55: Bad Relationship Advice Part 2: The Dumb Head Scratching Kind

Make More Love

Ellen Dorian dissects three pieces of bad relationship advice, offering insights on maintaining effort in marriage, handling conflicts, and the importance of apologizing. She provides practical strategies for nurturing long-term relationships and maintaining passion.

Part 1: Debunking "You Don't Have to Impress Anyone After Marriage"

- Marriage doesn't mean stopping self-care or effort

- Continued investment in oneself shows respect for the partner

- Maintaining attractiveness contributes to intimacy and desire

Part 2: Addressing "Never Go to Bed Angry"

- Misinterpretation of biblical advice

- Forcing late-night resolutions can worsen conflicts

- Respecting biorhythms and deferring discussions can be beneficial

Part 3: Challenging "Love Means Never Having to Say You're Sorry"

- Apologies are crucial for maintaining trust and connection

- Five-step framework for crafting effective apologies

- Importance of taking responsibility and committing to change

Key Takeaways:

- Consistent effort and mutual respect are crucial in relationships

- Avoiding difficult conversations can be more damaging than conflict

- Sincere, timely apologies are essential for relationship repair

Closing Thoughts:

Relationships thrive on intentional effort, not perfection. Building a lasting partnership requires facing issues head-on and taking responsibility for mistakes.

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"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love in Your Life and with Your Wife.'" - Ellen Dorian

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