464: How to Welcome Your College Kid Home Well

Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

Your college student has changed—and so has your family. In today’s episode, Karen and Emily talk about preparing for the emotional and practical realities of having a college student return home for the summer. From setting clear expectations to embracing the growth in your child, you'll walk away with practical tips (and encouragement) to navigate this bittersweet transition with grace!

Episode Recap:

3:45 - Karen shares how re-entry was with different kids coming home from college

8:08- How can I temper my expectations before my kiddo comes home?

11:05 - Encourage your college student to get a job!

13:00 - How do we prepare our younger kids for their sibling’s reentry?

15:52 - What’s reasonable to ask of my college kid while they’re home?

21:34 - Is it ok for me to tell my college kid how their actions made me feel? If so, what’s the best way to do that?

25:19 - We have to allow our children to grow and learn on their own because God is at work in their lives. Don’t try to smooth the road out for them, let them learn.

Scripture for Reflection: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV)
"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens."

Questions for Discussion:

1. How has your family dynamic changed since your child left for college?
2. What expectations do you need to reset—both for yourself and for your college student—before they return home?
3. How can you communicate boundaries and responsibilities clearly without treating your college student like a child?
4. In what ways can you celebrate and embrace who your child is becoming as a young adult?

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