How to Get More of What You Want in Your Relationship (Without Begging for It)

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It’s not about begging. It’s not about arguing. There’s a better way.
If you’ve ever felt frustrated trying to get your needs met in your relationship — and it ends in a fight, shutdown, or awkward silence — this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, we’re breaking down:

Why traditional "demand" communication often backfires (even if you're right!)
How to shift toward mutual collaboration instead of pushing or people-pleasing
A simple, 3-part communication tool you can use right away to help your partner actually want to say "yes" to you

I’m also sharing real-world examples from clients who have learned how to shift the energy from resentment and reactivity... to teamwork and connection.

You’ll walk away with:
✅ A mindset shift that puts you and your partner on the same team
✅ A simple sentence starter to use when making requests
✅ More confidence to speak up for what you want — without guilt, shutdown, or drama

Bottom Line:
You can get more of what you want — and build a stronger relationship — when you know how to ask for it the right way. Let's dive in!

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How to Get More of What You Want in Your Relationship (Without Begging for It)

Relationship Reset: Reignite, Reconnect, Rebuild

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In today’s conversation, we’re breaking down:

Why traditional "demand" communication often backfires (even if you're right!)
How to shift toward mutual collaboration instead of pushing or people-pleasing
A simple, 3-part communication tool you can use right away to help your partner actually want to say "yes" to you

I’m also sharing real-world examples from clients who have learned how to shift the energy from resentment and reactivity... to teamwork and connection.

Bottom Line:
You can get more of what you want — and build a stronger relationship — when you know how to ask for it the right way. Let's dive in!

Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples

Couples Goal Setting Workbook
Level 10 Relationship Assessment
Submit a Dear Katie episode question
Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram

109 episodes

#Fitness #Self-Improvement #Mental Health #Katie Rössler #Balance #Work Life Balance #Time Management #Burnout #Society #Relationship #Podcasting Education #Prioritize #Self Care #High Achievers

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How Perimenopause Impacts Your Relationship 34:07

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Send us a text In this insightful and empowering conversation, Katie Rössler sits down with Dr. Colette White, a UK-trained gynecologist specializing in menopause and perimenopause care, currently practicing privately in Germany and across Europe. Together, they dive deep into the often misunderstood and under-discussed world of perimenopause and menopause, dismantling myths, clarifying medical definitions, and advocating for women's health rights. Dr. White opens up about her own rocky experience navigating perimenopause—despite her medical background—and the frustrating responses she received from the healthcare system. Her personal journey led to the creation of a medical practice that prioritizes informed, individualized, and proactive care for women experiencing hormonal shifts. This episode is a must-listen for any woman in her 30s, 40s, or 50s who feels dismissed, confused, or overwhelmed when it comes to her changing body. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too young” for hormone treatment or left your doctor’s office with more questions than answers, you are not alone—and there is a better way. In This Episode, We Cover: Dr. White’s journey from the UK to Germany and what inspired her to open her own practice Why so many women feel dismissed when they bring up perimenopause symptoms What perimenopause and menopause actually are—definitions, timing, and signs Common misconceptions about hormone therapy and its long-term health benefits The cultural and systemic gaps in menopause education across Europe and beyond How to advocate for your health and find the right care, even in frustrating systems Resources Shared During the Podcast: Dr. Mary Claire Haver Dr. Kelly Casperson Dr. Louise Newson Dr. Karen Gurney OMGYes.com About Our Guest: Dr. Colette White is a gynecologist with advanced training in menopause management. Now based in Germany, she provides private consultations to women across Europe, specializing in the treatment of perimenopause and menopause symptoms. Passionate about education and empowerment, she’s on a mission to shift the narrative around hormonal health and help women access the care they deserve. Connect with Dr. Colette White: Website Instagram Takeaway for Listeners: If you’re feeling gaslit by your body or your doctor, it’s time to reclaim your power. Understanding perimenopause is the first step toward feeling like yourself again—and you don’t have to do it alone. Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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Should I Stay or Should I Go? 15:50

