How to Be a Parent (Without Messing Everything Up) | Joe Hudson and Nathan Baschez

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The truth is out West! We’re hopping on the ET Highway and venturing to the most notorious alien hot spots, including Roswell’s infamous crash site, Area 51’s eerie perimeter, and a mysterious desert watchtower. Join us as journalist Laura Krantz, host of the podcast Wild Thing , beams up to share stories from the front lines of UFO reporting—from strange sightings and quirky festivals to a mailbox where people leave letters to extraterrestrials. Maybe you’ll even decide for yourself: Is Earth a tourist stop for spaceships? UFO hot spots you’ll encounter in this episode: - UFO Watchtower (near Great Sand Dunes National Park, Colorado) - Roswell, New Mexico - Area 51, Nevada - Extraterrestrial Highway (aka State Route 375), Nevada - Little A’Le’Inn, ET Highway, Nevada - E.T. Fresh Jerky, ET Highway, Nevada - Alien Research Center, ET Highway, Nevada - The Black Mailbox, ET Highway, Nevada Via Podcast is a production of AAA Mountain West Group .…

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What unfolds is an honest look at parenting in real time. Joe shares how Hand-in-Hand Parenting shaped his family life, how emotional presence trumps perfection, and how parenting became one of his deepest self-development practices.

In this episode, they discuss:

The link between emotional connection and behavior
What it actually means to "stay with" a child’s emotions
Why apology and repair are more powerful than being right
And how we all inherit emotional patterns — until we choose otherwise

This is an episode for anyone who’s ever wondered if it’s possible to raise a child without control and whether, in doing so, we might raise ourselves too.

Nathan Baschez is a new dad who lives in LA, and the founder of Lex (https://lex.page), a new kind of word processor that uses AI to help you go deeper and have more fun while writing. Before this, he co-founded Every, and was the first employee at Substack.

Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community!

Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson

Brett on X: @airkistler

AOA on X: @artofaccomp

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How to Be a Parent (Without Messing Everything Up) | Joe Hudson and Nathan Baschez

The Art of Accomplishment

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published about a year ago

MP3•Episode home

In this episode, they discuss:

The link between emotional connection and behavior
What it actually means to "stay with" a child’s emotions
Why apology and repair are more powerful than being right
And how we all inherit emotional patterns — until we choose otherwise

This is an episode for anyone who’s ever wondered if it’s possible to raise a child without control and whether, in doing so, we might raise ourselves too.

Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community!

Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson

Brett on X: @airkistler

AOA on X: @artofaccomp

Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com

We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore

136 episodes

#MBA #Business #Self-Improvement #Joe Hudson #Brett Kistler #Podcasting Education #Personal Development

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What Is Attunement? 31:44

1 day ago31:44

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Attunement invites us to listen deeply not only to others but also to ourselves. But what, really, does it mean to attune? How does it work? What happens when you’re attuned? In this episode of The Art of Accomplishment, Tara Howley sits down with Janine Parziale to deep dive into the practice of attunement and discuss: How attunement differs from basic active listening Recognizing when we are genuinely attuned versus disconnected from ourselves and others Practical ways attunement can improve communication and relationships in both personal and professional contexts How attunement can transform conflicts and challenging dynamics into deeper connections The risks and rewards of deep attunement Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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Why Your Goals Are Making You Miserable 29:47

16 days ago29:47

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Brett and Joe uncover the often hidden complexities behind setting and pursuing goals. They reveal how our relationships with goals reflect deeper truths about ourselves and why embracing genuine desires leads not just to accomplishments, but to a richer, more authentic life. They talk about: - Why it's crucial for your goals to reflect what your heart truly wants - How goals reorient us toward creativity and fulfillment - The importance of setting aligned goals - How to use principles and metrics effectively - The importance of celebrating failures Join us for a surprising conversation about goal-setting the AOA way. Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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Making The Most of Uncertainty 35:25

30 days ago35:25

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Brett and Joe explore how we cope with life’s unpredictability—from global events to personal crises—highlighting why some of us thrive while others falter. In a world of rapid change and unpredictable outcomes, embracing the present moment and adopting clarity in intention can transform uncertainty into a powerful opportunity for growth. They delve into how uncertainty shapes us and how, surprisingly, facing it openly can deepen our relationships and resilience. Join them as they explore: Human tendencies toward control versus adventure Common pitfalls: optimism, pessimism, and "realism” Practical tools for thriving amid unpredictability The relationship between uncertainty and personal evolution Real-world stories of navigating uncertainty Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: https://x.com/artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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Money Worries, Identity, and the Trap of Being 'Good’ (Coaching Episode) 56:21

