29. You Are Perfect: The Foundation of True Self-Love

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I learned something essential about myself and how I do business, and I share this insight with you in this episode.

Many times, we think that we can’t do things the “right” way, or that we should be different in some way, shape, or form. I felt in this trap, too. But I am so glad I “woke up” and noticed what I was doing.

I am also sharing here the main foundation of everything I teach and believe. If you've ever felt like you're not enough, like you should be more disciplined, better, different—this is for you.

I want you to understand why YOU are perfect.

Not in the robotic, flawless way we imagine, but in the real, human, soulful way.

I am sharing with you my own journey, from the day I held my newborn son and truly saw perfection, to the ways we all absorb outside expectations and end up fighting who we are.

We are talking about:

✅ Why "perfection" isn’t about never getting angry or messing up

✅ How our stories about ourselves shape our reality

✅ Why you don’t have to change because you’re “bad” but can grow because you’re good

✅ How to build a loving, honest relationship with your true self

This is truly the core idea behind all my coaching: Radical self-acceptance

• Why true transformation starts with love, not shame
• How to challenge the belief that you’re "not enough"
• Questions to help you see your own perfection
• The difference between changing for love vs. changing for fear

What if you asked: “What is actually so wrong with me?”

How would you describe your true self, beyond your body or emotions?

How can you begin talking to yourself with love?

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