Best Stop Attracting Toxic Partners Podcasts (2025)

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Designing Your Dream Life w/Sahil Bloom 55:31

7h ago55:31

55:31

This week, Scott sits down with Sahil Bloom—investor, creator, and New York Times bestselling author of The Five Types of Wealth: A Transformative Guide to Design Your Dream Life. Sahil shares his powerful philosophy that the most meaningful transformations in life come not from finding the right answers, but from asking the right questions. Togeth…

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Never Chase Anyone: You Can't Convince Someone to Love You 34:43

3d ago34:43

34:43

Trying to convince someone to love you is one of the most painful patterns to get stuck in—and it can quietly destroy your mental health. In this episode, Jillian goes deep on the emotional toll of chasing love that isn’t mutual. She breaks down why connection isn’t enough, what real commitment looks like, and why settling for someone who’s one foo…

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22 | Stuck in a Love Life Rut? Why You’re Not Getting What You Want & How To Fix It 30:31

9d ago30:31

30:31

Sometimes, it can feel like what we want is so far out of reach that it’s impossible to get, ESPECIALLY when it comes to finding a loving partner and an aligned, healthy relationship. Even if you have done work on yourself and you thought you’d mastered manifesting, sometimes we’re still not experiencing a reality that reflects what we want. It can…

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Introducing Her Love Upgrade 1:29

9d ago1:29

1:29

Hi Loving Soul, I'm honoured to be here serving you up everything you need to get you closer to the love and life you truly deserve! Let's get to it - Remy xox ✨ STEPS TO BEGIN YOUR LOVE UPGRADE ✨ 1️⃣ Subscribe to the podcast for weekly episodes. 2️⃣ Join our free community of like-minded, supportive women: www.herloveupgrade.com/community 3️⃣ Read…

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Mel Robbins: How the Let Them Theory Can Heal Your Relationships 1:18:29

10d ago1:18:29

1:18:29

Jillian sits down with Mel Robbins to unpack the Let Them Theory — a mindset shift that helps you stop trying to control others and start focusing on your own emotional wellbeing. They explore how the urge to control often stems from stress and fear, and how letting go can actually lead to deeper healing, stronger boundaries, and more self-trust. I…

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Breaking the Stigma w/Mayim Bialik and Jonathan Cohen 1:12:30

14d ago1:12:30

1:12:30

This week, Scott is joined by the multitalented Mayim Bialik and Jonathan Cohen. You might know Mayim as the star of Blossom and The Big Bang Theory, or as the former host of Jeopardy!, but she’s also a neuroscientist with a PhD from UCLA and the creator of the popular mental health podcast Mayim Bialik’s Breakdown. Jonathan Cohen, her co-host and …

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What to Do When Your Partner Shuts Down 32:23

17d ago32:23

32:23

As part of Mental Health Awareness Month, this episode explores one of the most destabilizing relationship dynamics: when a partner shuts down during conflict. Jillian coaches a listener through the emotional toll of being avoided and unpacks how this behavior impacts your mental health, sense of safety, and self-worth. With guidance on emotional r…

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21 | Missing Your Ex? Don’t Message Them, Do THIS to Take Back Your Power Instead! 25:12

22d ago25:12

25:12

Breakups don’t have to break you. In this episode, I share the raw truth about post-breakup panic and the paradigm shifts that helped me move from codependency to confidence — and attract aligned, healthy love. I’m the first to admit that I used to find it VERY hard to deal with breakups well. I was an emotional wreck every. single. time. and spent…

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How to Heal Your Relationship With Money and Scarcity with Lewis Howes 1:00:43

24d ago1:00:43

1:00:43

Your relationship with money is one of the most emotionally intimate relationships you have—and it’s time to start treating it that way. In this episode, Jillian welcomes bestselling author and host of The School of Greatness, Lewis Howes, to dive deep into what our financial habits, fears, and beliefs really say about us. Inspired by his new book,…

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Rise Above with Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman (Interviewed by Dr. Jonathan Haidt) 48:22

