How To Turn Mum Guilt On It's Head And Use It As Motivation To Get More Of What You Want The Best Self podcast

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Back at school, September was always a time for fresh starts. It meant a new school year, new pencil cases, new uniforms.. In this episode I question why did we ever stop seeing September as a fresh start? September is a great time of year to renew yourself and your business! Here are the highlights: (03:06) Fresh start affect (07:29) Take a step back (14:13) Questions to ask yourself (18:51) Detox…

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Your Emotions are a Call To Action - Here's How to Use Your Emotions to Guide You 24:09

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Had a bit of a rollercoaster week? Then you'll relate to this one. Today, I'm sharing lessons from Calvin D. Banyan's book "The Secret Language of Feelings" and trust me, it's a game-changer. We'll chat about 10 emotions, from fear to guilt, frustration to disappointment, and I'll share some tips on how to handle these feelings without letting them boss you around. So, get comfy, grab a drink and join me on this journey to make our feelings work for us, not against us. Here are the highlights: (2:20) Using feelings as a language to get back on track. (4:28) Allow your emotions to speak to you. (8:20) How to deal with fear (18:56) Loneliness and disconnection. (20:36) Using your feelings to strengthen intuition. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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Feeling Bored? Don't Feel Guilty! Here's Why Doing Nothing is Essential to Your Growth 25:27

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Ever found yourself fighting boredom or feeling guilty for not keeping every minute of your child's day filled with activities? Well, this episode is for you. Let's rethink boredom and see it from a different perspective. We'll explore how a slower pace and even boredom can be beneficial for our mental and physical wellbeing, especially in our digital age where we are constantly "switched on." I'll share my own experiences as a parent, having a child with autism and how I learned to embrace a different rhythm of life, and delve into the importance of boredom in sparking creativity and allowing space for reflection, and why it's so crucial for our children's development and our own sanity. So, come along, let's rise above the noise and distractions and normalise being present, being bored, and just being. This episode is your guilt-free pass to not being busy all the time. Time to celebrate slowing down! Here are the highlights: (2:07) It’s time to normalise a slower pace. (7:13) Boredom is vital for mental health and creativity. (9:27) How to be okay with being bored (16:00) Boring tasks can help with ADHD (21:36) How to switch off your brain. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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Stop Playing it Safe and Inspire Yourself with the Magic of Thinking Big 20:37

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In today's episode, I'm gonna take you on a bit of a journey. It's all about ditching the safe zone and daring to dream big, really big! It’s easy to get caught up in mum life and forget about our dreams. I'll be sharing some raw, real moments, especially those around parenting a child with additional needs. So, if you've ever found yourself playing it small, lost in the everyday grind, or simply want to feel that rush of dreaming big again, tune in! Here are the highlights: (2:31) How I lost my confidence and ability to think big. (6:38) The magic of thinking big. (10:36) The importance of having hopes and dreams. (12:18) Use your dreams to inspire you. (16:19) Questions that will get you to think bigger. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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How to Turn Mum Guilt on it's Head and Use it as Motivation to Get More of What You Want 41:09

2 years ago41:09

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In this week’s episode, I am taking a deep dive into mum guilt, sharing my own struggle with balancing parenthood and self-care. The instinct to protect our children, the lack of time, and the sacrifice of personal freedom all feed into the guilt we bear as mothers. My goal is to change the narrative around mum guilt, not just for you, but for myself too. It's time for some real talk. Let’s dive in! Here are the highlights: (2:40) What people don’t tell you about having children. (7:12) What is guilt and how is mom guilt different? (13:34) Sometimes mom guilt outstays its welcome. (17:45) Letting go of the pressure to be perfect. (23:21) The importance of being a happy mum. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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10 Questions to Ask Yourself to Move Towards a Happier You 30:37

2 years ago30:37

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In this episode, we dive into the paradox of feeling unhappy despite seeming to "have it all." We discuss the transformative power of asking ourselves better questions and how they can lead us out of our feelings of despair. I'll also share my top 10 questions that have guided me towards a happier self. Plus, we'll explore the therapeutic benefits of journaling, and how it can help us gain clarity. Tune in and let's navigate the journey to a more fulfilled and joyful life together. Here are the highlights: (3:00) Top 10 questions to ask your way to a happier you. (5:40) One of the most powerful questions. (7:24) Who do you want to be? (13:25) How to leave the world a little better than you found it. (16:07) Ask yourself what is my body telling me Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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Summer Stagnation - How to Not Lose Momentum On Your Goals This Summer 35:37

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Summer is here! As exciting as this is, it can sometimes mean that you end up slacking on your goals. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with taking a break. You definitely deserve it! However, I want you to enjoy this time without taking several steps back from all the achievements you've made so far. I'm here to provide you with practical tips so that we can design our summers and still strive to keep up with our goals. Highlights: (05:00) Stay on track (11:25) Get back into this motivation zone (14:23) Reframing my ideas (15:32) It’s natural! (21:24) A level of acceptance (26:25) Eat that frog! (27:41) Managing my input Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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Design Your Summer : How To Have The Experience You Want This Summer 41:04

