131: Dating a Colleague: Smart Move or Office Drama?
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Is it ever okay to date a colleague or is that just asking for drama?
In this episode of The Rosie & Roula Show, we dive into the messy, juicy, and often-secret world of workplace romance a topic that’s still considered taboo (and sometimes even banned in contracts).
We explore:
- The risks of dating at work: power imbalances, favoritism & HR “rules”
- Gossip, judgment, and whether workplace love should stay secret or go public
- Why office relationships happen naturally when we spend most of our lives with colleagues
- Personal stories—including how Roula’s “just a fling” at work turned into marriage
Whether you’ve been in one, are thinking about it, or just curious, this conversation unpacks the stigma, the struggles, and the joy of falling for someone at work.
💡 Spoiler: Real life doesn’t follow HR guidelines. And if the best person for you is sitting at the next desk… are you really going to let company policy stop you?
🎧 Tune in, and let us know: would you date a colleague?
Keywords
work romance, relationships, workplace dynamics, power imbalance, HR policies, dating at work, love stories, office relationships, taboo topics, personal experiences
Takeaways
- Work romances can be both exciting and risky.
- Power imbalances in workplace relationships are a real concern.
- People often spend more time with colleagues than anyone else.
- It's natural to develop feelings for coworkers.
- Secret relationships can add excitement but also stress.
- HR policies may create more risks than they mitigate.
- Work colleagues are often temporary in our lives.
- The judgment surrounding workplace relationships can be harsh.
- It's important to take responsibility for personal choices.
- Dating apps can lead to negative experiences compared to workplace connections.
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