28d ago48:22

48:22

In a special role-reversal episode of The Psychology Podcast, Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman is interviewed by renowned social psychologist Dr. Jonathan Haidt to discuss Scott’s brand-new book, Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset, Empower Yourself, and Realize Your Full Potential. This powerful conversation explores how modern culture can reinforce limi…

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The Healthy Relationship: How To Break Destructive Relationship Patterns 45:09

1M ago45:09

45:09

We all have patterns in relationships—some helpful, some destructive. In this solo episode, Jillian breaks down the unconscious behaviors we fall into when we feel out of control—like fighting, fixing, or fleeing—and how they keep us stuck in cycles of disconnection. Whether you're single, dating, or deep in partnership, this episode will help you …

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20 | How People Pleasing Fuels Toxic Relationships - and the Bold Shift That Changes Everything 29:14

1M ago29:14

29:14

Ever feel like no matter how much you give in relationships, it’s never enough? You end up drained, anxious, or even resentful - despite your best intentions and big heart. In this episode, we’ll unpack why over-giving and people-pleasing may be keeping you stuck in toxic relationship patterns, and how this subconscious programming could be blockin…

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Micro-Cheating: Why It Destroys Relationships 45:53

1M ago45:53

45:53

Today, Jillian dives into a topic that’s quietly damaging relationships everywhere: micro cheating. What counts as cheating in the digital age? Is following an ex on Instagram a red flag—or just harmless history? If you've ever questioned whether your partner's behavior is crossing the line—or if you've caught yourself doing something you'd never d…

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Radical Listening with Robert Biswas-Diener and Christian van Nieuwerburgh 54:01

1M ago54:01

54:01

This week Scott is joined by Robert Biswas-Diener and Christian van Nieuwerburgh, pioneers in positive psychology coaching and co-authors of the new book Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection. Together, they share powerful insights on how to deepen our conversations and relationships through the transformative practice of radical listening.…

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19 | The 4 Things You Must Do After a Break Up to Heal Heartbreak 38:24

1M ago38:24

38:24

Healing after a break up? Sending you hugs - it can feel rough. I know this first hand… I had A LOT of practice with breakups in the 13 years I was stuck in a toxic cycle. Believe it or not though, there came a time when I had successfully healed my wounded inner parts, and overcome my limiting love blocking beliefs to the point where I didn’t need…

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Attracting Your Soul Mate and Manifesting Abundance with David Ghiyam 1:20:05

2M ago1:20:05

1:20:05

Today, Jillian sits down with David Ghiyam—co-founder of MaryRuth Organics and the leading expert of the wisdom of Kabbalah—for a powerful and candid conversation about manifestation, healthy love, and creating a life that feels aligned with your deepest self. They dive into the difference between attracting love and choosing it, how to move on fro…

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Jillian LIVE at 92NY: How She Rewrote Her Story & Reclaimed Her Power 1:06:07

2M ago1:06:07

1:06:07

In this special LIVE episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with Case Kenny at the iconic 92nd Street Y in New York City during the launch of her new book, It Begins With You. Together, they unpack the nine hard truths about love that can transform your life—starting with the one relationship that matters most: the one you have with yourself…

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18 | Is Your Boundary Ruining Your Love Life? 5 Shifts to Safely Stop Dating Self-Sabotage 33:19

2M ago33:19

33:19

Are you keeping yourself hidden away behind a bullet-proof boundary that’s keeping you safe from heartbreak, but stifled from love? While building high walls might seem like the best way to keep you safe from potential pain, there’s a better way to stay protected AND safely allow in abundant love… which is what your True Self wants, for all the rig…

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Multiple Intelligences w/ Dr. Howard Gardner 1:06:47

2M ago1:06:47

1:06:47

In this special episode, Scott welcomes the legendary Dr. Howard Gardner, a developmental psychologist and professor at Harvard’s Graduate School of Education. Best known for his groundbreaking Theory of Multiple Intelligences, Dr. Gardner’s 1983 book Frames of Mind challenged the traditional view of intelligence as a singular ability measured by I…

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17 | Can You Fix a Narcissist? 27:39

