How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Relationship to Money With Shamina Taylor

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Daily CEO Money Making Moves

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We’ve turned intuition into a buzzword—flattened it into a slogan, a gut feeling, or a vague whisper we don’t always know how to hear. But what if intuition is so much more? What if it's one of the most powerful tools we have—and we’ve just forgotten how to use it? In this episode, I’m joined by Hrund Gunnsteinsdóttir , Icelandic thought leader, filmmaker, and author of InnSæi: Icelandic Wisdom for Turbulent Times . Hrund has spent over 20 years studying and teaching the science and art of intuition through her TED Talk, Netflix documentary (InnSæi: The Power of Intuition), and global work on leadership, innovation, and inner knowing. Together, we explore what intuition really is (hint: not woo-woo), how to cultivate it in a culture obsessed with logic and overthinking, and why your ability to listen to yourself might be the most essential skill you can develop. In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ Why we’ve misunderstood intuition—and how to reclaim it ✅ Practical ways to strengthen your intuitive muscle ✅ What Icelandic wisdom teaches us about inner knowing ✅ How to use intuition during uncertainty and decision-making ✅ Why trusting yourself is an act of rebellion (and power) Intuition isn’t magic—it’s a deep, internal guidance system that already exists inside you. The question is: are you listening? Connect with Hrund: Website: www.hrundgunnsteinsdottir.com TedTalk: https://www.ted.com/talks/hrund_gunnsteinsdottir_listen_to_your_intuition_it_can_help_you_navigate_the_future?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare Newsletter: https://hrundgunnsteinsdottir.com/blog/ LI: www.linkedin.com/in/hrundgunnsteinsdottir IG: https://www.instagram.com/hrundgunnsteinsdottir/ Book: InnSæi: Icelandic Wisdom for Turbulent Times Related Podcast Episodes: How To Breathe: Breathwork, Intuition and Flow State with Francesca Sipma | 267 VI4P - Know Who You Are (Chapter 4) Gentleness: Cultivating Compassion for Yourself and Others with Courtney Carver | 282 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

about a year ago 50:36

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That’s why I invited Shamina Taylor, a former attorney turned Wealth Consciousness Mentor and author of the Amazon #1 Best Seller Unlocking The Quantum Woman, to share her expertise on:

How attachment styles influence our relationship with money
The importance of wealth consciousness
Understanding masculine and feminine energy in making money
How a scarcity mindset—whether with people or money—keeps us stuck in insecure attachment patterns
Practical tips to shift your attachment to money and open yourself to more abundance

Find Shamina:

www.shaminataylor.com

Instagram: @shaminataylor

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How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Relationship to Money With Shamina Taylor

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS

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published about a year ago

M4A•Episode home

That’s why I invited Shamina Taylor, a former attorney turned Wealth Consciousness Mentor and author of the Amazon #1 Best Seller Unlocking The Quantum Woman, to share her expertise on:

How attachment styles influence our relationship with money
The importance of wealth consciousness
Understanding masculine and feminine energy in making money
How a scarcity mindset—whether with people or money—keeps us stuck in insecure attachment patterns
Practical tips to shift your attachment to money and open yourself to more abundance

Find Shamina:

Daily CEO Money Making Moves

www.shaminataylor.com

Instagram: @shaminataylor

Podcast: Unapologetically Rich

Attachment Coaching with Jessica:

1-1 Attachment Coaching (8-weeks)

My Secure Self E-Course

127 episodes

#Podcasting Education #Self-Improvement #Jessica Da Silva

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The Unspoken Pain of Avoidant Attachment 43:49

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In this episode, we explore the hidden struggles behind avoidant attachment through a candid conversation with someone who’s lived it. We discuss: 🔹 Why he resisted change in past relationships — believing emotional distance was a strength 🔹 How self-protection became self-disconnection 🔹 The breakup that made him realize his avoidant patterns were the root cause 🔹 Why avoidants do love deeply — and how fear keeps it buried 🔹 Reconnecting to his emotional self and finding fulfilling love 🔹 Closure for anyone hurt by someone with avoidant attachment This one is for anyone who’s struggled to love — or be loved — with a guarded heart. Learn about Attachment Coaching with Jessica HERE.…

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What Dating Securely Has Taught Me 15:22

