Episode 11.02 - Kid's Version - Don't Expect You from Others

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Hosted by Adam Kotowski and Megan Rose McMullen, MS, this podcast is a space for parents and kids to explore mental health, personal growth, and the power of storytelling. Each episode dives into lessons on emotional resilience, confidence, and how to become the hero of your own story—featuring characters from your favorite movies, shows, and games. No matter what challenge you're facing, Capes & Conversations is here to remind you: you are not alone.

🛡️ Episode 11.02 – Kid’s Version: Don’t Expect You from Others

🕒 Episode Length: 14 minutes 37 seconds

🎙️ Bio:

Have you ever been frustrated that someone didn’t understand you? Or felt like your parents expected you to be perfect? In this episode, Adam and Megan explore what happens when we expect others to think, act, or feel the same way we do—and why that can cause a lot of unnecessary stress.

Using examples from Encanto, Sherlock Holmes, Star Wars, and more, this episode reminds us that perfection isn’t real—but perspective is. Learning how to accept yourself (even when others don’t fully “get” you) is one of the greatest superpowers you can build.

🔎 Episode Breakdown:

🎯 Core Themes:

• Perfection isn’t the goal—progress is.
• Expecting people to act or think like us causes disappointment.
• You don’t need to earn acceptance—being yourself is enough.
• Confidence in who you are helps reduce bullying and pressure.
• You have the power to write your own story, your own way.

🧠 Key Takeaways:

• Like Maribel in Encanto, many kids feel unseen when expectations are too high—but that doesn’t mean you aren’t valuable.
• People who expect a lot from you usually care—but you don’t need to be perfect to be loved.
• Everyone has their own strengths, timelines, and ways of learning. Be patient with yourself.
• The people who succeed are usually the ones who keep showing up—even when things aren’t easy.
• When you stop expecting others to “get it,” you gain freedom and peace.

🛠️ Tools & Frameworks:

• “D = A – M” → Discouragement = Adversity – Meaning
  If you’re feeling discouraged, try finding the meaning in what you're learning.
• Growth Mindset Reminder – Skills can be learned. You don’t need to be good right away.
• The “Shoot for the Moon” Mindset – Aim high and you'll still land somewhere amazing.
• Rebel with a Cause – Being different isn’t wrong. It’s powerful when it's tied to purpose.

📞 Resources:

• Got a superhero, situation, or question you want us to talk about?
  You can send it to us anonymously through the GEWC website and we might feature it in a future episode!
• Need support working through emotions, friendships, or family stuff? Ask your parent or guardian to schedule a session with us at Grundy Eunoia—we’re here for you.

🌀 Reflection Prompt:

“If you stopped trying to be perfect for others and started being your real self… what would change?”

🎁 Message to Kids:

You don’t need to be like anyone else to matter. Your story, your heart, and your unique superpowers are more than enough. When you show up as your true self, you make space for others to do the same—and that’s what real confidence looks like.

🔗 Support Our Mission:

As a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, Grundy Eunoia Wellness Center ensures every child has access to mental health services, mentorship, and guidance—regardless of financial status. Want to help another kid find their confidence? Sponsorship and donation links are in the show notes, on our website, and through our social media pages.

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