10 days ago15:50

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Send us a text In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Katie tackles a question that many long-term couples eventually face but few feel safe admitting: “Should I stay, or should I go?” Whether you’ve whispered it in your mind or said it out loud during a fight, this question often arises not because your relationship is doomed—but because you’re evolving. Katie invites listeners to look beyond the surface of dissatisfaction and ask deeper, more personal questions about happiness, identity, and the cost of compromise. You’ll learn: Why this question doesn’t always mean you need to leave your partner The hidden reasons we feel discontent—even when life looks “fine” How overwhelm, control, and people-pleasing create silent resentment What you might really be asking yourself beneath “Should I stay?” How to tell the difference between growth-pain and deal-breakers Through raw personal stories and powerful client reflections, Katie shines a light on how easily we lose ourselves in long-term relationships, especially when life is full of caregiving, stress, and endless responsibilities. This episode is a compassionate wake-up call and a guide for anyone standing at an emotional crossroads. In This Episode, Katie Shares: A mindset shift around the “stay or go” question Why avoidance of reflection leads to deeper relational divides How unspoken compromises can breed quiet resentment Why it's easier to blame your partner than sit with your own evolution Journal prompts to help you explore what you’ve lost, what you miss, and what you want to reclaim Listener Homework: 📝 Ask yourself: What parts of me have I lost in this relationship? What do I miss about myself? Where have I over-compromised or stayed silent? What do I truly want for the next decade of my life? Links & Resources: Book a free Map to Clarity Call with Katie HERE . Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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Dear Katie: He Wants More Sex Than Me 13:28

17 days ago13:28

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Send us a text In this episode of Dear Katie , we dive into a common challenge many couples face over the course of their relationship: navigating different levels of sexual desire. “Off Kilter,” a listener, reached out asking for advice on how to manage her and her husband’s differing sex drives after 20 years of marriage. She feels that their sexual connection often feels like a compromise, with neither partner fully getting what they need or want. If you or your partner have ever struggled with mismatched libido, this episode offers practical advice, grounded in psychological insights, to help you both reconnect and improve your intimacy. Key Points : Understanding the Dynamic : We start by acknowledging how mismatched sex drives often lead to frustration, feelings of inadequacy, and a lack of emotional connection. The desire to avoid "fake" intimacy, as Off Kilter shared, can create a barrier to open communication and intimacy. Psychological Insights : We discuss how men and women often approach intimacy differently. Men often seek connection through physical intimacy, while women may require emotional closeness first. This disconnect is more common than many realize, but understanding each other's needs can shift the dynamic. The Importance of Communication : Communication is key to navigating mismatched sexual desires. It’s essential to have an open and honest conversation about each partner’s needs, fears, and expectations, and not just during conflict. This means acknowledging the emotional aspect of intimacy rather than just the physical. Tools and Strategies for Reconnecting : Ask, Don’t Assume : Instead of expecting your partner to automatically know what you want, openly ask for it. A simple, direct approach works wonders. Compromise without Resentment : Understand that intimacy, including sex, can often be a compromise. Work together to find a middle ground where both partners feel seen and valued. Dealing with Sexual Burnout : For those like Off Kilter who feel "over-satiated" and have a hard time initiating sex, it’s important to set boundaries around intimacy and discuss openly when you’re feeling overwhelmed. Reigniting the spark often means balancing individual needs with the relationship’s needs. Finding Balance : Sex isn’t the only way to feel connected. Building emotional and mental closeness through simple acts of care and affection outside of the bedroom can go a long way toward improving sexual intimacy. Takeaway for Listeners : If you’re feeling like you and your partner are stuck in a cycle of “compromise” when it comes to sex, you’re not alone. Start by having a non-judgmental conversation about your desires, setting boundaries, and finding ways to connect emotionally. Understanding each other’s needs is the first step to making real changes in your sexual relationship. Call to Action : If you’re navigating similar issues in your relationship, it’s time to stop compromising your desires and start communicating better. Let’s dive deeper together! Book Your Relationship Game Plan Call HERE Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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How to Get More of What You Want in Your Relationship (Without Begging for It) 8:55