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In this personal episode, I take you behind the scenes of a recent dating experience that stirred up both growth and grief — and revealed just how far I’ve come on my attachment healing journey. As someone who used to operate from a fearful avoidant (leaning anxious) attachment style, I now move through dating with much more self-trust, clarity, and compassion. But that doesn’t mean the old patterns don’t still surface — especially when connection, chemistry, and unmet needs collide. I’ll walk you through how I navigated this dynamic from a secure place, the conversations I had, and ultimately, how I honored myself enough to walk away when alignment wasn’t there — even when it felt good in the moment. If you’ve ever struggled to balance attraction with long-term compatibility, or felt pulled between your heart and your values, this episode is for you. Takeaways include: The difference between chemistry and compatibility How to identify your unmet needs in real time Why even "kind and available" people might not be the right fit What it looks like to actually date from your secure self How to exit with integrity when your paths don’t align 🎧 Plus: Only 2 more days to join the My Secure Self Membership for just $1 your first month! Get access to group coaching, monthly workshops, and tools to help you build secure, aligned relationships HERE. Looking for 1:1 support, learn more about attachment coaching here.…

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Letting Go of Unavailable Love: Meghan’s Journey to Security (Client Stories) 32:35

23 days ago32:35

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Today on the podcast, we’re joined by the lovely Meghan Gatto. Meghan went through the My Secure Self group coaching program this past summer with the goal of deepening her understanding of anxious attachment — and learning practical tools to break unhealthy relationship patterns. In this episode, we dive into: Breaking the cycle of anxious attachment Attraction to avoidant partners—and how to stop that How your body signals when you’re in the wrong relationship Approaching dating from a secure lens Knowing your needs, raising your standards, and setting boundaries And we finish off with my signature Secure Self visualization to help you shift from anxious to secure attachment My Secure Self Membership - Join for $1 today 🎉 1:1 Attachment Coaching…

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Healing Anxious Attachment and Learning to Be Okay Alone With Joe Reilly (Client Stories) 52:28

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Today, I’m excited to introduce Joe Reilly , an incredible human and former coaching client of mine, who has been actively working to break his anxious attachment patterns and step into his secure self . We dive into: The challenges of anxious attachment His pattern of dating avoidant partners and where that inclination comes from Healing through a recent breakup Learning to be okay with being alone How he’s been building a secure relationship with himself through this season so that he can be more intentional about his next partner, rather than make decisions from a place of scarcity or insecurity. If you’re looking for a heartfelt conversation about attachment, healing, and self-growth , this episode is for you. Contact Joe Reilly: www.joereilly.org Instagram: @joereillymusic Attachment Coaching with Jessica: 1-1 Attachment Coaching (8-weeks) My Secure Self E-Course…

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How Your Attachment Style Affects Your Relationship to Money With Shamina Taylor 50:36

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If you’ve been listening to the podcast for a while, you know I love exploring how attachment styles impact all areas of life—not just relationships with people. Through my own healing work, I’ve noticed that as I became more secure and confident within myself, that same transformation began to reflect in my relationship with everything—including money! That’s why I invited Shamina Taylor, a former attorney turned Wealth Consciousness Mentor and author of the Amazon #1 Best Seller Unlocking The Quantum Woman , to share her expertise on: How attachment styles influence our relationship with money The importance of wealth consciousness Understanding masculine and feminine energy in making money How a scarcity mindset—whether with people or money—keeps us stuck in insecure attachment patterns Practical tips to shift your attachment to money and open yourself to more abundance Find Shamina: Daily CEO Money Making Moves www.shaminataylor.com Instagram: @shaminataylor Podcast: Unapologetically Rich Attachment Coaching with Jessica: 1-1 Attachment Coaching (8-weeks) My Secure Self E-Course…

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Commitment vs. Compatibility: Are You in the Right Relationship? 14:29

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In this episode, I explore the difference between commitment and compatibility, sharing my personal experience navigating these challenges in a past relationship. I also discuss how to recognize the distinction, helping you better assess whether you’re in the right relationship. Learn about attachment coaching with me here.…

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Saying "No" to Emotional Unavailability and "Yes" to Secure Love With Sabrina Zohar 48:18

14 weeks ago48:18

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Today on the podcast, I'm joined by dating coach Sabrina Zohar—best known for her transformative podcast, The Sabrina Zohar Show. She brings a no-nonsense, straightforward approach to relationship advice. In this episode, we discuss: Sabrina’s journey from anxious to secure attachment. The reality of managing anxiety—it doesn’t just disappear. The power of nervous system regulation for those with anxious attachment. How to spot emotional unavailability in dating. Low-effort vs. high-effort behaviors in dating & relationships. Key qualities to look for in a secure partnership. Tune in for insightful and actionable advice on building healthier relationships! Contact Sabrina Zohar: www.sabrinazohar.com Instagram: @thesabrinazoharshow Podcast: The Sabrina Zohar Show TikTok: Sabrina.zohar Youtube: Sabrina Zohar Work With Jessica: 1:1 Attachment Coaching with Jessica HERE My Secure Self E-Course (Self-Study) Instagram: @thejessicadasilva…

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Embracing The Messy, Non-Linear Path of Grief With Melina Charis 45:56

