoid about being spied on.…

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Divorce Lawyers at Your Service for Service Members 16:57

2 years ago16:57

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Sarah, a partner and attorney at New Direction Family Law, interviewed Ashley Oldham, another partner, and attorney at the same firm, about military divorces. Military divorces have unique challenges, such as deployments, custody during deployment, and division of military pensions and benefits. There are three bases for jurisdiction under federal law regarding military pensions: consent, domicile, and residency for reasons other than military assignments. To benefit from certain accounts, no set length for marriage is required. Still, if the marriage overlaps with military service for ten years, the spouse can receive direct payments from the Defense Finance and Accounting Service. It is crucial to pick an attorney who knows enough about military divorce to understand what they do not know and can outsource to others. In a military divorce, all military entitlements count for child support, not just taxable income. The frozen benefit rule, which affects how much of a pension a former spouse is entitled to, has changed with the National Defense Authorization Act and may be worth less than expected due to disability benefits. Survivor benefits are unitary benefits, meaning they go to one person, but the pension can be divided among multiple spouses. Military attorneys are available for legal assistance, but they may not be licensed in the state and may not be knowledgeable about family law.…

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Relocation Relocation Relocation 19:39

2 years ago19:39

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In this episode: What are some reasons that the court would say you can move or not move during a divorce? Domestic violence is a completely different circumstance. Some of the things the court considers is: will it benefit the child family crime statistics culture & art an opportunity to make a better living Many times a separation agreement will outline terms related to relocating. What can happen if a parent does move with the kids without a court order? The age of children and connections they have with friends, school, sports, and their community often will factor into a judges decision as well. Help your friends going through a divorce go from victim to victorious and bitter to better. If you like The Ex-it Strategy, visit our website to subscribe for free, and you'll never miss an episode. And if you like the Ex-it Strategy, We'd appreciate you telling a friend (maybe even two).…

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Prenups - Love em or hate em 27:07

2 years ago27:07