#10 - Why Self-Promotion Feels Awkward (and What to Do About It)

Creator Alchemy

Summary:

In this conversation, Corey Wilks, Psy.D., explores the often cringeworthy nature of self-promotion and how to overcome it. He identifies three main intentions behind self-promotion: flexing, pleading, and inspiring/helping. While flexing and pleading can feel uncomfortable and off-putting, promoting with the intention to inspire and help others can transform the experience into something positive and fulfilling. Wilks emphasizes the importance of understanding one's intention when engaging in self-promotion and encourages listeners to share their creations genuinely with their audience.

Takeaways:

• Self-promotion is essential but often feels cringy.
• Flexing lacks value and can alienate your audience.
• Pleading for support can be harmful and off-putting.
• Inspiring others can make self-promotion feel authentic.
• Your intention behind self-promotion matters greatly.
• Sharing personal stories can help connect with your audience.
• You have a responsibility to share valuable offers.
• Self-promotion should be about helping, not bragging.
• Understanding your audience's needs is crucial.
• Leave the cringe behind by focusing on genuine intentions.

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