2M ago27:39

27:39

You are a loving, caring, loyal woman who is dedicated to your relationship. BUT you know in your heart that something’s not quite right here… Your partner is hard to deal with and their needs come first… but when it’s good, oh my! it feels AMAZING. You think “If only I could fix them, this relationship could be amazing all the time” ...so you try …

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Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People 49:32

2M ago49:32

49:32

If you feel like you're stuck in a loop of dating people who can’t—or won’t—go deep with you, this one’s for you. Jillian is diving into one of the most common relationship patterns: attracting emotionally unavailable partners. This episode is all about increasing self-awareness, challenging the labels we put on others, and learning to recognize pa…

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How to Become a Master Communicator with Jefferson Fisher 1:13:48

2M ago1:13:48

1:13:48

In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian sits down with renowned trial attorney and communication expert, Jefferson Fisher, to discuss the art of navigating difficult conversations with confidence, clarity, and connection. Whether it’s a tough discussion with a romantic partner, responding to gaslighting, a workplace negotiation, or a friend dis…

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Magic, Skepticism, and Success w/ Dr. Richard Wiseman 1:06:16

2M ago1:06:16

1:06:16

This week, Scott is joined by Dr. Richard Wiseman, a psychologist renowned for his work on magic, illusion, deception, luck, and self-development. As the UK's only Professor of the Public Understanding of Psychology at the University of Hertfordshire, Dr. Wiseman has published over 100 academic papers and authored bestselling books such as The Luck…

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The Red Flag You Must Never Ignore 41:04

2M ago41:04

41:04

In this episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian answers three listener questions. She unpacks the red flags when a partner still longs for their ex, challenges a listener’s fixation on finding their "ideal" partner, and offers a fresh perspective on dealing with an overbearing mother-in-law. If you’ve ever struggled with relationship uncertainty, this …

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16 | Narcissist and Toxic Relationship Recovery Groups on Facebook - The Lowdown! 39:48

3M ago39:48

39:48

Have you come across one of the myriad of Toxic Relationship Recovery groups on Facebook? Whether you are in a toxic relationship and looking for advice on how to deal with an abusive partner or narcissist, or if you are in the healing and recalibration phase after a breakup, it's likely that your search for answers may have led you to one. As a re…

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Masculine and Feminine Energies Explained with Dené Logan 1:02:27

3M ago1:02:27

1:02:27

Today, Jillian welcomes couples therapist and author Dené Logan to explore how true healing in relationships begins within. Drawing from her new book, Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within, Dené shares powerful insights on taking 100% responsibility for our own energy, embracing shadow work…

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Does Telepathy Exist? w/ Dr. Diane Hennacy Powell 1:02:21

3M ago1:02:21

1:02:21

This week, Scott is joined by Dr. Diane Hennacy Powell—an integrative medical doctor, neuropsychiatrist, and researcher of extraordinary states of consciousness. Dr. Powell's research explores the neuroscience behind psychic phenomena, telepathy, and the incredible abilities of autistic savants. She is the author of "The ESP Enigma: The Scientific …

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How To Master Self-Awareness & Growth in Relationships with Yung Pueblo 1:08:13

3M ago1:08:13

1:08:13

Jillian sits down with Diego Perez, known as Yung Pueblo, to explore themes from his upcoming book, How to Love Better. They discuss how self-love and healing directly impact relationships, the power of meditation, and finding harmony with your partner. Diego shares his personal journey from a tumultuous past to a thriving marriage, offering practi…

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15 | Why You’re Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners - The Neuroscience Behind Toxic Relationship Patterns 28:09

3M ago28:09

28:09

School holidays are over - YIPPEE!!! I can actually finish a thought and have time to do other things than make 25 snack plates a day and keep two children busy 😅 It's SO good to be back, podcasting and serving clients! Thank you for listening and keeping in touch over the past few weeks... it totally filled my cup! It sounds like the rebrand reson…

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The Dark Night of the Soul: How to Move Forward After Life’s Hardest Moments 50:12

3M ago50:12

50:12

Today, Jillian explores the profound and often painful experience of the dark night of the soul—a period of deep existential crisis triggered by major life changes such as breakups, loss, or a sense of stagnation. She breaks down the misconceptions around this challenging phase, explaining that it is not a punishment but a natural part of life’s ev…

