E946 Who Were You Before the Badge? How First Responders Can Reclaim Their Identity Outside of Work | Tactical Living Podcast

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When your job becomes your identity, everything else fades into the background. In this episode, Coach Ashlie Walton and Sergeant Clint Walton guide first responders through the journey of rediscovering who they are beyond the uniform (Amazon Affiliate—so they can build a more balanced, fulfilling life. 🔎 Episode Overview: Law enforcement and first responder work can easily consume your identity. Over time, hobbies, friendships, and even your personality can get lost in the badge. This episode is a reminder that you’re more than your job. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your passions, strengthen relationships outside of work, and create a lifestyle that reflects your full self—not just your role. 🚨 5 Signs You’ve Lost Yourself in the Job 1. You Struggle to Answer “What Do You Do for Fun?” If your mind goes blank when asked this, it’s time to reconnect with your interests. 2. Your Entire Social Circle Is Work-Related Only surrounding yourself with coworkers can limit your perspective and growth. 3. You Don’t Prioritize Hobbies or Downtime If work always comes first, personal passions get pushed to the back burner. 4. Your Partner Says “You’re Always in Cop Mode” It’s hard to fully relax when your identity is always on-duty—even at home. 5. You Feel Lost During Time Off or After Retirement Without the structure of the job, you may not know who you are or what to do next. 🛠️ 5 Ways to Reclaim Your Identity Beyond the Badge 1. Revisit Old Hobbies or Passions What did you love doing before the job? Pick one and intentionally reintroduce it into your life. 2. Spend Time with Non-Work Friends or Family Building relationships outside of the job creates a healthier, more balanced social circle. 3. Schedule “You Time” That Has Nothing to Do with Work Whether it’s music, art, faith, hiking, or learning something new—carve out space just for you. 4. Reflect on Your Pre-Job Identity Journal about who you were before you became a first responder—and what parts of that person you want to bring back. 5. Start Saying “I Am” Without the Badge Practice defining yourself outside of your title: I am a father. I am an artist. I am someone who brings calm to chaos. 🎯 Why This Episode Matters You were someone before the job—and you’ll still be someone after. Reconnecting with your identity outside of your profession isn’t a luxury—it’s a lifeline. 🎙️ Listen now to rediscover the parts of yourself that make you whole, strong, and human—not just a first responder.

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