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1 You're not supposed to be here and other Dad wisdom 29:22
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The world often feels rigged. And this episode is a wake-up call to recognize the barriers that exist for those who don’t fit the traditional mold. In this episode, which is a kind of tribute to my dear departed Dad, I recount some powerful lessons from the man who was a brilliant psychiatrist and my biggest champion. He taught me that if something feels off about the environment you’re in, it probably is—and it’s absolutely hella-not your fault. We dare to break into the uncomfortable truth that many workplaces are designed for a very specific demographic, leaving neurodivergent individuals, particularly those on the autism spectrum, feeling excluded. I share three stories in which my Dad imparted to me more than my fair share of his wisdom, and I'm hoping you to can feel empowered. You'll learn that we can advocate for ourselves and others to create a more inclusive work culture. Newsletter Paste this into your browser if the newsletter link is broken - https://www.lbeehealth.com/ Join our Patreon - https://differentnotbrokenpodcast.com/patreon Mentioned in this episode: Sign Up For Our Newsletter Stay updated on all the things! Get added to our newsletter mailing list. Newsletter…
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When issues come up with tween and teens, how can we have conversations with them that help them feel safe to participate and work things through.
📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit
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In this episode we hear how to help a child who insists on being helped do things they are perfectly capable of doing themselves, and how to support them in finding ways to problem solve and build greater agency and competency. 📓 Discipline & Guidance Care Professionals Seminar ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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In this episode we explore why children cling on to a parent at bedtime and refuse to sleep unless they mom/dad/caregiver is laying next to them. As always we hear about ways to help this tendency that mainly relate to establishing times of connection throughout the day. 📓 Discipline & Guidance Care Professionals Seminar ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #259: Plan B - Helping Tweens & Teens Adjust 10:19
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In this episode we explore how to help tween and teens develop a plan for when things go wrong and how to adjust in order to keep moving towards their goal. 📓 Discipline & Guidance Care Professionals Seminar ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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In this episode we explore how to sense when the moment is right to give a simple day-to-day instruction, or to have one of “those” talks that every parent need to do from time to time. 📓 Discipline & Guidance Care Professionals Training ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #257: Restraint Collapse After the School Day 17:33
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In this episode we discuss the concept of restraint collapse and the need for decompression points to help children manage their stress. Kim also emphasizes the importance of setting up a predictable and structured after-school rhythms to ease restraint collapse. Additionally, Kim suggested incorporating decompression points and providing a calm environment to help children manage their stress and anxiety during the school day. 📓 Discipline & Guidance Care Professionals Training ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #256: Talking Through Things With Tween & Teens 10:45
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When issues come up with tween and teens, how can we have conversations with them that help them feel safe to participate and work things through. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store
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In this episode we explore why children can enlarge their accounts of what happened when things went wrong. We break it down to three tendencies and what we can do to help a child gain a better and more accurate perspective of what happened and how we can work through the trouble spots events to a better understanding. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #254: Why Kids Whine & What We Can Do To Shift the Habit 11:44
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Kids who relentlessly complain and whine can often get on a parents nerves no matter how well balanced we are. In this episode we explore why kids whine and what we can do to help them move beyond this habit to feel more seen, heard and connected to a parent. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #253: Turn Hurting Into Helping & Healing Words & Action 13:39
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In this episode we explore how to shift hurtful words and actions by calling up the helpful and healing moments that a child, tween or teen brought to those around them, and how this helps us stay well oriented and regulated even in difficult parenting moments. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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In this episode we explore how to prevent over-helping a child clean up their toys and projects, and how this helps them develop agency and competence that will serve them throughout life. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #251: Talking About Feelings for Children Tweens & Teens 11:44
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In this episode we will explore how to talk to children, tweens and teens about their big feelings. We’ll see a simple model that shows you how to guide a young child so that they can ground their feelings and a teen be able to better understand their strong emotions, and by doing so you build a stronger attachment bridge and feeling connection with you child. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #250: Interview with Steve Biddulph Part Three 21:56
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In the last of this three part series Steve walks us through the skill of conversing with this hidden part of yourself that can help with almost any dilemma or situation. You can teach it to small children. It can help a teenager’s confidence or sense of direction. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #249: Interview with Steve Biddulph Part Two 14:38
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In this follow up episode of our special three part series Steve takes us further into how we can use the Wild Creature Mind to and overcome stress, convert anxiety and heal trauma in childhood ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #248: Interview with Steve Biddulph Part One 28:01
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In this first episode of a special three-part series, Kim John Payne sits down with renowned author and parenting expert Steve Biddulph to talk about his latest book, Wild Creature Mind . This series feels less like an interview and more like a fireside chat between good friends. It is full of warmth, wisdom, and practical insights ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #247: We Can't Prevent the Darkness But We Can Grow Our Kids in the Light 9:48
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In this episode, Kim explores the profound benefits of providing children and teens with a simple, balanced life - one that serves as a foundation they can rely on when life’s inevitable challenges arise in young adulthood and beyond. 🍎 Simplicity Parenting Coach Training 📓 Family Life Care Professionals Training ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #246: What To Do When You Don't Know What To Do 11:42
