Writing to explore identity, family, and mental health: Hollay Ghadery on her memoir Fuse

On Creative Writing

Content trigger warning: This episode touches on topics including self-harm, alcoholism, drug use, and eating disorders. We understand that these topics may be distressing for some listeners. So please take care while listening, or you may decide not to listen.

In this episode of the On Creative Writing podcast, Sheelagh Caygill talks with acclaimed Iranian-Canadian multigenre writer Hollay Ghadery about the themes and inspirations behind her powerful memoir, Fuse. Fuse was published in 2021 by Guernica Editions and won the 2023 Canadian Bookclub Award for Nonfiction/Memoir.

The conversation opens with Hollay discussing being a mixed-race individual and navigating the complexities of identity, family, belonging, and cultural heritage. She reflects on her childhood experiences growing up between two worlds, and how these formative years shaped her understanding of self.

Hollay discusses the challenges she faced living with Iranian and Canadian backgrounds, and how this duality impacted her sense of self, place within her family, and communities. The episode explores the nuances of family dynamics, touching on moments of connection, misunderstanding, distrust, and growth.

The episode looks at mental health, with Hollay opening up about her struggles and the ways in which writing served as a tool for exploration, healing, and self-discovery. She emphasizes the importance of honesty and authenticity in memoir writing, noting that readers are drawn to stories that are raw, real, and unfiltered. The conversation also addresses the complexities and limitations of labels—whether cultural, racial, or psychological—and how these can both help and hinder our understanding of ourselves and others.

Sheelagh asks Hollay about her writing process, from the idea to the discipline required to bring a memoir to completion. Hollay shares practical advice for aspiring writers, encouraging them to read widely and to embrace the messiness of drafting and to trust their unique voices. She highlights the significance of compassion, both in writing about oneself and telling the stories of others, and underscores the healing power of storytelling for individuals and communities alike.

Throughout the episode, Hollay advocates for the inclusion of diverse narratives in literature, stressing that every story has value and the potential to foster empathy and connection. She encourages listeners—both readers and writers—to approach identity and creativity with openness, curiosity, and a willingness to challenge preconceived notions.

Listeners will come away from this episode with a deeper appreciation for the courage it takes to write a memoir, the intricate interplay between personal and cultural identity, and the transformative impact of sharing one’s truth. Whether you are a writer, a lover of memoir, or someone interested in the intersections of culture, mental health, and family, this episode offers great insights and inspiration.

Hollay Ghadery: Hollayghadery.ca

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Facebook.com/hollayghaderywriter

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Hollay’s editor, Margo Lapierre: Margolapierreeditor.com