Don't Resent Your Introversion

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Why do so many of us get nervous when public speaking? Communication expert Lawrence Bernstein says the key to dealing with the pressure is as simple as having a casual chat. He introduces the "coffee shop test" as a way to help you overcome nerves, connect with your audience and deliver a message that truly resonates. After the talk, Modupe explains a similar approach in academia called the "Grandma test," and how public speaking can be as simple as a conversation with grandma. Want to help shape TED’s shows going forward? Fill out our survey ! Become a TED Member today at ted.com/join Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.…

25 days ago 5:23

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The episode discusses how many introverts experience resentment because they feel their introversion holds them back. This feeling often stems from societal misconceptions and the negative portrayal of introversion in culture. The episode emphasizes the importance of embracing one’s true nature and seeing introverted traits as strengths rather than constraints. It encourages introverts to be vocal about their needs, such as requiring breaks between meetings or needing agendas in advance, to function at their best. The key message is to build a supportive environment and recognize that introversion can be an asset rather than a limitation.

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Don't Resent Your Introversion

The Traveling Introvert

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published 25 days ago

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343 episodes

#Business #Digitalnomad #Onlinework #Lifestyle #Janice Chaka #The Career Introvert #Travel #Careers #Entrepreneur #Introverts

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The Traveling Introvert

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Leading Without a Title 5:16

4 days ago5:16

5:16

This episode explores the true meaning of leadership, emphasizing that it's more about trust than titles, authority, or formal positions. Leadership can be demonstrated by anyone—regardless of whether they hold an official leadership role—through consistent, thoughtful actions and integrity, especially during challenging times. The episode highlights how introverts often lead not by dominating, but by quietly building trust and guiding others with care and clear communication. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on how they want others to feel when being led, the types of leadership they respond to, and what qualities or actions in leaders they find unhelpful or exclusionary. Ultimately, leadership is presented as something you embody through authenticity and self-knowledge, rather than something you simply pursue for status.…

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Guarding Your Leadership Energy 5:11

11 days ago5:11

5:11

This episode focuses on the importance of protecting your energy as an essential part of leadership, especially for introverts. It highlights how taking on leadership roles often brings increased visibility, more meetings, and greater decision-making demands, which can be particularly draining for those who thrive in quieter, more focused environments. To manage this, the episode suggests creating personal systems to safeguard your capacity, such as blocking out time for deep work, leaving space between meetings, and practicing saying no to avoid overcommitment. The importance of honoring your energy as much as any other work commitment is emphasized. Listeners are encouraged to identify what tasks, people, or situations drain their energy and why, as well as what restores it. Reflecting on physical sensations of stress and the impact on productivity helps in understanding when to step back and create breathing room. The episode wraps up by reminding listeners that effective leadership comes from taking care of one’s own energy first.…

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The Hidden Flaws of Workplace Personality Testing 5:16

18 days ago5:16

5:16

This episode discusses the misuse of personality tests in organizations, especially when they're used as gatekeepers in the hiring process rather than as tools for understanding team dynamics and individual strengths. Many companies have begun using these tests to filter candidates early on, potentially overlooking qualified individuals simply because their test results don't fit a certain mold. This often disadvantages introverts and those whose personalities don't match the perceived ideal. The real value of personality tests should be to help managers understand how people think, set goals, and collaborate—not to make hiring or promotion decisions. Misapplying these tests can lead to missed opportunities for diversity, reduced morale, and a disconnect between test results and actual capabilities. Ultimately, organizations should avoid using personality tests as a shortcut for meaningful interviews and instead use them thoughtfully to better support their teams.…

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Don't Resent Your Introversion 5:23

25 days ago5:23

5:23

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Navigating Feedback: When You're Called 'Too Quiet' 5:21

5 weeks ago5:21

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In the latest episode of "The Traveling Introvert," the issue of being labeled as "too quiet" in professional settings is explored. The feedback of being too quiet can have various interpretations, such as communication style, engagement level, or visibility in the workplace. It's crucial to ask specific questions to understand the real concern, whether it's a matter of not speaking up in meetings or not being visible enough in projects. The episode encourages a curious and non-defensive approach when seeking clarity on feedback, emphasizing the importance of understanding the expectations and measurements used at work. Constructive conversations can then lead to a compromise that allows introverts to communicate authentically while meeting workplace expectations.…

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Creating Calm With Personal Travel Rituals 5:10

6 weeks ago5:10

5:10

In this episode of The Traveling Introvert, the topic of discussion is travel rituals and their significance. The host highlights how rituals provide stability and comfort amidst the uncertainties of travel. Examples of travel rituals include always staying in the same hotel brand for familiarity, selecting the same seat on a plane, or visiting a favorite cafe. Travel rituals can be small habits that make journeys feel special, like packing in advance, double-checking flight details, and using apps like FlightAware for notifications. Personalized routines, like having a specific travel outfit or consistently repacking after security, enhance feelings of safety and reduce stress. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their travel habits and consider adopting new rituals that bring joy and calmness to their travels.…

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Understanding Different Thought Processes in the Workplace 5:10

7 weeks ago5:10

5:10

In this episode of "The Traveling Introvert," the discussion focuses on the different ways introverts and extroverts process information. Introverts typically prefer to think before speaking, processing information internally, and often need time and a quiet environment to fully absorb and understand new information. They thrive in situations that allow for deep, focused thinking without interruptions. On the other hand, extroverts often process information by thinking out loud, refining their ideas through dynamic discussions and real-time engagement with others. They gain energy from social interactions and are most effective in fast-paced, energetic settings. The episode also highlights the importance of understanding these differences to improve communication, reduce frustration, and make interactions smoother across various environments.…

