You’re Not Behind, You’re Just in the Wrong Room
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Have you ever looked around and thought, “Why am I not as far along as everyone else?” In this episode, I share why feeling behind might not mean you’re falling short — it might just mean you’re in the wrong room.
I open up about a powerful moment at a high-level mastermind where, despite being surrounded by massive success, I felt completely misaligned. I was being pushed to scale faster, do more, go bigger — while silently navigating one of the most difficult seasons of my personal life. That experience reminded me that alignment > pressure, and success should support your life — not consume it.
Inside this episode, I walk you through the 4-part framework I use with my clients when that “I’m behind” voice creeps in:
- Pause the Comparison Loop
- Audit the Voices Influencing You
- Recenter Your Definition of Growth
- Find or Create the Right Room
This isn’t just a pep talk — it’s a mindset and business reset. Whether you’re building a lean solo business or scaling a million-dollar team, growth must fit your season, your values, and your version of peace.
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You’re not behind — you’re just not where you’re meant to grow.
It’s time to exit the pressure and enter a room that fits your life.
Chapters
1. You’re Not Behind, You’re Just in the Wrong Room (00:00:00)
2. Feeling Behind vs. Being in the Wrong Room (00:01:32)
3. Personal Moment: Grief, Clarity, and Redirection (00:03:23)
4. The Shift: Choosing Alignment and Sustainability (00:04:21)
5. Framework Step 1: Pause the Comparison Loop (00:04:51)
6. Framework Step 2: Audit the Voices Around You (00:05:20)
7. Framework Step 3: Recenter Your Definition of Growth (00:05:50)
8. Framework Step 4: Find or Create the Right Room (00:07:18)
9. Introducing Play Bigger Coaching (00:09:09)
10. Final Reminder: You’re Not Behind, Just in the Wrong Room (00:10:31)
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