Rise Above the Script: Why Your Brain Fights Your Biggest Breakthroughs a Conversation with Albert Bramante PhD
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Have you ever found yourself on the verge of a breakthrough only to sabotage your progress? You're not alone. In this deeply insightful conversation with Dr. Albert Bramante, performance psychologist, talent agent, and author of "Rise Above the Script," we explore the hidden narratives that keep even the most talented individuals stuck.
Our brains are hardwired for comfort and safety—evolutionary adaptations that once protected us but now hold us back. Dr. Bramante reveals why we often fear success more than failure: success disrupts our identity, changes our relationships, and brings new responsibilities. This explains why actors might self-sabotage before big auditions or why entrepreneurs sometimes retreat just as their business begins to flourish.
Dr. Bramante shares a revolutionary perspective on people-pleasing, exposing it as disguised neediness rather than genuine kindness. This pattern, often accompanied by passive-aggressive behavior, undermines our authenticity and ironically leads to less respect from others. As he explains, "You can't help others if your own tank is empty"—a powerful reminder that self-care forms the foundation for truly helping others.
We also examine how criticism affects us, why negative feedback stings so deeply, and practical strategies for strengthening your self-image. Dr. Bramante's approach to overcoming procrastination offers a refreshing alternative to waiting until you feel "ready." By taking imperfect action and breaking goals into manageable steps, you can bypass the perfectionism trap that keeps so many talented people stuck.
Whether you're a creative professional, business leader, or someone who knows they're capable of more, this episode will help you identify the scripts running your life and give you practical tools to rewrite them. As Dr. Bramante reminds us, "You have all the answers within. You really have the strength within, and sometimes you just need someone to help you find that."
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Chapters
1. 30 Second Intro (00:00:00)
2. Main (00:00:30)
3. 30 Second Outro (00:03:00)
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