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A Legacy of Social Psychology w/ Dr. Elliot Aronson & Dr. Joshua Aronson 1:18:12

3M ago1:18:12

1:18:12

In this special episode, Scott is joined by two legendary figures in social psychology: Dr. Elliot Aronson and his son, Dr. Joshua Aronson. At 93, Elliot Aronson remains a towering influence in psychology, known for pioneering the Jigsaw Classroom—a groundbreaking cooperative learning technique that reduces interethnic hostility and enhances learni…

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How to Love Yourself: 9 Lessons In Radical Self-Worth 48:29

3M ago48:29

48:29

In this special Valentine's Day episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian shares nine essential, yet often overlooked, lessons in self-love and self-acceptance. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, these insights will help you cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, make better choices, and create healthier relationships. Fr…

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The Signs You're Dealing with a Narcissist: Dr. Ramani 1:11:19

4M ago1:11:19

1:11:19

Today, Jillian speaks with renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani to unpack the true meaning of narcissistic relationships and why the term is often misused. They explore the red flags, the psychological toll of these relationships, and why leaving can feel impossible. Dr. Ramani shares expert insights on healing, setting boundaries, and breaking fr…

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How To Help Children Thrive in the Age of Uncertainty w/ Dr. Tovah Klein 58:19

4M ago58:19

58:19

This week Scott is joined by Barnard College Professor Dr. Tovah Klein. Scott and Dr. Klein discuss her groundbreaking research on child development including the importance of being a safe anchor for your children by providing them safety in their worst moments, accepting them for who they are, and being there for them no matter what. See omnystud…

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The Psychology of Love Bombing - How to Spot It & Protect Yourself 32:08

4M ago32:08

32:08

Share Your Love Dilemma Love bombing—it feels like a fairytale romance at first, but beneath the grand gestures and constant affection lies one of the most manipulative tactics in relationships. In this episode, we break down the psychology of love bombing, how it works, and why it’s so easy to fall for. You’ll learn how to spot the warning signs e…

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Stop Chasing Love: How To Love Yourself by Letting Them Go 51:46

4M ago51:46

51:46

Today, Jillian tackles one of the hardest truths in love: you can’t convince someone to love you. She shares heartfelt advice and personal insights from her book, It Begins with You, while answering two listener stories—one about heartbreak after years of unreciprocated love and another about the pain of sudden rejection after a first love. Through…

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How to Make a Marriage Thrive with Valeria Lipovetsky 50:54

4M ago50:54

50:54

What’s it like to marry someone 18 years older and build a thriving relationship through life’s many changes? In this episode, Jillian sits down with Valeria Lipovetsky—model turned entrepreneur, mother of three, and content creator—to explore her journey of love, growth, and resilience. Valeria opens up about navigating an age gap marriage, the wi…

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Finding Balance In The Age of Indulgence w/ Dr. Anna Lembke 55:19

4M ago55:19

55:19

This week Scott is joined by Stanford Psychiatrist and addiction expert, Dr. Anna Lembke. Scott and Dr. Lembke discuss how to reset your dopamine system to take back control of your life and turn the things that you really want into their own reward. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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Find Healthy Love: How To Break Patterns and Heal Your Relationships 52:14

4M ago52:14

52:14

In this very special episode, Jillian shares the first chapter of her transformative new book, It Begins with You, launching TOMORROW, January 14th. Centered on the empowering truth that every relationship begins with the one we have with ourselves, Jillian dives into themes like personal responsibility, breaking unhealthy patterns, and learning ho…

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14 | 5 Step Somatic Self-Soothing for Healing Post-Breakup Heartache 21:48

4M ago21:48

21:48

Are you suffering with physical tension and discomfort caused by the heartache of a breakup? When our emotions manifest somatically, it can be a powerful sign that our unconscious is trying to tell us something very important. So how do we listen in? My favourite way is this easy, gentle and loving 5 step process - and I'm delighted to share it all…