6 weeks ago56:21

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If your relationship with money has ever caused you grief, this glimpse into transformation could point the way to uncovering the root of your own challenges. Bobby Hobert comes to Joe with a question that sounds familiar to many of us: money struggles and how to step into the version of ourselves that feels so close, yet so elusive. What he finds instead is something deeper and messier: the recognition that trying to "get it right" is often the very thing in the way. Together with Joe, Bobby explores: The subtle ways seeking approval can mask as leadership Why helping others isn’t always generous The discomfort (and magic) of not knowing who you are How stillness can reveal more than striving ever could Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www .artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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How to Be a Parent (Without Messing Everything Up) | Joe Hudson and Nathan Baschez 33:37

8 weeks ago33:37

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When Nathan Baschez saw a tweet from Joe Hudson about how he raised his girls—no punishments, no shame—he had to know more. So when Joe invited him onto the podcast to talk parenting, he jumped at the chance. What unfolds is an honest look at parenting in real time. Joe shares how Hand-in-Hand Parenting shaped his family life, how emotional presence trumps perfection, and how parenting became one of his deepest self-development practices. In this episode, they discuss: The link between emotional connection and behavior What it actually means to "stay with" a child’s emotions Why apology and repair are more powerful than being right And how we all inherit emotional patterns — until we choose otherwise This is an episode for anyone who’s ever wondered if it’s possible to raise a child without control and whether, in doing so, we might raise ourselves too. Nathan Baschez is a new dad who lives in LA, and the founder of Lex ( https://lex.page ), a new kind of word processor that uses AI to help you go deeper and have more fun while writing. Before this, he co-founded Every, and was the first employee at Substack. Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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How To Stop Seeking Approval 26:26

10 weeks ago26:26

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We grow up in a world where seeking approval is assumed, expected. Authority figures (like parents) assume the responsibility of approval or disapproval to teach their offspring how to move through the world. It’s also a kind of currency: it determines who we are, where we belong, what doors open for us. But at some point, some of us begin to wonder—what happens if I stop asking for permission? In this episode, Joe and Brett wrestle with the complexity of approval-seeking and how to break free from it. They explore: The push and pull between belonging and authenticity The weight of societal norms and expectation The way doubt and conditioning pull us from our innate wisdom The necessity of discomfort in the pursuit of true authenticity The somatic cues that indicate when we are honoring our truth—or avoiding it Practical exercises for cultivating self-approval Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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So You’re Not Dead Yet: Lessons From Chemotherapy | Tara Howley with Guest Michael Nagle 29:19

12 weeks ago29:19

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There is a moment when the body becomes foreign, when the timeline of your life no longer extends indefinitely but narrows into an unpredictable horizon. In this episode, Tara sits down with Michael Nagel, a beloved member of the AOA community, to speak candidly about what it means to love and be loved in the face of his cancer diagnosis. They discuss: The “psychedelic of mortality” —how the nearness of death transforms personal and social dynamics Embracing the support of a community while wrestling with the vulnerability of needing help The stark cost-benefit analysis of chemotherapy The dual forces of grief and gratitude, and learning to hold both at once Denial’s strange and necessary role in maintaining the will to live. The radical act of saying yes to struggle, and what it means to want life even in its hardest moments Join us for a conversation that explores what it means to live when death is an ever-present companion. Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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How Generosity Improves Your Well-Being 26:33

14 weeks ago26:33

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Generosity is often relegated to a bit part in our lives, an incidental thing we appreciate when we notice it but not something we consider important to driving our happiness or success. What happens when we put generosity at the center? In this episode of The Art of Accomplishment , Brett Kistler and Joe Hudson unpack the ways in which giving—whether of time, resources, or presence—is a direct line to our collective humanity and changes the trajectory of our well-being and sense of wholeness. They touch on: The unspoken generosity of cultures that thrive on giving How generosity exposes our attachments—our need to be seen, to be in control, to matter The difference between obligation and true generosity Moments where generosity is a lifeline, a language between people when words fail The ways in which loss, grief, and generosity intersect The article Brett wrote and referenced in the podcast can be found here: https://open.substack.com/pub/inneradventure/p/welcome-to-iran?r=30w17r&utm_medium=ios Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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Self-Reliance Is A Trap 26:18