24 days ago8:55

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Send us a text It’s not about begging. It’s not about arguing. There’s a better way. If you’ve ever felt frustrated trying to get your needs met in your relationship — and it ends in a fight, shutdown, or awkward silence — this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, we’re breaking down: Why traditional "demand" communication often backfires (even if you're right!) How to shift toward mutual collaboration instead of pushing or people-pleasing A simple, 3-part communication tool you can use right away to help your partner actually want to say "yes" to you I’m also sharing real-world examples from clients who have learned how to shift the energy from resentment and reactivity... to teamwork and connection. You’ll walk away with: ✅ A mindset shift that puts you and your partner on the same team ✅ A simple sentence starter to use when making requests ✅ More confidence to speak up for what you want — without guilt, shutdown, or drama Bottom Line: You can get more of what you want — and build a stronger relationship — when you know how to ask for it the right way. Let's dive in! Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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The 3 Silent Killers of Relationships (And What to Do About Them) with Dr. Emma Smith 35:57

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Send us a text In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Smith—sex therapist, PhD, and real-talk relationship expert—to unpack the three silent forces that quietly erode relationships from the inside out: contempt, conflict avoidance, and unresolved trauma . If you’ve ever thought, “We used to be so close. What happened?” —this episode will help you understand not just the what, but the why. You’ll also walk away with real tools to stop the emotional disconnection in its tracks and start creating more intimacy, honesty, and repair. We’re talking subtle eye-rolls, the “I’m fine” shutdown, old trauma showing up in new arguments—and how to turn it all around. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why contempt is like a slow leak in a relationship—and what it sounds like in everyday interactions How conflict avoidance can make things worse, even if you think you're “keeping the peace” Why unresolved trauma shows up in the smallest arguments (think: milk left on the counter) How gender norms and emotional suppression play a role in how couples communicate Practical tools to shift from reactivity to curiosity—so you can actually start feeling close again A powerful reframe for reigniting desire and rediscovering your partner (even after years together) Homework: Picture your partner standing in line at a coffee shop. Someone behind them finds them attractive. What story is that stranger telling themselves about your partner? How would they start a conversation? What would they notice? Now—what would you say if you saw your partner through those same fresh eyes? Connect with Dr. Emma Smith: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emmasmithphd Email: emma@soliloquie.co Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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The Conversation You Need to Have With Your Partner About Sex 14:53

5 weeks ago14:53

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Send us a text In this episode, we dive deep into the topic that often gets avoided: sex and intimacy in long-term relationships. Whether you're in your 30s, 40s, or beyond, conversations about sex can feel like walking through a minefield. But it doesn't have to be that way. We break down why talking about sex is so hard, what’s actually happening in our bodies and minds, and most importantly, how to start the conversation in a way that brings you closer together instead of pushing you apart. What We Discuss in This Episode: Why Talking About Sex Is So Difficult: Understanding the layers of rejection, body image issues, and past experiences that can make sex conversations challenging. The Impact of Emotional and Mental Load on Libido: How stress, burnout, and life pressures affect desire and performance, and why it's essential to address these issues together. What’s Really Going On in the Bedroom: Changes in our bodies and desires as we age, and how unresolved emotional tension impacts intimacy. How to Normalize Talking About Sex: Tips on how to approach the topic with curiosity and compassion, making it a regular part of your relationship check-ins. Creating Emotional Safety: Why creating a safe space to talk about intimacy is crucial and how to honor each other's needs without blame or judgment. Stress, Sex, and Performance: How stress messes with libido and how to start reducing that pressure to reconnect. Practical Steps to Improve Your Intimacy: Actionable tips to initiate the conversation and create space for vulnerability and connection. Key Takeaways: Silence around sex can breed shame and distance, but starting the conversation with curiosity and compassion can rebuild intimacy. Emotional and mental stress often prevent us from feeling desire or performing in the bedroom. Acknowledge these pressures, and work together to ease the burden. Talking about sex doesn’t have to be awkward—it can become a natural part of your relationship rhythm if approached with care and openness. Vulnerability is key in these conversations. If you’re feeling disconnected, sharing your emotions and needs can create space for deeper intimacy. Next Steps: Journal Prompt Homework: Reflect on your own feelings around intimacy and your needs, then share your thoughts with your partner. This simple exercise can reset the emotional tone between you and your partner, paving the way for more open communication moving forward. Final Invitation: If you’ve been struggling to have these conversations with your partner, or if you feel like you’ve hit a wall, don’t do it alone. Book a free Relationship Game Plan Call with me—let’s create a safe space to talk about your intimacy and get back on track toward rebuilding the connection you both desire. Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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Can Fertility Challenges Bring You Closer Together? 42:11

