181: Kait’s Story | Fertility Struggles, A Surviving Twin, + “What Could Have Been”

The Rare Life

When Kait Parrish found out she was pregnant with twins, she imagined matching outfits, sibling giggles, and the life she had always dreamed of. Instead, at 24 weeks, she gave birth to two fragile babies fighting for survival in the NICU. Then, two weeks later, she lost one of them.

In this raw and deeply personal episode, Kait shares the heartbreak of losing Avery, the terrifying rollercoaster of Addie’s early medical battles, and how her perspective on parenting shifted when she became pregnant again. We also talk about the complexity of raising a medically complex child alongside a non-disabled sibling, and the emotions that come with it all.

From NICU trauma to navigating life after loss, Kait’s story is one of resilience, heartbreak, and unexpected love. If you’ve ever felt like your parenting journey didn’t go as planned, you’ll find so much to relate to here.

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