15 weeks ago45:56

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Today on the podcast we have Melina Charis. She is a writer and mentor for women moving through grief and heartbreak. She has 10+ years experience with ceremonial + somatic healing practices and 6+ years experience holding space for others, but her greatest teachers by far have been motherhood, death, grief and life itself. We cover: Grieving breakups, death, identity shifts, and more. How unprocessed grief manifests in daily life. The ways grief can resurface years later. Understanding that grief is an ongoing process. What it truly means to process grief. Different healing approaches and ways to move through grief. *Find Melina’s offerings at melinacharis.com and read her writing at [/14b27051b990809ab0a4e21d62ab80a3?pvs=25]melinacharis.substack.com. *Learn about attachment Coaching with Jessica HERE.…

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1-Year Breakup Update: A Personal Reflection 23:43

16 weeks ago23:43

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If you've been following my breakup journey, I wanted to share an update on my healing process now that it's been 1 year. My hope is that this gives you insight into the grief cycle, the messiness of healing, and reassurance that things do get better. Work With Me : Attachment Coaching - ⁠CLICK HERE⁠ Previous recorded break-up updates: - Recovering From Heartbreak - 8 Month Update (Through a Secure Lens) - Recovering From Heartbreak - (Through a Secure Lens) Almost 6 Month Update - To Stay or Breakup - Leaving My Relationship of 6 Years…

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Is It Them or Me? Separating My Avoidant Fears With Randy Hamama (Client Stories) 47:58

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How Our Attachment Style Influences Our Relationship to Food and our Body With Vanessa Scaringi and Kathryn Garland 50:51

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Today on the podcast, Vanessa Scaringi, PhD, CEDS-C, a licensed psychologist and certified eating disorder specialist supervisor, and Kathryn Garland, LCSW-S, CEDS-C, a clinical social worker and certified eating disorder specialist supervisor, discuss: How attachment styles influence our relationship with our body and eating habits How different attachment styles may experience eating disorders The impact of early relational experiences on eating behaviors Tools to heal and rebuild a positive relationship with your body And so much more! Vanessa and both co-own a group practice Calm Counseling in Austin Texas that specializes in the treatment of disordered eating and body image issues. Contact Vanessa and Kathryn: www.keepcalmtx.com Instagram: @calmcounselingatx Work with Jessica: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com Instagram: @thejessicadasilvacoaching…

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From Heartbreak to Finding Love With Hannah Flynn (Client Stories) 43:38

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In today's episode, the wonderful Hannah Flynn, a former client of mine, shares her journey of navigating her avoidant attachment style, overcoming deception and heartbreak, and ultimately finding healthy, secure love. We discuss: The challenges of communication with an avoidant attachment style. The importance of addressing conflict rather than avoiding it to maintain peace. The pain of being deceived in a trusted relationship. Learning your relationship needs and desires through trial and error. The journey to finding love again. Learn about Attachment Coaching with Jessica here.…

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Getting Attached to Things Outside of Our Relationships (Personal Share) 17:34

27 weeks ago17:34

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I had a revelation recently with a big life change. I noticed similar insecure ways of thinking and feeling surface that resembled how I used to feel in unhealthy relationship dynamics. The goal with this episode is to help you reflect on how you may be "insecurely attaching" to things outside of your relationships, such as your home, belongings, items, routines, goals, dreams, by highlighting similar attachment patterns that could be harming you rather than helping you. Most importantly, how to shift your approach! ATTACHMENT COACHING WITH ME: Book a free clarity call here. www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com…

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Redefining Your Perspective on Needs With Chris Rackliffe 1:01:05

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Today on the podcast we have Chris Rackliffe, also known as @crackliffe. He is a trauma healer, mental health advocate, anxious attachment style coach, and author of the new self-help book, Needy No More: The Journey From Anxious to Secure Attachment—available exclusively on Amazon beginning November 19, 2024. Chris has worked with countless clients across five continents to help them heal their anxious attachment style and grow more secure, sharing everything he’s learned on his own healing journey—from how to integrate trauma and regulate the nervous system, to how to effectively communicate and set boundaries. With a B.S. in Psychology from the University of Miami—and an honorary Ph.D. in the “School of Life”—Chris has made it his sole purpose to help others find peace, perspective, purpose, and power through their trauma. We discuss: -Why it's important to know your needs for relationship health and satisfaction. -How to identify and meet your needs. -How to measure if your needs are being met within your relationship. -Creating a balanced approach of give and take. -When to stay or leave your relationship. Contact and work with Chris: Check his my website and TikTok ! Get your copy of his first book, It's Good to See Me Again , on Amazon now. Contact and work with Jessica: 10 Week Attachment Coaching Instagram: @thejessicadasilva hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com…

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Somatic Experiencing for Healing Attachment Wounds With Lisa May Francisco 53:55

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