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Paying Attention Softly: Building Trust with Your Adolescent

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Content provided by Sarah Pollak & Quinn Faison, Sarah Pollak, and Quinn Faison. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Sarah Pollak & Quinn Faison, Sarah Pollak, and Quinn Faison or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

In this episode, we explore the often-repeated advice for parents of adolescents: “Pay attention.” While this can feel intimidating or overwhelming, we discuss how to approach this idea with a sense of softness that can greatly benefit the parent-child relationship during these transformative years.

  • Discover how a gentle approach to paying attention allows you to notice your adolescent's changes without overwhelming them. Learn the difference between using a magnifying glass or a microscope when observing your child. Curiosity fosters connection, while scrutiny can lead to discomfort.
  • Explore how to engage in conversations with your child without immediate reactions. This awareness can lead to deeper understanding and trust.
  • Reflect on your own journey as a parent. Are you paying attention to your own needs and desires, or are you caught up in comparing yourself to others?
  • Understand how to open your hands, allowing your child to feel safe enough to explore their independence while knowing they can always return to you.

Join us for a thoughtful discussion on how to bring softness to the art of paying attention, fostering a healthier, more trusting relationship with your adolescent.

Listen and learn!

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Manage episode 448790773 series 3494891
Content provided by Sarah Pollak & Quinn Faison, Sarah Pollak, and Quinn Faison. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Sarah Pollak & Quinn Faison, Sarah Pollak, and Quinn Faison or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://ppacc.player.fm/legal.

In this episode, we explore the often-repeated advice for parents of adolescents: “Pay attention.” While this can feel intimidating or overwhelming, we discuss how to approach this idea with a sense of softness that can greatly benefit the parent-child relationship during these transformative years.

  • Discover how a gentle approach to paying attention allows you to notice your adolescent's changes without overwhelming them. Learn the difference between using a magnifying glass or a microscope when observing your child. Curiosity fosters connection, while scrutiny can lead to discomfort.
  • Explore how to engage in conversations with your child without immediate reactions. This awareness can lead to deeper understanding and trust.
  • Reflect on your own journey as a parent. Are you paying attention to your own needs and desires, or are you caught up in comparing yourself to others?
  • Understand how to open your hands, allowing your child to feel safe enough to explore their independence while knowing they can always return to you.

Join us for a thoughtful discussion on how to bring softness to the art of paying attention, fostering a healthier, more trusting relationship with your adolescent.

Listen and learn!

  continue reading

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