6 weeks ago42:11

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Send us a text Welcome back to Relationship Reset! In today’s episode, I sit down with Abbe and Isaac Feder, a couple who has faced one of the most challenging journeys any couple can endure—infertility. They openly share their struggles, growth, and how their relationship evolved through these trying times. From their early days of friendship and dating to the heart-wrenching challenges of trying to conceive, Abbe and Isaac’s story is both inspiring and real. In this episode, we cover: How Abbe and Isaac met: Their chance meeting at a gay bar in West Hollywood, despite growing up in the same Jewish summer camp years earlier, and the serendipity of their connection. Attraction and compatibility: What drew Abbe and Isaac to each other, and how their shared values, humor, and understanding of each other’s backgrounds laid the foundation for their relationship. The early years: How their relationship moved quickly from friends to marriage in under two years, and the pace that worked for them. Marriage and challenges: A candid discussion of the challenges they faced early on, including the stress of trying to conceive and how that changed their dynamic as a couple. Infertility struggles: Abbe and Isaac dive deep into their infertility journey, explaining the emotional, mental, and physical toll it took on them both as individuals and as a couple. Growth through adversity: How they navigated the ups and downs together and the tools they used to stay connected and resilient through such a difficult time. About Abbe & Isaac Feder: Abbe and Isaac are an inspiring couple who, after a long journey with infertility, are now proud parents of two children. With backgrounds in acting and film, respectively, they bring their creative talents and strong communication skills to their personal life and marriage. Together, they have navigated some of life’s toughest challenges, sharing their experiences to help others going through similar struggles. Links and Resources: InCircle Fertility Resources Follow Abbe and Isaac on Instagram: www.instagram.com/abbefeder www.instagram.com/isaacjfeder Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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Dear Katie: I've Lost My Voice In My Marriage 20:18

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Send us a text Welcome back to Relationship Reset! In this special Dear Katie episode, we’re diving into a heartfelt letter from a listener who’s feeling invisible in her marriage. If you've ever moved abroad for your partner, felt the shift that parenthood brings to your relationship, or struggled with feeling unappreciated and disconnected, this episode is for you. Grab a warm drink (and maybe some tissues) as we unpack her story and explore ways to navigate these challenges. In this episode, we cover: How major life changes—moving abroad, career shifts, and becoming parents—can create emotional distance in relationships. The impact of feeling unseen and unheard in a marriage. Why partners sometimes don’t recognize or acknowledge relationship struggles. How our childhood experiences and unmet needs influence our relationships. Practical steps to reconnect and communicate effectively, even when your partner seems uninterested. Why This Matters: When one partner feels emotionally abandoned, it can be isolating and frustrating—especially when their concerns are dismissed. Understanding how our past influences our present can help us break unhealthy patterns and create deeper connections. Your Next Steps: ✅ Identify your unfinished business —what emotional patterns from your childhood might be playing out in your marriage? ✅ Reflect on how you’ve been expressing (or suppressing) your needs and emotions. ✅ Start small: Open up conversations with curiosity rather than blame. ✅ If direct conversations don’t work, consider subtle shifts in your own behavior to create change. ✅ Seek support—whether from friends, therapy, or self-reflection tools—to strengthen your sense of self-worth and clarity. Key Takeaway: We often marry our unfinished business, replaying old emotional patterns in our relationships. Recognizing this is the first step toward breaking cycles and rebuilding connection. Even when one partner seems disengaged, change can start with you —not by fixing them, but by understanding yourself better. Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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The Key to Healthy Arguing 13:47

