465: What Moms Really Want on Mother’s Day

Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

Mother’s Day can be sweet, stressful, or just plain disappointing—sometimes all at once! In today’s episode, Karen and Emily get real about unmet expectations, social media comparison, and the emotional weight this day can carry. They also share stories from their own celebrations—some simple, some funny, and some that didn’t go as planned. Whether you're anticipating brunch with your people or dreading a day that feels heavy, this conversation will remind you: it’s okay to name what you need and celebrate in a way that feels meaningful to you.

Episode Recap:
1:37 - Mother’s Day can be a mixed bag of emotions
3:35- There’s a lot of pressure surrounding celebrating well
7:00- Social media can quickly steal your joy
9:05 - How can we communicate what we want for Mother’s Day effectively?
12:30 - What if you want a special day but you know your family won’t plan anything?
16:21 - How do you navigate a difficult Mother’s Day?

Scripture for Reflection: Romans 12:15 (NIV)
“Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.”

Questions for Discussion:

1. What emotions does Mother’s Day bring up for you this year—joy, sorrow, both?
2. Have you ever been disappointed by an unmet expectation on this day? What did you learn from it?
3. What would your ideal Mother’s Day actually look like—and how can you communicate that clearly?
4. How can you support another mom who may be hurting or overwhelmed this year?

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