Making Peace with Your Path: Cleveland Jones on Music, Self-Worth, and Retirement

"The Black Man Talking Emotions Podcast" Starring Dom L'Amour

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"If you weren't so damn nice, you'd be successful." These words, spoken to Dom L’Amour years ago, sparked a profound journey of self-discovery that unfolds throughout this intimate conversation with Cleveland Jones.
For artists navigating the music industry, establishing your value doesn't come with a handbook. Cleveland openly shares the moment someone told him he was "like a hoe that people can pimp out" because he didn't recognize his own worth—a brutal assessment that changed how he viewed himself professionally. Dom echoes this experience, recounting his own struggles with industry professionals who sensed his eagerness to please and exploited it.
As Cleveland approaches his fifties, he candidly discusses facing retirement without traditional financial safety nets, a reality many creative professionals encounter. The conversation takes a fascinating turn when they explore the concept of "choosing your pain" rather than simply setting goals—deciding what sacrifices you're willing to make and which boundaries remain non-negotiable. For Dom, no career opportunity justifies sacrificing family relationships; for Cleveland, maintaining his peace of mind has become paramount.
The beauty of this exchange lies in its remarkable vulnerability. Both men acknowledge the unconventional reality of a performer's life—working when others socialize, facing constant rejection, and learning to protect their creative spirits while building sustainable careers. Their shared wisdom offers a masterclass for artists at any stage: true success comes from honoring your craft, knowing your worth, and staying true to personal values.
Whether you're a musician, creative professional, or simply someone navigating your own path to self-value, this conversation provides both practical wisdom and emotional resonance. Subscribe now to join a community exploring the full spectrum of human experience through the lens of Black men speaking their truths.

Opening quote by Stevie wonder

Opening and Closing Theme song: Produced by Dom L'Amour

Transition Music from Mad Chops Vol. 2 by Mad Keys

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from Piano Soul Vol.1(Loop Pack) by The Modern Producers Team

Featured song : "Domie" Preformed by Dom L'Amour

Cover art by Studio Mania: Custom Art @studiomania99

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Chapters

1. Too Nice to Be Successful (00:00:00)

2. Building Trust in the Atlanta Music Scene (00:05:30)

3. Lessons from Being Treated Like a "Hoe" (00:11:45)

4. The Power of Manifestation in Music (00:18:36)

5. Meeting Cleveland Jones and His Voice (00:26:13)

6. Facing Retirement as a Vocalist (00:30:11)

7. Finding Peace and Self-Acceptance (00:44:20)

8. Gratitude for Honest Connections (00:53:21)