When Nothing Calms You Down
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You’ve tried breathing. You’ve tried journaling. But your body is still in full-on panic mode. This episode is for the moments when anxiety feels physical, overwhelming, and out of control. I’ll teach you a powerful strategy rooted in psychology and personal experience. Learn how to stop fueling the anxiety spiral and how to apply this skill in the middle of a sleepless night or a high-stakes performance.
You’ll learn:
• Why physical anxiety symptoms persist—and how to respond differently
• What chronic pain researchers teach us about emotional suffering
• The counterintuitive power of saying “yes” to how you feel
• Ways to practice this skill before you need it
Timestamps
00:30 – When the anxiety won’t go away
02:51 – Example 1: Nighttime panic
04:48 – “I’m terrified—and that’s okay”: using full-body emotional surrender
08:02 – What chronic pain science teaches us about anxiety
10:31 – Example 2: Performance anxiety panic
17:08 – Practicing acceptance in low-stakes moments
19:06 – Kindness Narrative: A grandfather’s compassion for animals
Submit Your Kindness Narrative:
Share a moment of kindness that moved you or changed you. Email your story (written or audio) to [email protected] or DM me on Instagram @CalmYourCaveman.
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Chapters
1. When Nothing Calms You Down (00:00:00)
2. When the anxiety won’t go away (00:00:30)
3. Example 1: Nighttime panic (00:02:51)
4. “I’m terrified—and that’s okay”: using full-body emotional surrender (00:04:48)
5. What chronic pain science teaches us about anxiety (00:08:02)
6. Example 2: Performance anxiety panic (00:10:31)
7. Practicing acceptance in low-stakes moments (00:17:08)
8. Kindness Narrative: A grandfather’s compassion for animals (00:19:06)
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