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Preparing for Your Next Long Haul Adventure 5:24

8 weeks ago5:24

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In this episode, listeners are provided with handy tips for making long haul flights more comfortable and manageable. Key suggestions include changing into fresh clothes between flights to mentally reset, avoiding wide-leg pants due to unsanitary bathroom floors, and wearing scrubs for their comfort and practicality. The idea of keeping essential items like a passport, wallet, and phone in a convenient pocket or bum bag is emphasized for emergencies. Traveling over multiple time zones can wreak havoc on your sleep schedule, for which the Time Shifter app is recommended—though its effectiveness falters with flight delays. Physical well-being is addressed with advice on pre-flight massages and in-flight stretches, especially drawing the alphabet with your feet to maintain circulation. Staying hydrated is crucial, though it means more bathroom trips, leading to the preference of aisle seats for easy access. Food on flights can be hit or miss, so bringing favorite snacks or meals, like non-perishable curry puffs, can provide comfort. To pass long hours in the sky, it's suggested to divide the flight into time segments filled with movies, reading, decluttering digital devices, or engaging in personal projects and daydreaming. A variety of entertainment options, like podcasts, audiobooks, eBooks, or traditional books, can also help make the time fly by.…

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Creating Your Ultimate In-Flight Comfort Kit 5:40

9 weeks ago5:40

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In this episode of "The Traveling Introvert," the host discusses the concept of a "comfort bag" for long-haul flights, which involve flights lasting from 8 to 20 hours. The idea is to have a bag with essential items to keep comfortable during the flight, especially considering limited space and movement. Important items for a comfort bag include noise-canceling headphones, compression socks, travel sickness tablets, and hydration aids like Liquid I.V. The host also suggests bringing a Kindle, sudoku book, lip balm, and antibacterial wipes and gel. Personal preferences like LEGO sets, earplugs for sinus issues, and a foot hammock for short people are also discussed. The episode emphasizes the importance of customizing the comfort bag based on individual needs for optimal comfort during long-haul travel.…

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Mastering Self-Advocacy for Introverts at Work 5:40

10 weeks ago5:40

5:40

This episode of The Traveling Introvert offers practical strategies for introverts to advocate for themselves in the workplace. Emphasizing the importance of self-advocacy, it suggests techniques like keeping a "success visibility portfolio" to track achievements and utilizing "I statements" to communicate one's value. Listeners are encouraged to build confidence, express their ideas clearly and concisely, and seek constructive feedback. By setting clear goals and creating an action plan, introverts can successfully ensure their contributions are recognized and further their careers, reminding themselves that advocacy is a continuous journey, not a single destination.…

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Coaching That Fits Your Life 5:28

11 weeks ago5:28

5:28

Asynchronous coaching offers flexibility and convenience, allowing both the coach and the client to communicate and exchange ideas without having to meet at the same time. This method is particularly beneficial for introverts, as it provides ample time to process, reflect, and respond thoughtfully. It alleviates the pressure of instant replies that come with real-time calls, helping avoid Zoom fatigue and allowing participants to engage in the conversation at their own pace and environment, whether it's while pacing in the kitchen or lighting a candle. Moreover, clients can revisit short voice notes for clarity and confidence boosts, unlike hour-long calls. This style suits busy professionals or people with varying needs and commitments, enabling them to integrate coaching into their lives without having to carve out large, rigid time slots. Asynchronous coaching supports a more personalized experience and can lead to deeper insights and breakthroughs when conversations can flow naturally without time constraints. Lastly, clients can control how quickly they consume the coaching material, listening at their preferred speed.…

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Embracing Self-Compassion in Your Career 5:16

12 weeks ago5:16

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In this episode of The Traveling Introvert, the importance of practicing self-compassion, especially within one's career, is emphasized. Self-compassion involves treating oneself with the same kindness and understanding one would offer a good friend. Many people mistakenly believe that being hard on themselves will drive them to achieve more, but research shows that self-compassion actually fosters greater motivation and resilience. By creating a supportive environment, individuals can learn from their mistakes and progress. Key practices include self-kindness, recognizing common humanity, and cultivating mindfulness. Techniques like self-compassionate writing and being mindful of self-talk can help individuals internalize a kinder voice, ultimately leading to personal and professional growth.…

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Crafting Your Career Network 5:14

13 weeks ago5:14

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The episode emphasizes the importance of building a support system to achieve career success. It suggests having a network of people who can provide emotional, professional, and informational support. This network can include peers, mentors, colleagues, friends, and family members. The host advises maintaining regular communication with these individuals to keep them informed about your accomplishments and career developments. Additionally, joining online or offline communities relevant to your work can be beneficial. This support system can help address any knowledge gaps and provide guidance, ultimately serving as champions for your career progress.…

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Defining Your Finish Line 5:21

14 weeks ago5:21

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The podcast episode discusses various strategies for effective goal setting and tracking. It emphasizes the importance of defining a specific finish line for goals, to make it clear when a goal has been achieved. Visualization techniques involving the five senses can enhance the goal-setting process, providing clarity and motivation. Tracking goals can be done using tools like project management software, journals, or creative methods such as bingo cards. It's important to categorize goals into short, medium, and long-term and find a tracking method that works best for the individual. The episode also highlights the role of accountability partners in maintaining motivation and discipline. Additionally, the flexibility to adjust goals is crucial, allowing for reassessment and modifications based on circumstances. Starting with small, achievable goals and expanding from there helps build confidence, and approaches to goal-setting should be personalized.…

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Exploring Different Brainstorming Techniques 5:11

15 weeks ago5:11