The Birthday Blues: Aging, Anxiety & Learning to Love Your Face with Kat Parks

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What happens when the birthday girl doesn't want to celebrate? In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Giana confesses her unexpected anxiety about turning 34, while birthday enthusiast Kat Parks tries to reignite her excitement. Together, they peel back the layers of what makes birthdays both magical and terrifying as we age.
The discussion ventures into unexpectedly deep territory as both women reflect on how COVID disrupted our celebration of major life milestones. "I didn't even have time to process turning 30 because the world was on fire," Giana admits, capturing the disorientation many felt during those years. This leads to a broader exploration of how millennials are rewriting the rulebook on traditional life markers like marriage, careers, and family planning.
Birthday horror stories bring both laughter and winces – from Kat's traumatic seventh birthday (complete with knocked-out teeth and only one friend showing up) to Gianna's bedbug-infested 30th that left her sobbing in Target aisles. These experiences reveal how birthdays often carry outsized expectations and the potential for both profound disappointment and unexpected joy.
The conversation takes a powerful turn when addressing beauty standards and authenticity. Both women candidly critique the prevalence of filters, especially among wellness influencers preaching self-acceptance while presenting digitally altered versions of themselves. "If you're telling people to love themselves while using filters – what exactly is your message?" Giana challenges. They discuss finding aging role models like Cameron Diaz and the revolutionary act of simply looking your age in today's world.
Whether you're dreading your next birthday or wondering why turning another year older feels so complicated, this episode offers solace, humor, and a powerful reminder that accepting ourselves exactly as we are might be the greatest gift we can give ourselves. Check out Kat's "Find Your Face Freedom" program if you're ready to see yourself in a new way by summer's end.

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Chapters

1. Welcome to Nearly Enlightened Podcast (00:00:00)

2. Birthday Blues: Not Excited About Turning 34 (00:01:44)

3. COVID's Impact on Life's Milestones (00:06:12)

4. Self-Reflection and Refinement in Your 30s (00:09:35)

5. Societal Pressures and Aging Expectations (00:19:17)

6. Birthday Horror Stories and Celebrations (00:28:00)

7. The Bedbug Birthday Nightmare (00:40:23)

8. The Problem with Filters and Authenticity (00:48:00)

9. Finding Natural Aging Role Models (00:57:10)

10. Find Your Face Freedom Program (00:59:33)