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Send us a text Welcome back to Relationship Reset! Ever wonder why one of you gets frustrated at the drop of a hat while the other stays completely chill? Or why arguments escalate so fast, even when they start small? The secret isn’t avoiding fights altogether—it’s learning how to tolerate frustration without letting it take over. In this episode, we’re diving into: Why some people lose their cool instantly while others stay calm. How low frustration tolerance makes arguments worse. The brain science behind frustration and emotional reactions. Practical tools to build frustration tolerance and regulate emotions. Why This Matters: Arguments are inevitable, but how you handle them determines whether they bring you closer or push you apart. Learning to regulate your frustration can transform the way you and your partner communicate—so fights don’t feel like the end of the world. Your Next Steps: ✅ Practice pausing before reacting—take a deep breath before you speak. ✅ Use “I need a minute” as a reset button when emotions run high. ✅ If your partner gets reactive, don’t match their energy—stay steady. ✅ Try a 10-minute break when needed, then come back to the conversation. Key Takeaway: Frustration tolerance is the secret weapon to arguing better. By slowing down reactions and managing emotions, you and your partner can handle conflict in a way that strengthens—not weakens—your connection. Check out the Boss Babe Archetype Test Check out the Healthy Arguing Online Course Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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Stop Walking on Eggshells: How to Handle a Conflict-Avoidant Partner 11:55

9 weeks ago11:55

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Send us a text Welcome back to Relationship Reset! Are you avoiding conflict in your relationship, hoping it will just go away? The truth is, dodging difficult conversations doesn't make problems disappear—it makes them worse. In this episode, we're diving into why some people avoid conflict, how it impacts relationships, and what you can do about it so that you can communicate better and feel more connected. In This Episode: Why conflict avoidance happens (hint: it’s not just about fear of arguing) How avoiding tough conversations creates distance in relationships The difference between healthy space and emotional shutdown Practical tools for both the conflict-avoidant partner and the one who wants more communication How to reframe conflict as an opportunity for deeper intimacy Why This Matters: Conflict isn't the enemy— disconnection is . When we avoid talking about issues, resentment builds, trust erodes, and intimacy fades. Learning to navigate conflict in a healthy way strengthens your relationship rather than breaking it down. Your Next Steps: Identify your own conflict style—do you avoid, withdraw, or shut down? Try using the "pause and process" method before reacting in conflict. Practice curious, not confrontational language when addressing tough topics. Set a goal to have one open, honest conversation with your partner this week. Key Takeaway: Conflict can be uncomfortable, but avoiding it doesn’t solve anything. When handled well, tough conversations can actually bring you closer and deepen your connection. Want more tools to strengthen your relationship? Download my free Conversation Starters for Couples and start building better communication today! Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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Strong, Capable… and Disconnected? The Truth About Hyper-Independence in Relationships 12:24

10 weeks ago12:24

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Send us a text Welcome back to Relationship Reset! This podcast is dedicated to helping high-achieving couples like you transform your relationship from surviving to thriving. Are you the "I got it" partner? The one who takes on everything—work, home life, holiday planning—because it’s just easier if you do it yourself? Or maybe your partner is the hyper-independent one, and you're feeling more like a guest in your own home than an equal. Either way, hyper-independence can be a real relationship killer. In this episode, we’re diving into what causes hyper-independence, how it affects relationships, and most importantly, how to break the cycle before burnout and resentment take over. In This Episode: What hyper-independence is and where it comes from. How childhood experiences, past relationships, and work culture shape this mindset. The impact hyper-independence has on your relationship. Why shutting your partner out leads to disconnection and resentment. Practical strategies to shift from "I got it" to a more balanced partnership. Why This Matters: Hyper-independence may have helped you survive in the past, but in a relationship, it creates walls instead of connection. Learning how to allow support, trust your partner, and share responsibilities strengthens your bond and prevents burnout. Your Next Steps: Identify moments where you default to “I got it” and pause before responding. Practice small steps of delegation—let your partner take over a task, even if they do it differently than you would. Have an open conversation with your partner about where you both need more balance in responsibilities. Work on recognizing and challenging the belief that accepting help is a weakness. Key Takeaway: Hyper-independence isn’t about being strong—it’s about not knowing how to let someone in. True partnership comes from allowing yourself to receive as much as you give. When you create space for your partner to show up, your relationship becomes stronger, more connected, and more fulfilling. Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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We're More Like Roommates Than Partners- Now What? 10:55