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In this episode, Kim explores what to do when you’re unsure how to respond to a child’s frustration. He also discusses how to help a child trust their own feelings and experiences, ultimately deepening their trust in you. 🍎 Simplicity Parenting Coach Training 📓 Family Life Care Professionals Training ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #245: Why Little Kids Can Get Disruptive in Play & What You Can Do 22:10
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In this episode, Kim explores the developmental stages of play and why children can become disruptive as they move into a new phase of their social play ability. He also shares two very simple and doable ways to ease problematic interactions by slowing down the play. 🍎 Simplicity Parenting Coach Training 📓 Family Life Care Professionals Training ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #244: Simple Holidays: A Survival Guide No.4 11:35
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In this episode of the Simplicity Parenting Podcast, Kim tackles two common holiday challenges. First, he offers insights into understanding and easing sibling tensions that can flare up when kids spend more time together. Then, Kim explores how to keep screen time from creeping upward during the holiday break, sharing practical tips for fostering genuine human connections instead of relying on devices. 📚 Simple Holidays: A Survival Guide ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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In this episode Kim dives into two essential themes to help you navigate the holiday season in our Simple Holidays: A Survival Guide. First, Kim explores how to let children enjoy the special moments of the holidays without making it feel like one long photo shoot. He discusses the importance of rationalizing the number of photos and videos we take of our children during the Holiday Season, ensuring that we capture memories without overwhelming the experience. Next, Kim reviews strategies to keep holiday gifting under control. He shares tips on preparing children for gift-giving, setting realistic expectations, and how to keep gift giving real. 📚 Simple Holidays: A Survival Guide ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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In this episode Kim continues to introduce our Simple Holidays: A Survival Guide . For many of us there is a lot more travel around this time of the year. He explores how to prepare for the increased amount of travel time that many families have during the Holiday Season. 📚 Simple Holidays: A Survival Guide ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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In this episode we introduce our Simple Holidays: A Survival Guide . It is a wonderful little collection of podcasts curated by Kim. It provides practical advice and thoughtful strategies to help families manage the unique challenges they experience during the holidays. Kim also speaks about how to navigate the potential intensity of more closely confined time with extended family members during the holidays. 📚 Simple Holidays: A Survival Guide ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #240: Play That Prepares Kids for the World That's Coming 10:54
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The podcast explores... In the polarizing and fragmenting world that lies ahead for our kids they are going to need an ability to pull it all together and to be inwardly organized. “Scripting" is a imaginative play stage that builds these brain capacities. However, the intrusion of fixed overly formed toys and screens is inhibiting the development of these crucial skills. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #239: Trying to Get it Right VS Getting it Right 9:45
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The podcast explores... Living in a value based home is so strengthened when we embrace failure as well as success. It is an essential part of a strong family culture that avoids perfectionism and welcomes doing our best. ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #238: Being a Calm Presence When Our Kids Are In Good Shape 11:02
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The podcast explores... Hanging out with our kids when they are doing ordinary things like homework, playing, or listening to music helps normalize our presence so that we can calmly sit with them when a difficult family situation needs a moment to calm down. 🍎 Emotional Resilient Tweens and Teens ❤️ Support the Podcast 📑 Simplicity Parenting Starter Kit 📲 Request a Consultation with Kim John Payne 📚 Simplicity Parenting Book Store…
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1 #237: Why Overtalking to Kids Makes Them Feel Unsafe 9:11
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1 #236: Times of Developmental Change - The Maturity Immaturity Flip Flop 10:24
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1 #235: Five Way To Help Children Do Chores & Home Care 10:27
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1 #234: Helping a Child When They Are Deliberately Provocative 15:28
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1 #233: Helping Children Tune Into Their Inner Messages - Letting Them Be a Little Thirsty or Hungry 12:42
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1 #232: Why? Why? Why? Persistent Questions and What They Really Mean 7:50
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1 #231: Boundaries - Upset Kids Are Emotionally Vulnerable Kids 7:30
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1 #230: Boundaries - Clarify Family Values & Signal to a Child They Are Safe 12:19
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1 #229: Focusing on the Abundance or a LowNo Screen Life Rather Than the Deficit of Not Having Unlimited Screen 10:47
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1 #228: Keeping Stories Special and How to Use Online Story Apps 12:21
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1 #227: The More You Cooperate the More Freedom You Get - The Brain Science and Talking to Tweens & Teens 14:30
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1 #226: Emotional Self Regulation Series - Part Three - Being on the Balcony While Being on the Dance Floor 9:57
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1 #225: Emotional Self Regulation Series - Part Two - The Blacksmiths Forge of Parenting 9:45
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1 #224: Emotional Self Regulation Series - Part One - Open Up Space 13:57
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1 #223: [ special ] Interview with Melanie Hempe 48:00
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1 #222: Separating Being Work Up From the Right Time to Working it Out 11:34
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1 #221: Raising Value Based Kids So They Know When They Cross the Line 10:12
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1 #220: Denying Lying Blaming is Often a Signal That a Child is Overwhelmed - And What We Can Do To Help 12:56
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1 #219: Kids Not Listening to Instructions - Say Backs & Do Backs 10:49
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1 #218: Play Difficulties & Arguments - Dialing Back Through the Play Stages 15:09
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1 #217: Sleep Difficulties - Wake Ups & Nightmares 16:47
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