Bonus Episode #1 How to Speak Truth to Power Without Becoming a Target
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đ Episode Description:
Telling the truth shouldnât cost you your peaceâbut in systems that protect power, it often does.
In this Bonus Episode of Leadership Lessons with Dr. Fredrick D. Lee II, we unpack what it really takes to speak truth to powerâwithout sacrificing your credibility, emotional well-being, or future opportunities.
Inspired by a recent coaching conversation with a new leader navigating the tension between honesty and reputation, this episode dives into the emotional, strategic, and cultural complexity of being a truth-tellerâespecially for BIPOC professionals in spaces built to maintain the status quo.
đ§ This isnât just about âbeing brave.â
Itâs about emotional intelligence, power dynamics, psychological safety, and the cost of silence.
đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Learn:
- Why speaking up in hierarchical systems often feels dangerous
- How ego, identity, and defensiveness shape leadership responses
- What neuroscience reveals about fear, feedback, and perceived threats
- The emotional tax of being âthe only one in the roomâ
- How to lead with honesty and strategyâwithout burning out
- 5 Change Moves to help you advocate, influence, and protect your peace
đ§ Practical Tools Youâll Take Away:
- How to ground yourself before difficult conversations
- How to frame truth-telling around outcomes and shared values
- How to ask powerful questions that disarm defensiveness
- Why building coalitions matters more than going solo
- When to document, escalate, or exit unsafe environments
đŁď¸ Who This Episode Is For:
- Leaders navigating complex workplace dynamics
- BIPOC professionals who are âthe firstâ or âonlyâ in leadership
- Emerging executives who want to build trust and tell the truth
- Anyone whoâs been labeled âtoo muchâ for challenging whatâs broken
đ Coaching Prompt of the Episode:
What truth have you been holding back because youâre afraid it will cost you something?
What would it look like to speak that truth with strategy, not just frustration?
đŹ Stay Connected:
Need support as you grow your voice and lead with emotional intelligence?
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