12 weeks ago10:55

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Send us a text Welcome back to Relationship Reset! This podcast is dedicated to helping high-achieving couples like you transform your relationship from surviving to thriving. Feeling more like roommates than romantic partners? 😔 It's a common struggle for busy couples, but it doesn't have to be your reality. In this episode, we'll explore practical strategies to reignite the spark, deepen your connection, and rediscover the joy of being together. In This Episode: Why relationships often shift into "roommate mode" and how to recognize the signs. The power of curiosity and reconnecting with your partner on a deeper level. Practical tips for creating micro-moments of connection throughout your day. The importance of scheduling quality time for intimacy and fun. Strategies for overcoming resentment and reigniting passion. Why This Matters: A fulfilling relationship is about more than just sharing a living space and managing logistics. It's about feeling connected, supported, and loved. By prioritizing your relationship and creating opportunities for intimacy, you can reignite the spark and build a stronger, more passionate partnership. Your Next Steps: Ask your partner a new question about themselves today. Schedule an intentional "us" moment this week. Practice the six-second kiss rule. Surprise your partner with a small but thoughtful gesture. Shake up your routine and try a new activity together. Have an open and honest conversation about intimacy and connection. Key Takeaway: Even small moments of connection can make a big difference in your relationship. By being intentional and prioritizing your bond, you can move from roommates to soulmates and create a love that lasts. Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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Dear Katie: I Want More Freedom 24:28

13 weeks ago24:28

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Send us a text Welcome back to Relationship Reset! Ready to weather life's storms together and build a stronger connection? Let's do this! Life can throw some serious curveballs. From parenting challenges to health issues and everything in between, those unexpected storms can put a strain on your relationship. In this episode, we're exploring how to navigate those challenges together and build a stronger, more resilient bond. In this episode, we're tackling a "Dear Katie" question from a couple facing a particularly challenging season of life. I'll share practical strategies for communicating effectively, managing stress, and finding common ground amidst the chaos. In This Episode: How to recognize and address the impact of grief and trauma on your relationship. The importance of understanding and accepting your partner's coping mechanisms. Strategies for improving communication and avoiding the blame game. How to navigate disagreements about parenting styles and expectations. Why This Matters: Life's challenges can either strengthen or weaken your relationship. By learning how to navigate those storms together, you can build a deeper connection and create a more resilient partnership. Your Next Steps: Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about how you each handle stress and challenges. Practice empathy and understanding, even when you disagree. Set realistic expectations and boundaries for your relationship. Find ways to bring humor and joy into your connection, even amidst difficult times. Key Takeaway: Even in the midst of life's storms, you can create a safe harbor in your relationship by communicating openly, supporting each other, and embracing the power of connection. Resources: Check the book: The New Face of Grief Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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3 Small Ways We Break Trust 9:12

14 weeks ago9:12

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Send us a text Welcome back to Relationship Reset! Ready for another deep dive into the messy, beautiful world of long-term relationships? Let's do this! Do you ever feel like your relationship is slowly slipping away, even if you're not fighting constantly? It might be those tiny, seemingly insignificant moments that are breaking down the foundation of trust. In this episode, we're uncovering three common ways we break trust in our relationships without even realizing it. In This Episode: The impact of broken promises and lack of follow-through on your relationship. How can you create a safe space for your partner to be vulnerable and share their feelings? The dangers of micromanaging and how it can erode trust. Practical tips for rebuilding trust, including active listening, setting boundaries, and practicing self-awareness. Why This Matters: Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. When trust is broken, it can lead to disconnection, resentment, and even a breakdown of the relationship. Your Next Steps: Identify one area where you might be breaking trust with your partner. Commit to making a change and practice one of the tools or strategies discussed in this episode. Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about trust in your relationship. Key Takeaway: Trust is built (and broken) in the small, everyday moments. By being mindful of our actions and practicing healthy communication, we can create a relationship built on a solid foundation of trust and respect. Free Conversation Starter Cards for Couples Couples Goal Setting Workbook Level 10 Relationship Assessment Submit a Dear Katie episode question Follow Katie Rössler on Instagram…

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