16 weeks ago26:18

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Our society glorifies self-reliance. We tell ourselves that it is the only way to survive in a world where no one is coming to save us and armor our hearts and mask our faces to avoid appearing weak or being disappointed when we show that we are in need. In this episode, Joe and Brett deconstruct the mythology of self-reliance and ask: What does it mean to truly receive? How does our fear of vulnerability keep us from intimacy, from connection, from the radical act of trusting another? They explore the ways self-reliance is both survival and self-sabotage, the ways we must unlearn it in order to heal. They discuss: How to heal the fear of needing and being needed. Why self-reliance is often a misleading ideal. The hidden fear and control embedded in hyper-independence. How trauma conditions us to reject support and connection. The surprising ways leadership and relationships thrive on interdependence. Practical ways to shift from unhealthy self-reliance to empowered collaboration. Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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Your Obsession With Productivity Is Killing Your Productivity 36:00

18 weeks ago36:00

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In this episode of The Art of Accomplishment , Brett and Joe provide a guide to productivity that challenges the notion of productivity itself. Drawing from personal anecdotes and experience, they explore: The distinction between working hard and working meaningfully. How dopamine and cultural norms fuel a false sense of accomplishment. Practical methods for aligning productivity with personal purpose and enjoyment. The role of reflection, rest, and pacing in sustainable achievement. Join Brett and Joe as they illuminate the often-overlooked forest amidst the trees of modern productivity culture, providing tools to reclaim joy and efficiency in your work and life. Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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The Secret to Thriving Company Culture 33:47

20 weeks ago33:47

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Why do some teams thrive in harmony while others crumble under pressure? How can leaders align aspirations with action, transforming their workplaces—and themselves—into engines of meaningful success? Brett and Joe recorded a special episode of the podcast in front of a live audience to discuss the impact of workplace culture on decision-making, organizational growth, and personal fulfillment. The conversation dives deep into: - The challenges of fostering connection, accountability, and trust - What matters to people in organizations - The fundamental components of culture - The interplay between leadership and a team And much more. Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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How To Find Your Purpose 19:57

22 weeks ago19:57

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Purpose is not defined by what we do, but by how we show up to life’s callings—whether in moments of fear, effort, or surrender. In this episode of The Art of Accomplishment , Joe and Brett lead us on a journey to uncover what it means to live with purpose. Not as something to be found, but as something to be recognized. Together, they unpack the myths surrounding purpose, challenging the notion that it is an external destination and reframing it as an inherent part of how we live. They examine: The search for purpose How purpose emerges in the moment Balancing the fear and challenge of stepping into purpose Discovering purpose as a deeply personal truth How facing discomfort and friction often reveals the path to deeper meaning Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @ FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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How Death Brings Life Closer 27:51

24 weeks ago27:51

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In this episode of The Art of Accomplishment , Brett and Joe take us on a poignant journey through the inevitability of death and the profound ways it shapes the experience of life. At the center of their conversation is Brett’s brother, facing a terminal diagnosis, and the extraordinary lessons his life—and the process of his dying—have imparted. Through anecdotes of BASE jumping, near-death experiences, and profound loss, Brett and Joe explore the paradox of mortality: the closer you are to death, the more vividly you taste life. Brett and Joe examine: The power of mortality: How facing the truth of our impermanence can compress life into moments of unparalleled sweetness. The freedom in letting go: Why the stories we tell ourselves about success, identity, and purpose often crumble in the face of death. A life well lived: Brett reflects on his brother’s choice to "dive into his family" and redefine what it means to truly live. Lessons from the edge: Stories of BASE jumping and near-death experiences that reveal the peace and clarity often found in moments of extreme vulnerability. The opportunity of goodbye: How acknowledging the fleeting nature of life can lead to deeper, more meaningful connections. As the conversation unfolds, a clear and steady message emerges: death, far from being an endpoint, is a profound teacher. It forces us to confront what matters most, stripping away the trivial and leaving only the raw truth of our existence. Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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How to Build a Great Support System 31:04

26 weeks ago31:04

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“Show me your friends, and I’ll show you your future,” is a common expression that suggests who you surround yourself with will determine who you become and how you operate. Evidence suggests that there’s some truth to this. In this episode of The Art of Accomplishment podcast, Brett and Joe explore the makings of effective support networks. Through the lens of BASE jumping, self-discovery work, business, and parenting, they discuss: The importance of shared purpose Accountability The benefit of diversity Practical steps to create your own support structures The necessity of vulnerability and visibility Tune in for a stimulating conversation about how support systems are a vital part of the transformative power of community. Send us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudson Brett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccomp Visit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore…

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The Elephant In The Room: How To Say What No One Wants To Say 39:15

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