2 years ago41:04

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Nicola Episode 24 Show Notes Fancy a fresh spin on summer? In this episode we talk all about ditching the 'perfect summer' pressure and just soaking up the now. We chat about juggling work and family, and dreaming of a summer that's nourishing, restoring, and all about connection. It's a game changer you don’t want to miss! Here are the highlights: (1:46) The importance of being realistic about summer. (9:50) The value of nourishment and restoration. (14:18) How to create a summer that fits your needs. (20:51) Getting prepared and organised for September. (24:22) What makes you feel great every day?. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk This podcast is proudly produced by the Podcast Boutique www.thepodcastboutique.com…

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Can't Switch Off: 5 Ways to Escape Urgency Culture and the Constant Need to Feel ON 34:13

2 years ago34:13

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I recently met up with a Mum friend of mine, and she did something that really irritated me... She spent the whole time we were talking on her phone. But as mad as I was about it, I know that I do it too sometimes! Our lives have become over-reliant on technology, on social media, and on smart phones. Life has become so urgent, and if we’re not constantly checking our devices we fear of missing out on something super important. So in this episode I help you get over your digital FOMO and learn how to switch off and escape urgency culture. You can do it, and I am going to tell you how. Here are the highlights: (02:07) Addicted to my phone (08:08) The social media generation (14:42) The pandemic has not helped (16:47) The backlash from flexible working (20:34) How to set boundaries and communicate them (22:46) What’s important and urgent? (28:02) Take back control of your screen time This podcast is proudly produced by the Podcast Boutique www.thepodcastboutique.com Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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EP 22 - Sober Curious: How I Gave Up Alcohol for a Year and Changed My Relationship with Booze 35:03

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When I was younger I used to enjoy a cheeky drink on a Friday evening. Or when I met up with friends. Or when we celebrated, well, anything. Or just because it was the weekend. You get the idea... Well today my relationship with alcohol is completely different. I no longer associate it with having a good time. I get to enjoy my life without the hangovers, and it feels great! Now when I go on holiday, I might have the occasional Aperol Spritz and that suits me just fine! So how did I go from wanting any excuse for a drink to 10 years of sobriety? In this episode I share my top tips, and show you how a slight shift of mindset can have extraordinary results. It all beings with one day at a time... Here are the highlights: (04:20) The irony of alcohol (10:02) Transitioning to a healthier lifestyle (12:50) Hold yourself accountable (18:22) How to eliminate the triggers (27:30) Don’t get fixated on perfect; focus on progress This podcast is proudly produced by the Podcast Boutique www.thepodcastboutique.com Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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EP 21 - Stop The Yo Yo Dieting & Try This 10 Minute Strategy That Works 21:31

2 years ago21:31

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Many clients that I work with in life coaching also come to me because they're not feeling comfortable about their body or health. This is often due to a lack of confidence and progress, so they feel very stagnant and stuck. One thing that many people don't know about me is that I'm a qualified fitness instructor and a qualified level three personal trainer. In this episode, I wanted to share how you can stop yo yo dieting without consuming a lot of your time. Here are the highlights: (2:19) Why willpower will only take you so far. (4:19) The answer is 10 minutes a day. (8:47) The 10-minute exercise. (11:08) It’s not about results but building new habits. (12:39) How to get started with exercise. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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EP 20 - Lacking in Productivity & Can't Focus? Give This a Try... 30:03

2 years ago30:03

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We all know that feeling where we say we’re going to work on this thing and then at the end of the week, we’ve not actually done it. Recently I was at a networking event and the topic of conversation kept coming up: the lack of focus. So, in this episode, I explore what not focusing looks like and share my top tips on things you can try to regain focus and increase your productivity. Here are the highlights: (3:09) Phone notifications. (6:21) Neurological conditions. (13:06) Your brain can be retrained. (15:15) The pandemic. (22:22) Start with the big things first. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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EP 19 - Are You Stuck in a Style Rut? 24:57

2 years ago24:57

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Fresh from doing a wardrobe consultation, which I've been doing since 2007, I wanted to share my tips for those of you stuck in a style rut. For those people who find it a chore to get dressed and are almost happy day to day just sticking on leggings and a baggy jumper, this episode will hopefully get you out of your rut and breathe some life into your wardrobe. Here are the highlights: (2:36) The signs that you’re in a style rut. (6:52) Why women struggle with their style. (8:55) The disconnect between you and your wardrobe environment. (10:35) Your wardrobe isn’t always the problem. (12:27) How to get out of a style rut. (14:58) How to detox your wardrobe. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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EP 18 - 8 Things You Do That Are Preventing Your Progress 19:56

2 years ago19:56

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I am here today to reach out to all of you who are ripping your hair out because you just can't get anything done. You don't appear to be able to make progress, you're not tracking towards your results, you're not having productive days and you seem to just be flitting from one thing to the other and not achieving any actual results. So, in this episode, I want to share my top tips on how you can start to get things done again. Here are the highlights: (4:25) Schedule in time to work on important things. (7:19) Get clear on what you want. (9:28) Let’s talk discipline. (12:48) Don’t catastrophise a possible outcome. (16:15) Coaching yourself towards better answers. Connect with me: Instagram / Facebook / Pinterest - @the.bestselfprojectuk Website - https://thebestselfproject.co.uk/ Email hello@thebestselfproject.co.uk…

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EP 17 - Overthink Much: How to Make a Better Decision 29:00

2 years ago29:00