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From Anxious To Secure: How To Stand Up For Your Needs 51:14

5M ago51:14

51:14

In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of Jillian on Love, Jillian reflects on her own experiences of feeling powerless in relationships and the journey to reclaim her voice. Featuring a heartfelt reading from her new book, It Begins With You (out January 14th), she shares raw insights and practical tools to help listeners identify their ne…

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Best of 2024- Reclaim Yourself w/ Emma Seppala 46:44

5M ago46:44

46:44

Happy New Year! As we prepare for the new season of the Psychology Podcast, here's one of our favorites to get you through the holidays. This week Scott is joined by happiness researcher and best selling author, Dr. Emma Seppala. Scott and Dr,. Seppala discuss the concept of “sovereign", an emancipation from all the ways you subjugate yourself in y…

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Best of 2024- How to Feel Alive Again in a World That Wears Us Down w/ Corey Keyes 1:00:58

5M ago1:00:58

1:00:58

Happy New Year! As we prepare for the new season of the Psychology Podcast, here's one of our favorites to get you through the holidays. This week Scott is joined by sociologist and psychologist, Corey Keyes. Scott and Corey discuss the pervasiveness of languishing in our society today and how to feel alive again. Dr. Keyes explains the 5 psycholog…

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Stop Setting Goals & Making Vision Boards--Do THIS First! 12:00

5M ago12:00

12:00

In this powerful episode, Rainie Howard challenges the traditional approach to goal-setting and vision boards. Discover why setting a strong spiritual foundation is the essential first step to manifesting your dreams and achieving lasting success. Learn how aligning your mind, body, and spirit can unlock clarity, remove energetic blocks, and transf…

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Relationship Goals For 2025: Embracing Growth, Self-Worth, and Connection 45:06

5M ago45:06

45:06

As we close out the year, Jillian offers a heartfelt guide to self-reflection and personal growth, exploring key questions that illuminate how we navigate loneliness, shame, and emotional discomfort. She shares actionable advice on building healthier habits, strengthening relationships, and approaching conflict with empathy. Jillian also discusses …

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13 | I Don’t Belong In This Club! The Best Way to Meet Potential Partners… Without Nightclubs, Bars or Online Dating Apps 22:57

5M ago22:57

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Are you wondering where to begin when it comes to meeting someone new? Does it feel like meeting someone who is worth your time and energy is almost impossible? Maybe you’re even doubting whether you’re meant for love, or thinking that the only people left are the dregs that no one wants… While you might have spent much of your late teens and 20’s …

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The Black Cat and Golden Retriever Theory: Truth vs. BS 57:02

5M ago57:02

57:02

Jillian unpacks the viral "Black Cat and Golden Retriever" dating theory that has taken over social media. She explores its heteronormative roots, its misguided take on relationship dynamics, and why it sets people up for failure. She dissects the archetypes of the aloof femme fatale and the obsessive pursuer, shedding light on how they perpetuate …

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12 | The EASIEST Way to Spot Red Flags in a New Relationship 15:21

5M ago15:21

15:21

I know you’re scared about being burned yet again… pouring time, energy and love into a relationship that ends up causing heartache and sometimes in quite a traumatic way because you’ve felt blindsided in the past. Cutting yourself off from love might feel safer, but there’s a part of you that still truly wants a loving, kind partner to dance throu…

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Overcome Your Trauma With Happiness w/ Karen Guggenheim 48:18

5M ago48:18

48:18

This week Scott is joined by author, speaker and pioneer in the global happiness movement, Karen Guggenheim. Scott and Karen discuss overcoming trauma with happiness, how happiness can be learned by making small daily changes, and how to use compassion to overcome diversity. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.…

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11 | Should I Leave My Partner? 3 Clarifying Questions to Ask Yourself Before Breaking Up 17:10

5M ago17:10

17:10

Need more clarity before you break up with your partner? This one’s for you. Tune in to Ep.11 for 3 powerful tools that will help you to make a decision that you’re at peace with. It took me YEARS and many failed relationships (including a marriage!) to work out these gems, and I’m so excited I get to share them with you to save you the time, energ…

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